Family & Relationships - 12 April 2007

2007-04-12 04:47:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 04:46:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year, I posted two questions about my friend liking the guy I like. Please read them before answering this. Thanks! Well, she finally admitted that she liked him from September to December last year. She said she couldn't tell me cos she knew it would hurt me but she told the rest of the school. And now, I feel an idiot for trusting her in the first place. She makes me so angry sometimes but other times, I feel she is the closest person to me. I want to tell her that I want a period where I test her friendship but how do I do this? Do I just say it and should I do it face-to-face? I won't see her till next week and by then, it will look like I'm making a big deal. I'm really hurting inside from her mistrust but she did say sorry. Please help me figure out what to do... any advice will be gratefully taken. XD

2007-04-12 04:45:51 · 8 answers · asked by CityGirl21 4 in Friends

2007-04-12 04:39:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 04:39:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-12 04:37:46 · 12 answers · asked by Gary R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-12 04:28:36 · 40 answers · asked by meji 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-12 04:27:07 · 29 answers · asked by tamparav 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm so confussed! I told two people who I wanted to go to prom with then I turn around and after school yesterday I was talking with my friends and ther basketball coach was there and they all started talking about prom. I said " hey how does everyone know"? They said" it got around" then my friend Seth said Ow I want to go to prom with you" out of now where I didn't know what to say . but then we all went over to see one of my friends tj wrestle this one kid rickey. tj totally wipped rickeys butt.. Then my friends paul, ben and mark where talking meanly about me and I was just standing ther and seth said kand have a seat next to me but I told him I can't there's someones bag here he said here they don't need it i'll move it. and then he said "Stop making fun of kandra there's nothing wrong with her. I said thank and he said any time. seth is like a brother for to me and he stands up for me always. I think he likes me but i'm not sure?

2007-04-12 04:25:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I did home stay for about a year (Japan) at my host family's place 4 years ago and they treated me like a real daughter. I'm studying in the same country now, but a different prefecture and go over to visit them during holidays. I never felt anything for him until I visited early this year. Somehow, I felt myself seeing him in a different light and I didn't know what to make of it. The feelings grew stronger and I really looked forward to spending time with him.He's single, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, and what some people would term an "otaku" (likes anime, manga, PSP, etc...).Sometimes when we're alone together, it seems like he shows more affection towards me than he usually does. I don't know what to make of all these and I don't know what I want.I've even thought of seducing him but... If things go awkward or anything then I'll hurt not only him and myself, but my host family as well...The age difference doesn't bother me but the commitment level is going to be hard to deal with.

2007-04-12 04:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by tefutefu 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you love one of your children more than the other? Do you love your child more than your husband?

2007-04-12 04:23:22 · 11 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3 in Family

2007-04-12 04:23:00 · 3 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Friends

Ok their is this guy and he has been in a serious relationship for along time and told me he would ask this girl to mary him if he had money for a ring but whenever im working with him he always flirts with me well it seems like it anyway and he slaped my *** and it seems like he always wants to touch me, he always hugs me and touches my hand and i dont know what i should tell him because hes one of my good freinds.

2007-04-12 04:22:31 · 4 answers · asked by kcb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When i want someone I can never get a guy. But when I decide to accept being single and just be happy...dudes are asking me out!! I'm truley happy being alone and I like not having the drama a boyfriend brings. Plus I'm ultra busy and have little time to spare. I'm cool with going on dates, but I avoid them because I know these guys want more, and I don't. C'mon, why do guys want girls who are content being single and avoid the girls who want a realationship?

I know this doesn't descride every guy , but it sure does seem to be the pattern in most cases.

2007-04-12 04:22:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They seem to care about me but they only show it when I'm in danger of some sort. And the only time my dad ever hugs me is when I get good grades. And the only time my mom ever looks at me is when I've done myself up for a tea or something. Otherwise they ignore me. Recently I got my grades back and I'm doing really badly. My dad isn't talking to me. I guess that means he's lost hope of ever loving me. My mom doesn't know. She doesn't really seem to ever know what's going on in my life anymore. She probably wouldn't care, anyway. My parents never talk to eachother, anyway. They have separtate rooms. Maybe they should just get divorced and we maybe we would have two functional homes rather than one dysfunctional one. Maybe it would be best if I just got a job and moved out. Then my parents might miss me. Well, I doubt it. So, what do you think I should do? Get good grades and dress up like a doll, and get fake love from my parents? Or be myself and be ignored?

2007-04-12 04:19:45 · 22 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Family

My wife and I are seperated. She has been talking to a man, who is Turkish and is 4 years younger then her? We have three young children together who are all with her. She wants a quick divorce so that she can merry this man who she claims she is in love with. He is here on a work visa which expires soon which is why she feels the need to rush. I am very concern as this guy sends all his money home to his family, is young and has already commented on her being too fat or big. My wife is slightly over weight, has three young kids already, terrible credit, no job at the moment and does suffer from depression. There are warning signs all over the place and she refuses to listen to me. I feel I need to do something as this is happening way too fast. I have heard the stories about how a lot of Turks use older women to simply get visas to stay in the US. In her state of mind I know there will be serious issues if he is just using her. She can not provide him with anything. What can I do?

2007-04-12 04:13:28 · 30 answers · asked by george_smith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know someone who never plans to get married in the future because he's afraid that any woman might not like him. he has a horrible academic records. Everytime he feels that he's falling for someone from a relationship that started with a fling, he tends to hold back. He'd be hurt to know that he's not worth living with because of his bad life in the past. However, he landed on a good job...

what if a woman is in this situation...

2007-04-12 04:02:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 04:01:06 · 13 answers · asked by BabyGurl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

face to face but insisting on the Parantal coordinator to be present. He is a liar and very biased in his decions favoring her. He has twisted facts and goes behind my back with recommendations to the court without consulting with me that favor her, has lied in front of me in her presence renigging on statments he made prior. He has nothing to do with me and the new guy. I am filing complaints against the PC. I want to meet him to talk about issues concerning my son, they want to move 2 hours away, my son has big issues with this guy that I am certain he has not been told by my ex. I want to know who this man is and how he is as a person, caring person? will he support my son and I or restrict visitation as my ex has done so often, especially 2 hours away if this move occurs, what are his paternal and child caring abilities, does he care for my son's feelings regarding the move or his presence - my son can't stand him, does he have sincere feelings towards my son and my relationship?

2007-04-12 03:59:20 · 7 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was told by the biological mother, before the dad and I married, that the kid's schedules, etc. were between her and him. Now that we are married and I am the f/t step-mom and my schedule is greatly affected by their choices, is it too much for me to expect to be included in the communication of plans? I'd love to hear from other's who have been in my shoes. Many thanks in advance.

2007-04-12 03:57:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife of 10 years ran off with a coworker 5 months ago. She told me that she was unhappy. I was doing really well and the divorce anger finally got to me. I called her a wh*re. I feel like crap now because now she can justify her affair with him and everybody. She had sex with me the night she left me for him so I just kind of called it how I saw it. I'm thinking of going to therapy because how could I love someone and call them that? She is the mother of my two kids and yes I still love her and I know it is over. We had what I thought was a good marriage and I honestly think she was happy until she met him. Was this bad to call her that and a few other things? Should I get help because I do not want to be verbally abusive towards anybody not even my ex who cheated on me. If I am being verbally abusive does therapy help?

2007-04-12 03:56:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-12 03:51:26 · 7 answers · asked by ahayes346 1 in Weddings

I love a woman who seems like my perfect soul mate to me. She's everything I have ever dreamed about in what I perceive as my soul mate.
I hurt when she hurts and feel so happy when she's happy, She says she doesn't feel as strongly toward me as I do her but we are very close. She is used to her man treating her like a dog. I'm wondering if she's so used to being controled that she feels uncomfortable with me telling her how smart and motavated she is. Is it possable she's afraid of making her own decisions for fear she could be stupid and fail like her previous men say she is?
I'm not going to treat her bad so she likes me better if thats whats wrong with us.
What can I do?

2007-04-12 03:50:33 · 17 answers · asked by dan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After the whole Paris thing, I thought it would be a good idea- you know boost my modeling career! So anyways, I guess it didn't work but I still made tons of money off of it. Should I tell him or just hope he never comes across it?

2007-04-12 03:50:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My hubby was to suppose to Deploy last week,but they extended it a few days(which is Tomorrow)What special thing can i make for him to take with him?.I made him a small album with some of our pictures.What else can i make for him??.something small that he can take.( asap) PLZ .thank you.

2007-04-12 03:49:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok this is a hard situation im in and i really would like to see other peoples outlook on this.- ok 3 years ago my mom met this guy at our church, so they were friends first and his family would hang out with our `family anyways during that time i started to hang out with his son, so after awhile my mom started dating him and then his son asked me out so we were dating too. it as casual at first but then 2 years later my mom and his dad get married- and me and his son are still together! we have been seriously dating for 3 years now( the same as our parents but our parents have been married for a year now) so now we are technically step brither and sister but we are still in love with each other and he wants to get married. evertone thinks its weird that im with my stepbrother but its not like that- we wee together way before our parents got married, i just dont know how to deal with this because we really love each other. my question is what would you do in this situation honestly?

2007-04-12 03:48:41 · 36 answers · asked by Jesus luver 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and if not then why are the men still with their woman? don't they understand that it makes their spouse feel not good enough for them and that is usually when the cheating starts?

2007-04-12 03:48:38 · 11 answers · asked by biznitchil 4 in Marriage & Divorce

why cant most men seem to grasp the fact that in nearly everthing women are eqal to us ???

2007-04-12 03:47:06 · 35 answers · asked by jackmeeko 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

who spit in his fiancees face and pushed her to the ground? Or should he show a little tough love?

2007-04-12 03:40:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do you feel like your an embarrassment in family just because your not always happy???I feel like I get used in the house because whenever the whole family is sitting together in one room my mother always tells me to do everything and not my brother and my brother is one year older than me so why is that???

2007-04-12 03:40:41 · 22 answers · asked by Jasmeet P 1 in Family