Honestly: Does he like me or not?

Question

So there's this guy who's some of my classes and I'm not sure if he likes me. Last year his look was kind of nerdy; glasses, bad haircut, ugly clothes. But he's always had a lot of friends. Recently he completely changed his appearance; new clothes, contacts, adorable haircut.

Even before this happened I liked him a little and now I'm majorly crushing on him. Everytime I look at him he's ALWAYS looking at me and I can tell that from the corner of my eye too. Whenever we pass each other in the halls he always makes eye contact. And when he sees me walking towards our class he'll start talking really loud and just draw attention to himself.

But the thing is that he's never talked to me. Once I had to ask him something, and at first he wouldn't respond, then I was like 'omigod' to my friend sitting there and he finally answered, in the lowest voice ever. I felt that was rude, or maybe shy on second thought? Btw, I'm not gonna lie, I'm pretty goodlooking, not to sound conceited lol!

Thanks sooo much everyone, but I don't think I can choose a best answer since everyone's own personal views helped in different ways. I think I'll try talking to him soon and see what happens ;)

Answer 1

Stay away from him...he doesnt want to flirt with you around his friends. HE likes you but doesnt want to be around you with them. I had a guy like that last year. It made me SO mad that i loathed just looking at him. He just wants to be around the REALLY hot girls, and pretend he's TOO cool 4 anybody else...just take my advice. Act like u hate him and give him the cold shoulder...if you...wadaya know! He might change and like you more!

Answer 2

*Hmm...

...Yeah it sounds like he does like you, if you always catch him staring at you. Then again you two could just be looking at the "right?" time at each other, or maybe he's not looking at you, he could be looking at something behind you or someone else too. (It happens.) but yeah I think he's checking you out.

.Now when you try to talk to him, because he likes you...he will naturally be shy. So don't get all "OH MY GOD" to your friend when he doesn't answer you in 1 second after you ask him something. For all you know maybe he's never had girls approach him and talk to him, or whatever.
....so cut the guy some slack.

....all I can tell you to do is to keep talking to him and be persistant. because when you tried talking to him last time and he didn't respond...then you said "oh my god" to your friend, he might have thought you came off bitchy, and maybe that's why he didn't care to talk to you?. You have to think of all the possiblilities.

.....So just keep talking to him and be nice will ya?

....geez....

....alright have fun and good luck with that.

Answer 3

Honestly, I think he likes you too! So is he really shy or what? If he's timid with everyone else (and not just you), then he's really shy. You've got to work to little harder on him then. lol I mean you can flirt a little, smile a lot, make eye contact, make small talks, etc., etc. Eventually, he'll come around. If he's soooo cool, then it's worth the extra work and the wait, right? Good luck, girl....and stay happy.

Answer 4

O M G. This is exact same situation happened to me last year!!!! Ok well I knew him previously, but start talking to him like conversations. Be kinda..not really hard to get, but go up to him sarcastically and be like "HEY! CAN YOU HEAR ME??" and when he looks at you funny be like "Ya the last time I tried to talk to you, you barely looked at me. Then answered in a low voice. So I'm hoping maybe this time you'll answer me and we can talk." Then start finding out about him. He might like it if you confront him that way. Maybe who knows. Or say hey to him in the hallway and start talking about whatever class youre going to next or what lunch he has or something. Good luck this guy sounds alright!

Answer 5

It sounds like he's super shy. He probably liked you before, but didn't know how to approach you. He probably thought that a good looking chick like you wouldn't be into him, with his "nerdy" look and all. Now that you're trying to talk to him, he probably doesn't know how to react because he's "in shock", so to speak. It seems like you'll have to be gentle with him, warmly smile at him, go up to him and start a conversation (when no one else is around). Be gentle around him, meaning, if he stutters or says something weird, try not to judge him; just smile and nod. It'll make him more confident and comfortable in talking to you.

Answer 6

I'm sure he's shy or nervous. I think he definitely likes you though. And considering he was a nerd and he maybe didn't talk to girls much. When I met my girlfriend, I almost couldn't say anything to her even though I'm a social guy, but I got to know her and we are crazy about each other. Give it time, make him talk and get to know u, and maybe something good will happen

Answer 7

Make the 1st move... if you really want something, go for it. Otherwise you'll regret it after. What do you have to loose? Specially if you are good looking! Nobody ever died from starting a conversation... at least you'll know where you stand.

Answer 8

To tell you the truth it seems like he does, since he makes eye contact with you and he talks louder when he notices that you are around. It seems like he is putting himself out there to you for you to notice him. Go talk to him and let him know that you are interested. You never know what could happen.

Answer 9

he may be attracted to you, but that doesn't mean that you two are made for each other. try becoming friends, actually talk to him and have real conversations. hang out on the weekends or something. and then if you still feel the attraction, maybe there might be a relationship there.

Answer 10

Whatever happened to you talking to him, yes you have had a question, and he answered, quietly, OMG thats so rude. But seriously, he may like you but he could be shy, make the first move.