So one of my best friends told me he was in love with me a couple months back, ever since then he has been trying to initiate a relationship with me, but i have declined time after time. Months ago i fixed his myspace page for him and he really liked it. I offered to fix his page the yesterday and he said to go for it, he told me he would email me his password. earlier today (iv been home all day) i called him to get his password, and he didnt answer, so i signed onto his name, because i remembered his password from before.....*with no bad intentions, just to fix his page*....so i signed on......well my computer automatically turns on myspace im...which is regular....but then he started getting ims.. i was just clicking them off... and then the person says, "you know i miss you, and i love, especially ****** me"..i was like whoa..whos he sleeping with(the default pic was of a baby)...and i opened it. and it was a dude....What do i do?? Iv already altered his page so he knows i was onit
2007-05-09 10:18:44 · 10 answers · asked by me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well you allready played it off leave it alone.Just continue being friends with him Im sure he'll open up soon he's just passing himself off towards you obviously you didn't fall for it.Or maybe that was a way for him to tell you he's gay.Hmmmmm..!
2007-05-11 06:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way you talk I would say you really don't know what the gay community is all about. I am 6'2", 225 pounds of muscle and I am gay and I could kick the crap out of any guy you know and if I saw that shirt on you and knew who you were, well I would tear the shirt off of your back and let you walk home topless.
2016-05-19 02:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest with and tell him what happened and apologize. If he wants to discuss it further, then you can respond. If he doesn't want to discuss it then I wouldn't discuss it any further with him than that. Afterall, you found out this information by accident. You can't go back in time and change it, of course, but it really is his personal buisness so there's no need to talk about it further than an apology unless he wants to talk about it.
2007-05-09 10:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new e-mail and avoid him like a plague this is too weird for you to be involved with, what has he been sticking his thing into, you don't want none of that.
2007-05-09 10:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax.
its his life.
Don't make try to hide away from it.
And definitely don't make things akward by starring at him and all. Its his life. And it 'll only make things tougher for him if you make a big deal about.
Just try to be open and un affected by it.
good luck
2007-05-09 10:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by movngfwd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want apologize and just talk to him like a friend.
2007-05-09 10:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, then he couldn't possibly be gay, that means he's cheating on you with other guys :S if thats the case then good luck
2007-05-09 10:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by its_keeps_getting_better 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to find out what is going on. you need to talk to him.he problay afaird to talk to you.but talk to him .if he you friend and he tells you straight out he gay except him gor who he is .
2007-05-09 10:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by daisydolphinlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look what you did to him. he gave up on girls because they kept turning him down like you did.
2007-05-09 10:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by womanlover 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. he is probably afraid. If he is your friend then be his friend
2007-05-09 10:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋