Family & Relationships - 12 April 2007

MY EX. WAS STUPID AND HE TRIED TO CUT HIMSELF BECAUSE I LEFT HIM FOR A BLACK GUY.....

2007-04-12 08:50:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Love Her ...when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you

Love Her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you

Love her...when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her...when her cooking is bad. She tries.

Love her...when she looks scary in the morning. She always fixes herself up again.

Love her...when she makes you watch corny love dramas while the sport is on.

She wants to share these moments with you.

Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.

Love her...when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.

Love her...when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.

Love her...when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her its what you've always wanted.

Love her...when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay

Love her...when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and rent any movie with Vin Diesel (trust me this works!)

Love her...when she asks you to handle the kids. She trusts you for better judgement.

Love her...when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass

Love her...when she stains your clothes. You needed a new shirt anyway

Love her...when she argues. She only wants to make things right



All these things form part of a woman's character.

This woman is part of your life and should be treated as the queen she is.

Take time to make her feel special in every way.

LOVE HER for the woman she is!

Woman enjoy the person that you are

2007-04-12 08:49:20 · 13 answers · asked by dodo 2 in Singles & Dating

fight, argue, bicker, in either a serious or playful way. specify.

2007-04-12 08:44:58 · 16 answers · asked by bruce_eel 4 in Family

I startd seein this guy that I have been attractd to for along time now, he's friends w/ my ex boyfriend & had a past relationship w/ my bf. we knew it was wrong from the begining but chose to keep seeing each other on the under. I really started to fall for this guy & I thought he felt the same way. My bf ended up finding out & now our friendship is over. My ex boyfriend has suspectd somethin was goin on but doesn't know for sure. My ex has calld the other guy to hang out w/ him and they have a few times w/ my ex not knowin what has been goin on. Me & the guy ended the relationship this week & now I feel like I made the biggest mistake in the world. I don't know if I should tell my ex about it or not. I lost my bf now but I was only willing to risk it bcause I really cared about this guy, it wasn't just a fling for me. Should I tell my ex about it?? once he finds out he's goin to flip & I don't want to cause drama between them two so do I say somethin or not??

2007-04-12 08:43:55 · 2 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 08:43:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 08:39:59 · 14 answers · asked by bumblecustard 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay will not say my age but I'm over 21 and so is my brother. He has always beat me in the past my my family would do nothing, when I would try to call the cops my family would stop me (unplug phone, lock me in the house so I could not get out. Now that we are in the same city again and he tried and my mother did nothing her concern was not for my safety but for she was upset that he was upsetting my younger sister and then prevented me from calling he cops again. He doesn't beat on any other woman but me (not my other sister, just me) but he says it's okay if he hits me and my family agrees. He didn't get to hit me this last instance because I locked myself in the bathroom. But decided that if he tried again if I couldn't get out that day I would go to the cops the next day and press charges even though my family will disown me. Do you think I'm right that he is abusing me? He beats me how a man would beat another man.

2007-04-12 08:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I lost a father, and i'm on the verge of losing a muther. so i want to know if anyone on here has lost a muther, a father, or both parents. I want to know what it will feel like after my mum dies. i feel terrible already about my dad dying. So has anyone on here lost one or both parents?

2007-04-12 08:37:39 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer D 1 in Family

I figured from the last situation from him putting his hands on her, him cheating on her, and mentally abusing her. she would grow some sense and some dignity but I dont know whats wrong with her....after loosing her job and hitting rock bottom, she wants to see this guy again after he accused her of keying his hummer, calling her crazy and other numerous things. with some time apart from him, she meets a guy that is all around the perfect match for her and now she is screwing up by seeing her ex boyfriend that treats her like **** and then wheels her back in when he is in a good mood and is willing to be a good man for five mins. all because they want to have sex together. should she focus on finding a job and stick with the new guy that treats her right or work things out with her Jerk Ex Boyfriend that plays her?

2007-04-12 08:36:47 · 2 answers · asked by Nicohle Jordi 2 in Singles & Dating

Is the bf supposed to pay for most of the things or are we supposed to split the check?

I believe that it depends on the person's situation, but what if we both have money to spend? Who pays then?

I just want to know how your relationship is. Does the boyfriend pay for everything, most things, or do you split the bill?

2007-04-12 08:36:05 · 15 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I used to have sex every day when we first started dating (2 yrs ago). After several months into the relationship though, sometimes he would get bored with our sex and say that I wan't "dirty" enough like I used to be or something (totally false, because my rhoutine was completely the same!). He would need porn to turn him on. After a while of not having sex we were at it again like rabbits. Then after a more months passed, he only wanted sex about once or twice a week. We're both 21 and I don't think that's normal for two young, good looking people. Sure we're busy with our studies, but how is it that my sex drive is so high (wanting sex every other day), whereas his dwindles down after awhile (wanting it once or twice a week only)? Now when I'll be frisky with him and grab his butt or something, he'll look disgusted and tell me to stop! This irritates me because he does it to me all the time! Today, I woke up and found tissues in the toilet (from him masturbating)!!

2007-04-12 08:33:32 · 3 answers · asked by aMeNa_aCid* 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so this guy asked me out and my friend said yes for me!!! Than i kind of dumped him and broke his heart but all I wanted to say was I never said yes and now all of his friends making me feel very bad what should I do????Please help!!!!

2007-04-12 08:33:28 · 6 answers · asked by Cutie!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

After a huge misunderstanding he moved out...he told me the day before he didnt have feelings anymore...then i found condoms (not opened)...i thought he was cheating..he never did....he did ask a girl out on myspace though...they never met up...he was jealous of my guy friends...but he encouraged me to hang out with them...he criticized my appearance...either i wasnt sexy enough or wasnt innocent enough...back to the condoms...he turned around and said the condoms were for me and he wanted to try to fix our relationship...he said that when he saw me after i came back from a trip the feelings were not there...he wasnt home when i got back and when he finally got home he just gave me a hug and acted really weird...later someone called and i could have sworn he said darling and said i was calling you to watch the game tonight...i kicked him out bc of the lack of trust...we both cried that night, he called the next day and i didnt get it in time...he didnt answer when i tried him back...

2007-04-12 08:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The reason I asked is because there is this man that I met a few weeks ago. He always made it a point to let me know that he is "not seeing anyone" so I would go out with him. We have been out about 3 times already. We have not had sex yet but we have kissed alot, he touches me on my *** and breasts alot(no I'm not complaining), complements me alot and he has even put my hand on his dic* when we are kissing. He is trying to get me to sleep with him but I'm not ready. So are we dating or seeing each other? I believe that he is going out with other women for sex. I'm a 35yo black woman and he is a 45yo white male, even though I think that doesn't make a difference.

2007-04-12 08:29:12 · 1 answers · asked by PEPSI 2 in Singles & Dating

she doesnt understand how bad shes hurting me because she is never single when ever she breaks up wit some1 she gets another boifriend the next second and she is mad at me 4 bein mad at her friend 4 tellin her to dump me and now i relly have strong feelings 4 her and she doesnt care and dont tell me to go 4 some1 else also star this ? so i will get more answers thanx

2007-04-12 08:24:03 · 3 answers · asked by Richard G 1 in Singles & Dating

Gellin like a fellon?

2007-04-12 08:23:39 · 9 answers · asked by Leigh 3 in Singles & Dating

When you married her 10 years ago, she was hot. But now she has let herself go. What should I do?

2007-04-12 08:21:41 · 37 answers · asked by conservative_122 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this friend named megan.all the boys like her and she is my friend.sarah,rachel,shelby,and valerie are my best friends.i'm trying to get megan to be my best friend.we go every were together.but when we get to shcool on monday,she ditches me for the 6th graders!i'm in 5th.sometimes she is is nice,sometimes is mean.help!she is a girly girly were me and my friends r not.she is also pretty selfish.the promblem is no else will be her friend execpt me.help!she also calls me 24/7.she calls when i'm sick.i tell her i don't want to talk or i will call her back later,but she does not listion.she calls back at 9:00 pm.please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-12 08:20:53 · 8 answers · asked by happy tree friend fan 1 in Friends

how can i get a proof without spending so much money. one of my friend told me that she saw him with a girl.. he abuses me everyday. he doesnt talk much . i m beautiful now how can i get a proof

2007-04-12 08:18:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They are using foul language and calling me names.

2007-04-12 08:14:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If he tells you that he is in love with you, you have been the only one he was "in love" with ever but we now live in different cities and he knows he is making a mistake and not doing anything about it but after everything clears up on my side of the street (my divorce becomes final) and his side of the street (he invited some girl he had only known a few weeks and met in AA who's parent kicked her out to live with him), that he sees us being together in the end... is he full of shite or what?? I told him is crazy if he thinks I would "give him some time" that I think he was just using me as a fall back when he is lonely... am I right???

2007-04-12 08:13:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 08:12:50 · 21 answers · asked by Vendor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was in a grade meeting, two boys were sitting next to me, but one seat apart. One boy asked me a question so I leaned over, wanting to ask "What?"...but I farted. It was quite embarrasing and I told him it was the chair, but I don't think he believed me. He didn't talk about it afterwards. What should I do?!

2007-04-12 08:11:22 · 16 answers · asked by Kasey G 1 in Friends

2007-04-12 08:10:37 · 17 answers · asked by katie m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She'd been living with us for some yrs but it started happening recently.Instead of telling her mother or us,she allowed it to go on for several months before going to the police & making a complaint, which is how we found out. My sis, my cousin & I are in the same age group(18-20) & share the same friends. Me & my sis found out that she had told a few of our friends what was going on ( she even told my sister's bf) & all of them had kept it a secret all the while although we saw them practically everyday. I live in a small community & the whole thing with all the gory details was in the newspaper(including my father's name) & now EVERYBODY i know (teachers, classmates & friends) know about it. I HATE leaving home because of the way people look at me, (with pity or smug satisfaction) & I HATE the silence that descends in a room whenever I enter & the knowing looks people give one another from which i can tell we were just being discussed. It's getting harder & harder to ignore.

2007-04-12 08:10:20 · 13 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family

New to the site / forums - TIA for your patience...

Basically, I feel im at a dead end now in my marriage.
I've listened, communicated my feelings, cried, gotten angry,
tried ignoring things that bother me, made changes she requested of me, withdrawn, now i just feel burnt out & depressed...

The one thing I have asked for is
to feel like were in an actual relationship together.
For some appreciation, and some time together.

I have explained that I dont understand how i can be in a marriage & yet feel so alone. I just want companionship.

Her Reactions when im trying to talk to her about these things is usually acting uninterested & going to sleep while I'm left vulnerable & hurt...

Sorry for the long rant... but what should I do from here?
just suck it up & be unhappy?

We have 2 kids, 1 of them from her previous relationship.

2007-04-12 08:08:47 · 23 answers · asked by i3uddha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-12 08:06:40 · 8 answers · asked by Toniqua F 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad died this morning at 10:55. he had lung cancer. we had just found out about it in september....this has all happened so fast. and i am making myself angry because i cant even cry. why cant i cry??? i loved my dad dearly. i just dont know....there has to be something wrong with me.

2007-04-12 08:06:34 · 7 answers · asked by groundhog 2 in Family

My nephews mother gave him and his brother up 10 months ago to my brother, well then one boy wanted to go back to his moms but the other stayed willingly. Now she wants the other one back. But she isnt fit to be a mother. My nephews say she drinks all day, there are 9 people living in a 2 bedrrom trailer home. They say it stinks at the house. WHAT CAN WE DO???

2007-04-12 08:05:50 · 3 answers · asked by sstoke_wp 1 in Family

2007-04-12 08:04:34 · 14 answers · asked by tic22 2 in Marriage & Divorce