im 19, im not married, but most married people say they hate it....why? What do YOU hate about it.
2007-05-09 08:42:49 · 28 answers · asked by woah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think if you hate being married it is becuase their spouse has grown lazy and is not be the partner they said they were.
2007-05-09 08:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by thirdeye67 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been married twice. Once very unhappily. I hated it, not so much because of marriage per se but because the person I married was not a good fit for me. We had nothing in common and no connection.
I've been married for the second time for over a year now, and I absolutely love it. My husband is truly a gift from God and I cannot imagine being happier with anyone else.
So it really isn't marriage that is the issue; the real issue is the quality of the relationship.
2007-05-09 11:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not perfect, but it is a very nice thing.
The posts you see about people that hate being married is because they chose their spouses badly. They got married too young, for the wrong reasons (like a pregnancy or to get away from your house), or they thought this other person might make them happy.
Occasionally, people who are in love and marry grow apart. Love can change and so do people in a marriage.
But that doesn't mean everyone hates it. It just means not everyone chooses well and not everyone takes advice.....
So keep your ears and eyes open when you look for a boyfriend and a future husband.
2007-05-09 08:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for close on 24 years, I have always been able to explore sexual fantasies with him and shall we say I am not bored, I get better orgasms now than when we first got married as I was totally inexperienced, yes there are times when things slow down and as the children grow up, you find ways of having date nights - maybe the in-laws can babysit, or you have a friend that sleeps over to look after the children whilst you and hubby stay out for the night - when my children where small, we had the best plans of going out and party all night, but found that we chickened out and instead we would go out, have a few drinks, go to the hotel wake up when we wanted to, have fun, have a shower, have full breakfast that someone cooked for you and be refreshed to see the kids once again. Marriage is a bed of roses, you need to take the thorns with the flowers
2016-04-01 04:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for almost a year and a half. I've been with him for almost 7 years. I LOVE being married. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life because we made those vows, and I get to spend the rest of my life with the person that I love more than life it's self. I think it's amazing!!!! I can't imagine ever hating being married. Obviously, if someone hates being married, they aren't with the right person.
2007-05-09 09:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love being married. I am married to my best friend. Marriage is something you have to work on, it just doesn't happened. I know some married couples that hate it but their is a lot of married couples that love it. I couldn't image not being married to my awesome wife. I have been married for 15 years not every year has been awesome, but we both took a oath to God that death due us a part. So marriage can work if both people are committed to making it work!!
Good Luck
2007-05-09 10:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by jackson0202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry if your see that but i love being married there is nothing more powerful then know that i have a mate at home that will love me and take care of me and i feel great that i have someone to take care of to. it make me strong in my job and in my life goals.
For the last 50 years marriage has been under attack no one believes in it anymore. There been to many hurt people out there from cheater to abusers and they have made marriage look bad. Today kids think that marriage is a joke. An they do not see the power of a strong marriage. ex: (if there is a powerful family there is a powerful marriage that hold it all together. if there is no marriage there i a high chance of lose power in your family. Do to not happy struck shur)
2007-05-09 08:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont hate being married. I got married 2 months after I turned 20. It will be four years in August. We have had our tough times, but we still love each other dearly.
2007-05-09 08:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married for 4 years and i LOVE being married. i love my husband and my life with my husband
those who say they dont like being married, shouldnt BE married in the first place
you are 19 and too young to worry about being married
2007-05-09 08:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by buffywaldie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people hate being married because today is not about two people being in love instead its about lifestyle, big houses, expensive cars and trucks, and all the bells and whistles. I will say this again you can not be in love with lifestyle and be in love with your spouse or intended spouse at the same time it doesn't work that way.
2007-05-09 09:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by koolhand_kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, girl, we "all" don't, it's just that this site seems to be full of people having marital problems. I wish the Marriage part was separate from the Divorce part! We've been happily married over 17 years, siblings on both sides of are family are as well, have many friends with great marriages.
2007-05-09 08:50:39 · answer #11 · answered by Lydia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋