i found out he was bi the day i broke up with him and now i really up to turning bi just to be able to date him agian
2007-04-12 05:52:54 · 15 answers · asked by Tess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what should i do
2007-04-12 05:53:05 · update #1
Unfortunately he ain't the man for you cause men like that all he have in mind is 3 somes and guess what it leads to heart ace and head ache. Do what you think is best for you and not for him. Don't do things to please another person do things that make you happy. You have to look at things as sometimes its all about you. For someone to want you to turn bi he don't want you for you or even loves you. I know you love him but there are bigger thing out there than just having fun. Keep in mind not every one tell you if they disease free or etc
2007-04-12 06:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many, many joys and pleasures in the bi experience - take it from me I am bi. Only go bi if you are curious or want to do it - you'll probably find that you enjoy the sex with another woman, just as much as with a man.
Don't go bi just to get him back though - I would tell him to go stuff himself - go find yourself a new woman or man.
If you need any tips as a novice on making out with a woman - send me a mail - happy licking!
2007-04-12 05:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please realize that this is not love. Why turn and become something that you're not all because you want to be with your ex. What he really want from you is just SEX. This have nothing to do with love. Please realize you are worth more that being used sexually because that's what its all about.And from that point either your ex or yourself will become bored and will be challenged to take things to another level.
And when you take issues to another level, you will find yourself at a place you never imaged being. People who participate in those type of actions are empty shells with no feelings or any traces of emotion in their lives.
You sound like a person who deserve the love of her life, someone who could truly love you withou asking you to defile yourself. You must believe you are worth receving the right type of love.
I know you have feelings for him but in time you will be alright. All of us experienced going through heartache but guess what, we survived it.
My advise for you if not to follow this trend, it may seem like a lot a fun or the cool thing to do but in the long term if you decide to go there that void that you feel on the inside will remain.
Take as much time as you need to get over him. Realize that he playing a deadly game with his body. Your life is too valuable, I'm saying this because there are too many young adult getting AIDS/HIV and just in case you don't know...there is no cure.
Think about it...you're worth it.
2007-04-12 06:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got misplaced count variety what proportion circumstances i've got informed my pals that love is a paradox, that it hurts so indescribably, so unimaginably terrible. Love songs make alot extra experience now do not they? If I have been you, there has already been doubt and lack of self assurance on your dating. so because it is a demonstration which you're actually not meant for one extra. best suggestion is to pass on pondering all i be attentive to is that she has have faith subjects now. Sorry, yet dealing with this occasion many circumstances i've got discovered to easily enable pass. settle for closure. it is going to likely be a extra powerful decision I promise. better of luck to you!
2016-10-21 23:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do something you might regret over a guy. You must be yourself, reguardless of the cost. You think he's worth it now, but what happens when he's not worth it anymore? Just don't do something you don't want your family to know about...these things don't stay hidden!!!!
2007-04-12 05:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't just go bi
its not changing socks..
to be Bi you have to be physically attacted to both girls and boys..
if girls don't interest you sexually they aren't going you can't force something like that..
so its either something your into.. or your not..
I don't think I would take his request to seriously he should want to be with you because he cares about you.. not because of your sexual preferences..
2007-04-12 05:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called manipulation. And as long as he knows you are still in love with him, he may manipulate you into doing whatever he wants. Don't give in. If you're not into it, then dont do it. In the end you're being used, and why waste your love on someone who is using you.... move and and find somebody that is worth it. good luck!
2007-04-12 05:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by kristi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you he would have been honest with you from the start. Dont even do it if he just wants a three sum or sum fun with you thats all he ever wanted. he never cared about you.
2007-04-12 05:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he want you to be bi? That makes no sense whatsoever. Is he looking for a mff threesome?
2007-04-12 05:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Vegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turning bi? either you are bi or you arent. nothing wrong with experimentation, but dont be someone you arent.
2007-04-12 05:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by fippypoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋