If the person is having another companion other than married one, who is also married, they both are in the middle of their married life with kids, but dont want to disturb their married life (which will affect on their kids upbringing ) Still they want to continue this companionship till life long, coz they deeply love each other, respect each others family, can't live without each other, finds completeness , security with each other, do not have any financial or materialistic need to satisfy, shares the same proffession in real life, known as best friends by other people. They want to continue this relationship life-long like the married couple without bringing to the notice of outside world except God coz they think that God has only united them to make them COMPLETE. Advice on how to live this companionship happily. Strongly believes that PLEASURE is always followed by PAIN & vice versa. Also to make any relationship successful, it is needed to make ADJUSTMENTS & SACRIFICES.
2007-05-09 01:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure you can it’s your life! The only criteria that can get affected both of yours personal married life as both of you will not be able to keep the same matrimonial/conjugal relationship with your respective spouses as it was before your indulgence in this companionship with each other. Your individuals spouse will not get the same love & affection from you which they had before nor they'll be able to continue with you if they are exposed to your relationship. There will be similar effect on your individual kids too & they will find blame in you for their disturbed family life with parents & that will be true also. In case you indulge is casual sexual relationship once or twice without much sentimental indulgence in this affair you could forget it with time but when you continue it for longer time with a sentimental attachment then this result in total split of yourself in two personalities , a spouse to your spouse & a companion to your companion, here you have to be emotionally attached with both the persons at the same time which is physically & mentally not possible with the result it can spoil both your personal as well professional life too .
2007-05-09 01:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you to feel that strongly about each other why not divorce from your families and become a family together.That way you can get your pleasure,pain And make all the necessary adjustments And sacrifices that you need to make your relationship successful.Truthfully; I think that you need to snap out of this dream that you are in.If you cant live without each other why are you still with your spouse&vice versa.Love should not be hidden It should be seen.Once you snap back into the real world of reality you will see that this was only a dream.
2007-05-09 09:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the Love between them is without Sexual lust it is good can say a God gift otherwise a foundation stone of Adultery. After some time married life of both will be disturbed & their own families alon with kids will be disturbed resulting break up.
Being good friends they can share thoughts, help each others family at the time of distress, sacrifice for each other ignoring their self interest & the same will be appriciated by their families plus society.
Purety & Sincerity in their love is a must both can do efforts to make each other's married life happy instead of indugling into Adultary. Their true love can be their love to God like "Radhey Krishna"
2007-05-09 08:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ur trying to do is have ur cake and eat it too. This isnt possible things could go up in flames if found out of ur so called "companion" which is a safe term instead of saying what this is truly. Cheating!!! Can u be happy cheating and living ur married life. NO! You need to come clean and release ur spouse and let them move on and find a person that truly deserves them.
2007-05-09 11:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This friendship would be OK only if
1) No physical contact at all .
2) No hidden meetings.
3) No private Emails or Text messaging
4)Both the spouses aware of it and approve it.
If you don't meet this criteria then obviously you are committing adultery . Think how would you feel if your spouse was having a relationship like yours. You will be running to the courts, wouldn't you.
2007-05-09 11:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're both living on lies, adultery, dishonesty. Both of you are living in a fantasy without regard to your spouses and families. When your bubble bursts, and it will eventually, leaving nothing but despair. Please do not blaspheme with God's name, the two of you are not living/behaving morally/ethical lives. You give a good example that evil walks among us....I pity you
2007-05-09 08:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adultery is adultery no matter what the fancy words you use to describe it...you included God...so I will too...
To God adultery is a sin!
So why would God bring two people together to sin? He would not.
You are both committing adultery...if you can live with that then that is your decision.
It (adultery) is not what God wants in any life as it is sin!
Jeese
2007-05-09 08:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are just having an affair with demented minds.
I say demented, because of the fact that their using their children and GOD to try and justify they're sex life. Well, their children and GOD will eventually show them that this is not going to work, because this is just outright evil.
2007-05-09 09:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK bullsh*t shame on both of them and what their kids will think after they find the true and will they (kids) ever respect him or her ever again it shame our world is turning in to hell no one care about their self respect, honestly
2007-05-09 10:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are one of the low life of this society. Have you no shame?
2007-05-09 10:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋