Truth is.
I'm starting to love my boyfriend
I'm writing poetry for him {afraid to show him thou}
I really want to tell him i love him.
But what if he doesn't have those feelings for me?
I told him i have something for him. {the poems}
Now he says he has a "note" for me.
I don't know what this note is. but, i told him
I was afraid to give him my gift
Should i tell him i love him? Or should i wait?
He's really shy like me, It took him 20 mins of silence on the phone for him to ask me out
He writes me little bulletins on myspace
I love Lauren forever x100
And has I <3 Lauren on his myspace, and me all over his site
But i just dont think he will ever be able to say it to me.
What should i do?
2007-05-09 00:39:57 · 14 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Plus if he doesn't feel this way about me...
Then it might push him away because i'd be moving to fast. Ladies what should i do? What should i look for? Guys what do you think about this? If a guy puts a girl all over his whole myspace... does he even really like her? Love her possibly ? I know this is sort of childish, but i am truly stuck. Usually the guys say it first. sooo idk
2007-05-09 00:41:35 · update #1
Get his note first and see what he says. If he is expressing love for you, then you can go ahead and write him your poems.
2007-05-09 00:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is all about taking chances...obviously he likes you quite a bit as you're all over his myspace etc*..YES he may be Shy and not able to tell you that he 'loves you or really likes you alot'..I would give him your poems, you'll have to make the first move then i'm sure he'll express his feelings for you...I'm thinking., he's just not sure where your heart is right now if it's fully on him* so let him know that by giving him your poems. I'm sure the 'note' he has for you may say how much he cares for you and doesn't want to lose you. He may be thinking you want to break it off with him*.....Communication Honesty and Trust are the keys to a long healthy relationship...without those you have nothing* So be Open and Honest/Truthful with him....communicate that with him and everything else willl fall into place* Best Wishes* Keep on SMilin*
2007-05-09 00:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Skye. Well to me when you have a feeling towards him then it is better for you to speak to him and try to get the note from him and read it first before you start to give him your poem. After you have read the note then if you are still shy to express your feelings towards him then it is better for you to send him an e-mail or an e-love card so that from there you can express your feelings and also you can send the poem thoghehter and for sure after he reads it he will feel more confortable and he will surely reply it and ask you for another out so that you'll guys can understand each other better and well in more deeper ways. Try this and hope it might help you.....
ALL THE BEST......
2007-05-09 00:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why pretend, just give him the (good) poems and say they are how he makes you feel. I'm 100% positive he will be going through the same thing. Imagine how strong a relationship you will have if you lay your cards on the table and say how you feel. If my misses wrote me some love poems i would feel like the King of the Universe. So don't bottle out, if he makes you feel that way he deserves to know, just like you want to know if he loves you.
2007-05-09 00:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Chris EFC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... Well, firstly, with your comment that "usually the guy says it first", not true.. I told my bf i loved him waaaaaaaaay before he said it to me.. I knew he wouldn't say it back then, but he did eventually say it. He had been hurt so bad by his first love.. I could call her so many names under the sun 'coz what she did to him was so heartless.. Anyway, sorry, off track.. I don't know how long you've been together, but if you feel it, I think you should tell him. First tell him that you're scared about telling him & you don't want him to run away, but it's how you feel & you should be able to express your feelings without being afraid. That's what I think anyway. Good luck. Hope it all goes well
2007-05-09 00:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzy309 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he and how old are you?
Either way, if he's got you plastered all over his Myspace then he's really into you. If he's really shy like you say, then he's just waiting for you to show him that it will be ok for him to tell you how he feels and that it won't scare you away.
2007-05-09 00:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even trip. He'll tell you how he feels wen the time is right. Most guys are insecure when it comes to these things. If he doesn't feel the same way then he is a waste of time anyway.
2007-05-09 00:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heya how long have you been with him...its possible to fall in love after a month...you need to tell him how you feel!
i did n ive been in the realtionship for 3 years now :)
be confident hel say it back if hes got u all over his space
2007-05-09 00:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he maybe shy, but if her already has that he loves you on his myspace then he does feel something for you, why not write something on your myspace telling that you love him and then ask him if he saw it and check for his reaction and take things from there...
2007-05-10 11:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, you should not be afraid to tell him how you feel. be honest with him, and maybe, most likely, he likes you loads too...probably even loves you...well i'm a girl, and i really liked this guy and before i told him how i feel, i asked him hu he liked...and he told me that he liked me...then i told him that i liked him too...thats how our relationship started...maybe you could ask him how he feels about you...he should be honest with you about his feelings and you should be honest with him about your feelings too. tell him how you feel, tell him you love him... and if he actually doesnt have feelings for you, accept it, and move on...i'll pray that it wont happen that way for you.
May God bless your relationship with him, and may it all work out well!
2007-05-09 00:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋