Ok. guys I appreciate the advice, but maybe I should have been more clear. In the two years we've been together we split up for three months and during that three months he got her pregnant while I was already two months pregnant with his son, and two months after finding out i took him back. Do you still have the same advice. I really want to hear from u.
2007-05-09 07:46:44 · 11 answers · asked by msgemini82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly the two of you were not together at the time.
but he should have honestly used some kind of
protection , well i know that it is not your problem
having two babies right back to back, but it will
cause some problems in the future. and it is some
what unfortunate that you didn't know he had some
one else pregnant when you two got back together.
i think if you plan on staying with him and if you can
accept this child into your life then there is probably
a chance for the two of you. you really need to think
about this and if this is something you are ready
for? what ever you chose to do i wish you the best
of luck....... you need to speak with him and see what
he wants in all of this..
2007-05-09 08:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm at the moment pregnant with my 2d baby, and that i have an 18 month previous son. i became fearful too, and that i nevertheless am at circumstances. in spite of the indisputable fact that, the previous couple of weeks my son has quite change into...properly, somewhat more effective independent. we are nevertheless going to have 2 in diapers, and my son loves all of my interest. yet, I were giving him more effective freedom and he appears to be like taking area in it. i guess what i'm attempting to say is that no count what hindrances are thrown in our way, us moms can ascertain them out. i understand my mom had 4 little ones in 5 years; the first 3 all 11-three hundred and sixty 5 days aside. i understand if she were given by it, i visit too. And if i visit get by it, so are you able to! Granted my little ones will be truly farther aside in age than yours, yet i understand it should be finished, and also you may do the superb that you'll do!! i don't believe of the problem will pass away till your next toddler comes alongside, and also you and your spouse and youngsters get right into a groove. good success to you and your little ones!
2016-11-26 22:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, while you are pregnant you split up and he finds someone else and gets her pregnant and you want to know if you should take him back???!??? The guy can't stay committed to anyone (even his own child). I would dump him and start getting a life.
2007-05-09 07:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt answer your first question, but went back and read it. I think since this woman was never part of his family he needs to tell her to stop coming around. He is the baby's father and should have his visitation with his child, but he doesnt need any futher contact with the woman. If she wants the child to go to the family gatherings then she should tell him, but she has no business attending these functions.
2007-05-09 07:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a bad situation. However, you have the babay together, so you're kinda stuck with him forever, as well as this other baby mama. If you can't let go of the jealousy, and the time THEY will need to spend together for the other baby, you are going to have to walk away.
2007-05-09 07:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater but if you love him enough then dont worry about that he cheated on you leave the past behind you and remember that you want your son's father to be with him..
2007-05-09 07:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by {~~~} LUV YA ALWAYZ & $ EVA{~~~} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of people who are in or have been in this situation but I don't know what your original question was.
2007-05-09 08:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is the same. She is the one who is not respecting you and your family. You have him so you don't have anything to worry about.
2007-05-09 07:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... Howbout you dont take the bastard back??
trust me, my son's father is scum-- it's so much easier not to have all that drama.
2007-05-09 07:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the original question?
2007-05-09 07:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋