Family & Relationships - 12 April 2007

We broke up last year for about 6 months & he of course found someone else quickly. He was only with her for 2 months but she got pregnant. He wasn't sure it was his & honestly thought it wasn't but got a DNA test done to make sure. She even let him know there was a slim chance that he wasn't. He just got the results 2 days ago. When we got back together, he was completely honest with me about the possibility that it was his; he never tried to hide it from me. I was just being naive believing that it wasn't his. They've worked out a schedule for both to have the baby at different times. I, however, am not sure if I should stay in this relationship. I don't want the child as a constant reminder (though I do not blame the child) but I also don't want to lose my bf either. I don't know if I can handle all of this & I don't know what I should do. He wants me to stay but says he would understand if I left & wouldn't blame me for it. What should I do????? I'm so confused...

2007-04-12 05:56:47 · 22 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it sluty to have dated no sex no nothing just going out on dates with 21 guys and you are 14 years old in the 8th grade and you started dating in 6th grade and now you are in 8th grade.

2007-04-12 05:56:44 · 3 answers · asked by softballchick33 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 05:56:35 · 12 answers · asked by ~Kat~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 05:56:28 · 2 answers · asked by mickymo1 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex have been broke up for 2 months. i've been having these thoughts of her getting back with my friend because they dated before we got together and he told me stuff they did and i compared are relationship, i'm a little jealous and i'm fighting it. i know why i keep feeling this way but i just want to know if this is normal and if anyone else has been through this and what did you do?

2007-04-12 05:54:46 · 6 answers · asked by kramerc5075 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 05:54:24 · 24 answers · asked by coldkiss 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What kind of woman do men respect?

2007-04-12 05:53:01 · 29 answers · asked by butterfly 3 in Singles & Dating

i found out he was bi the day i broke up with him and now i really up to turning bi just to be able to date him agian

2007-04-12 05:52:54 · 15 answers · asked by Tess 1 in Singles & Dating

My bfriend and I were together for almost 7 years. We started dating when we were both too young to be serious. He cheated on me 2 yrs into the relationship. After he realized what he had done and apologized, I took him back. However, not only did I keep my guard up so I wouldn't get hurt again, I was also a horrible person to be with. If I said I was a b*tch to him, it wouldn't describe what I put him through. But he stuck it through to show me that he really cared about me. Life experiences and a lot of maturing have helped me change. Our relationship was better than perfect in every aspect.........
He was recently becoming extremely mean and careless. I realize he should have never put up with me before, however, now he tells me he sees what type of person I am because I won't take a little change from him. I'm an emotional wreck. I know it's my fault he's like that now, but I'm still in love him. I keep holding on to what we were.

Should I hang on or let go?

2007-04-12 05:51:53 · 15 answers · asked by Elsy 1 in Singles & Dating

well i just want to ask what husbands need from their wives..and how can a man worship his marriage and when does he regret getting married...what do husbands think the marriage life is?and what is happiness from their point of view...its just i feel that i am trying to get close to my husband but dont know how...i just cant understand him...and thanks...

2007-04-12 05:46:47 · 7 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22 and my boyfriend is 13 years older than me at 35. The age gap has never bothered me before, but last night I found myself thinking that when he is 60, I will only be 47. I have an image in my mind of an old grey haired man and a still young-looking 47 year old... and it's actually starting to bother me.

Have any of you stayed in a relationship with an age gap and then gone off the person as they got older? Or has it all worked well for you?

I'd really love to hear your experiences, as I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and love him very much!

xx Emmie

2007-04-12 05:46:33 · 22 answers · asked by Sparklepop 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 05:43:17 · 15 answers · asked by smarty 2 in Friends

My fiance says that I am naive about things. I ask questions during movies that are science fiction or just complicated. He doesn't understand why I can't keep up with the movie. He has a IQ of 150, and I don't. Sometimes I miss things in movies so I ask. Should I do this, or just keep quiet?

2007-04-12 05:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by nancygirl1953@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-12 05:42:30 · 11 answers · asked by coolprince n 1 in Singles & Dating

Why cant i stop thinking about her?
My girlfriend broke up with me almost 3 months ago. Recently she accused me of some things i didnt do and now we are no longer speaking. For some reason i cant stop thinking about her.. i know this isnt healthy but i dotn know what to do. Everything reminds me of her.. I hear i song on the radio i think of her.. i watch baseball i think of her.. SHe never really provided me closure and I probably wont get that opportunity (at least for a while). What can I do? I can barly eat, I barly sleep, she is the first and last thing i think about in the day. THIS ISNT HEALTHY and quite frankly I dont want my life going into a downward spiral because of it. what can i do?
the police were involved at one point (she went psycho on me) so i cant just call her and talk to her. if anything i have to write a letter if i want cosure.. but i cant send it for a few months due to the magnitude of the accusations. I should just say screw her but for some reason i cant

2007-04-12 05:41:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

[12:38] Exteel pro: k thi s a serious rl question
[12:38] Exteel pro: been wit my gf
[12:38] Exteel pro: 5 years
[12:38] Mr.0wnager: remember cybers rl question on yahoo
[12:38] Exteel pro: and after all this time
[12:38] Mr.0wnager: thats where u should post this
[12:38] Exteel pro: no...
[12:38] Exteel pro: do u thinkl
[12:38] Exteel pro: i should
[12:39] Exteel pro: just get her preg
[12:39] Exteel pro: and make a baby
[12:39] Exteel pro: or just break up wit the ***** anbd fine a new wify
[12:39] Exteel pro: ??
[12:39] Mr.0wnager: sec
[12:39] Exteel pro: cmon
[12:40] Exteel pro: dont post thatb sht
[12:40] Exteel pro: wtf


what should he do?

2007-04-12 05:41:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-12 05:40:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been having problems for some time. We have had some trust issues and I have since filed for divorce. My divorce will be final in June and he insists that he wants to try to make it work. I have tried and so has he but we just seem to get stuck in the same rut. There is a horrible vibe in the house. We have two small children and he says if I leave he will have to live at work to pay for the house which I am leaving. He will not be able to afford the house and child support and he tells me that I will never make it on my own and I will have to live in the slums someplace and he does not want to be a part time father. Everyday when I get home from work he just had a mad look on his face and he wears the same red sweat shirt every day. I cant stand to look at his face anymore. I just want to get out but what about my kids. I dont want to mess them up!!! They are 3 and 1

2007-04-12 05:38:06 · 19 answers · asked by L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was thinking about wine glassed with our names and wedding date etched on them, but im going flasks for the bridesmaids/groomsmen with their intials.

Anything else creative, fun, and cheap that any of you can think of? Any ideas are MORE then welcomed!
:D

2007-04-12 05:35:44 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

I've just found out that he's having an affair. N i'm having real trouble controlling myself from having a showdown. My mom n my sis have no idea about it. Nor does my father know that i know. N i'm at my wit's end as to how to deal with it.. N my biploar is not helping me much either. I mean, it's just recently that i was diagnosed with bipolar n then within 2 days i stumble across this. I really can't understand what to do. I'l appreciate your help.

2007-04-12 05:34:54 · 18 answers · asked by dizzy 2 in Family

Okay, my husband has been divorced for a while, well since their daughter was 8 months old and she is 6 now. We have been married two and half years. The ex-wife doesn't want me to have say in anything. So, I have backed off. Yet she makes comments to my husband about how she thinks I steal her daughters barettes and hair things for my own child. My stephchild is bi-racial and wears really big barettes. My daughter is white and is 1 so she has very little hair and it is blond and fine hair so the hair stuff she puts in her daughter would never work in my daughters hair. I think she does this stuff or accuses me of stuff to cause problems. I don't understand she is remarried. I want to just blow up on her, but I don't for my husbands sake. How can I keep my sanity. She is very rude to my daughter and even told her own daughter that my little girl was ugly and she shouldn't play with her. How would you handle this?

2007-04-12 05:34:11 · 22 answers · asked by MommyofTwo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This question, I feel, relates to reality. I read a question about a women saying she was thinking about having sex on a 2nd date, and almost every answer I read was saying how you should wait until you get to know the person or until you have feelings or emotions.

1) What I want to know 1st, is who really still does that?

2) If the sex if bad and you wait till you feel something, then how does that really work for you?

3) How many people really marry a person who they wait to sleep with this day and age?

4) Sex is suppose to be in intimate act & for some it is, but do you really think that every time u have sex it's going to be some secrete spiritual experience?

5) How many men really think that every woman who gives it up easy is a hoe?

If you talk to some of them u would know. Some men really have good game & some women could have had a dry spell & now see an opportunity. That does not make her a hoe.

6) Why are women acting like they don't want it like men?

2007-04-12 05:32:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It is clear I should not go out with daniel but how do I tell him off when I sort of like him??? I want to be clear that I don't want daniel saying that to me but how do I tell him not to talk to me ever again??? scroll down to read my previous question for more info.


previous question:
mark has been my best guy friend for as long as I can remember. people always tell me I should go out with him. this other boy I like, daniel, likes to annoy me. he will randomly come out behind me in the halls and say "I'm going to kill you" then gives me this creepy look. he acts serious when he says it but he is joking. I wanted mark to meet daniel and mark was like "I don't need to meet him, I already know who he is, I saw you talking to him earlier". is mark jealous? when daniel comes out of no where to talk to me and say that, is he trying to flirt with me or just annoy me? help!!!

2007-04-12 05:32:18 · 7 answers · asked by Eliza 3 in Singles & Dating

Here's my problem, I know this girl for years now (since 6th grade) and now I'm a senior and we are good friends, we always have classes together, and I didn't liked her but lately I'm starting to like her more, I mean she talks to me during class almost all period, we're always together she loves to be with me in school, I always make her laugh, we both share what we feel or our goals i the future., she walks home and takes the bus with me home, and She has lots of confidence on me, she trusts me alot, BUT the problem it's that she already has a boyfriend. and what's weird to me it's that when she talks to me she just tells me experiences with her boyfriend, you know how's their relationship, WE're good friends but my question is " Is it bad when she talks to me about her boyfriend? is she letting me know something?

And is there a chance that she likes me for more than just a friend? even though she has a boyfriend.

2007-04-12 05:31:40 · 1 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband hates to clean. I understand that, but we both work full time and I am 31 weeks pregnant. I clean everything, i do dishes, laundry, and everything. The only way to get him to clean is to get in a fight about it and then he will help out really good for a couple of days. How do I get him to get into routines to help out. I have tried talking to him about it. Last night I went out to a friends bridal shower. I left a list on the board of things that needed to be done around the house, hoping he would think oh i should do that for my poop pregnant wife, but no! he sat at home on his butt and watched tv. What do i do? Help!

2007-04-12 05:31:23 · 13 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i split up after 6 months... he said we have gone too far sexually, but we havent even had sex. he says he feels like hes using me...but i dont feel that way. he still wants to "casually date" but im not sure what to do. any advice?

2007-04-12 05:27:25 · 7 answers · asked by Mego 2 in Singles & Dating

In public?

2007-04-12 05:25:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When a man is attracted to a woman and she does not put out easily, does this make a man realize how much worth she has? Because when he finally does have intercourse w/her is it that much more worth it?

2007-04-12 05:25:07 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

What would happen if next time I saw a women breast feeding in public, if I went and sat down next to her and whipped one of mine out?

2007-04-12 05:24:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband forgot to sing out of myspace and yahoo. I found emails he sent to girls. He sent one saying we were divorced and he didnt have have feelings for me anymore and he has been chating with other girls on myspace. Telling them he is falling for them and they are pretty. we have been married a year and we have a 7 year old. This has been going on since before we got married. I am shocked. He would take me to work them come back and chat. To me this is cheating. what would you do if this was you. Ladies only. thank you confused and hurt.

2007-04-12 05:22:58 · 16 answers · asked by COUNTRY GIRL 2 in Marriage & Divorce