I startd seein this guy that I have been attractd to for along time now, he's friends w/ my ex boyfriend & had a past relationship w/ my bf. we knew it was wrong from the begining but chose to keep seeing each other on the under. I really started to fall for this guy & I thought he felt the same way. My bf ended up finding out & now our friendship is over. My ex boyfriend has suspectd somethin was goin on but doesn't know for sure. My ex has calld the other guy to hang out w/ him and they have a few times w/ my ex not knowin what has been goin on. Me & the guy ended the relationship this week & now I feel like I made the biggest mistake in the world. I don't know if I should tell my ex about it or not. I lost my bf now but I was only willing to risk it bcause I really cared about this guy, it wasn't just a fling for me. Should I tell my ex about it?? once he finds out he's goin to flip & I don't want to cause drama between them two so do I say somethin or not??
2007-04-12 08:43:55 · 2 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is your ex - I don't see why you need to tell him anything.
On the other hand, if you are still seeing your ex as a friend - which would be worse: him finding out about this from you or from someone else?
If you don't think there is anyone one else who would tell your ex - don't tell him as it will only cause hard feelings.
2007-04-12 11:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever there is a question of revealing the truth, there should never be any hesitation.
2007-04-12 15:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by swoosh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋