2007-04-12 05:42:30 · 11 answers · asked by coolprince n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The simple answer is NO. But you reap what you sow. If all you are looking for is action, then don't expect more and don't expect that everyone else is shallow.
2007-04-12 05:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The decision is ultimately yours but you have to decide if you want companionship or not. I know it's hard to love and it hurts like hell to do the work that is required to love and maintain a relationship, but then again look at the alternative.
You could just use people that are going to come and go and not have any real significant meaning in your life, that maybe fun for a while but you'll eventually get tired of all the shallowness or you can take a vow of celebacy & be alone for the rest of your life the choice is yours.
2007-04-12 05:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noone is forcing you, If you enjoy the single life or like to play the field a bit (if you know what i mean ;P) then go for it. But if u suffer from that infliction called loneyness then get yourself a pet. They are cheeper to look after & they wont send you mixed signals.
2007-04-12 05:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean...ur question is waaaaay too generic..but let me guess..from the way you ask..u'd probably been hurt baaaad before and now u found/a bit keen with this one sweet & good girl that u think is good for you...
right?
The answer is let your heart choose and let it go with the flow..
I always don't understand why people make love as a decision when it isn't the least bit like that..its not ur mind who decides, its your heart-your soul...
Love comes from ur deepest soul...look into it and go with the flow.. let your heart take you to places..though u have been hurt - everyone has (no doubt)...Once everyone will get hurt by the one and only person that he/she thinks .."he's the one"..
But in the end,u loose her/him...Just let it go, never look back..
After months...u'll recuperate..
But the key to anything connected to love... IS YOUR HEART..
Follow your heart... it will take u to beautiful places which u never dream off...
(i know im talking crap,im just trying my luck reading ur heart & mind...)..
Take care..
2007-04-12 05:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only when u think u really have to if not i would only be involved in your own love realationships not other peoples cuz somehow u might mess up and it'll come back on u! that is my best advice for your questiion
2007-04-12 05:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbellgrl114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you CAN not involve yourself in love relationships. love is a double-edged sword. with it, you feel better than you ever could without it, but you also feel worse than you ever could without it. i equate it to being on an emotional rollercoaster. i'm a little manic-depressive, so maybe its just me. but you can stay safe in the middle ground without love, or risk yourself and live life to its fullest.
2007-04-12 05:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by fippypoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Plus, you can be a friend to lots more people that way as your time isn't taken up so much.
2007-04-12 10:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by bebop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you don't want to. However, you can't control your heart or mind sometime.
2007-04-12 05:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by Winter Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you want to.
2007-04-12 05:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT compulssory!!
2007-04-12 05:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋