Family & Relationships - 12 April 2007

when a man wants to have sex with a woman really bad, does the desire some from her not putting out so easily and you being extrmemely attartced to her, or could you have feelings for her and that causes you to want her physically? I hada guy hold me one night till i slept,he made no moves the whole night and he and i are so attracted to eachother since. He told me i was killing him. I wont put out until I know he will stick around and it wont be just for the sex.Could he have gained any feelings from that night, and could that add to him wanting more?

2007-04-12 06:54:55 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife's cousin was the maid of honor in our wedding last year. Now my wife is going to be the matron of honor in her cousin's wedding this year. Nobody knows it yet, but my wife will be 7 months pregnant at that point. Her cousin is very concerned with having a "fairy tale" wedding and wants things to look good. She has made commments to my wife like, "You're not going to be pregnant in my wedding are you?" several times. We're planning on telling everyone after the first doctor's visit, but are we being rude by not starting a family until after the wedding or is she being rude by implying that we wait?

2007-04-12 06:47:07 · 30 answers · asked by reesrob25 3 in Weddings

I am right now 21 years old and doing my graduation and aim at becoming a professional. However my parents cannot afford to pay for further studies and right now I am getting many marriage proposals. I really want to prove myself and dream of a beautiful career. Thus I have only two options: work and save my money for my master degree or accept to get married. which one would you choose if you were me? And one more thing can we study effectively once a girl is married or there are too much responsibilities in a marriage?

2007-04-12 06:43:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am right now 21 years old and doing my graduation and aim at becoming a professional. However my parents cannot afford to pay for further studies and right now I am getting many marriage proposals. I really want to prove myself and dream of a beautiful career. Thus I have only two options: work and save my money for my master degree or accept to get married. which one would you choose if you were me? And one more thing can we study effectively once a girl is married or there are too much responsibilities in a marriage?

2007-04-12 06:41:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-04-12 06:38:52 · 27 answers · asked by abhishek 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

First i would like to say thanks for taking the time out to answer this one for me.
I am 24yrs old,Been single from last 3 yrs just because i didnt find sum1 who i really liked.Finally i met someone who i happen to like very much.He is a cop 30yrs old.He gave me his number,he has my number.Doesnt really call me unless i call him.
I asked him out on this coming weekend and he said Yes he will like to hangout.
He was the one who gave me his cell i didnt ask for it to begin with.So should i carry it on or just back off..because seems like he is not all that intrested.He have a very dull personailty but he is handsome.What you say?

2007-04-12 06:32:28 · 47 answers · asked by rema s 1 in Singles & Dating

i can't face him when i leave him. if i leave a copy of the divorce papers, along with a letter, and simply move into my own place, if that a fair way to end a rocky relationship?

2007-04-12 06:31:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i don't know! just dropped to the floor after he came, got back up after about 10 minutes of showering him with water, said ''i can't do this'' and left. the thing is, we had already done it. whats up with that? i can't figure it our. he was'nt drunk or anything....

2007-04-12 06:28:43 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is country girl i just found out that on top of chating with other girls he has been sending them pics too. i am so mad right now i want to slap him. I printed everything out and i have proof. His mom has my back she says it needs to stop. I just got off of his messenger with the girl he told we were divorced well that was a big fight. How do you remain cool and calm about something like this. I am very angry

2007-04-12 06:28:38 · 19 answers · asked by COUNTRY GIRL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering if anyone out there in Yahoo land has ever left someone or been left because the other person's ex was a terrible person, or your ex was a terrible person. Even tho the ex is supposedly in a happy marriage, she has to have her NOSE into every detail of your life!

Im curious because SO MANY ex's cause problems, I want to know if them causing problems really works to end the new relationship!
Thanks

2007-04-12 06:26:47 · 17 answers · asked by Angel Eve 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 06:26:01 · 10 answers · asked by PAM R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for my nick names It would be
1. kami, classy kay, tigger, penquin, dancer, little monkey, cheery,
2. for my friends it will be jessica- jess, jennifer-jen, katie- shining star, brianna-bri,melanie-mel,collene-rock star, andrew-andy, michaelle-mike
3. for my "hot" bf I would call him Tyler- ty, lover bud, racer
what whould you nickname your friend , yourself or your boy friend?

2007-04-12 06:25:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mother in law offered to pay for the flowers in my upcoming wedding. My parents are paying for the reception. As a couple, we picked out the food for the reception and we picked the colors of our flowers. My mother in law asked to change the color of the corsages as they may "clash" My theme is yellow. Am I being to sensitive? Also they are covering the rehersal dinner and she picked out all the choices for food...without our input. What do you think?

2007-04-12 06:24:04 · 18 answers · asked by dagostino09 2 in Weddings

We seperated about 2 weeks ago I left because of to much fighting and I'm pregnant. He called me this morning and asked me if I was ready to come home. He wants to raise our child right and he is willing to go to counseling and be a good husband. He told me to think about it for a while and let him know. Should I??? Its what I want but what if everything goes back to the way it was?

2007-04-12 06:18:15 · 36 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I just dumped my bf yesterday and his friend has a big crush on me and he stopped when i was datin his bestfriend. But the problem is i like his best friend and i like one of my ex-boyfriends that likes me too i don't now who to pick my best guy friend, my best guy friends bestfriend or my ex?

2007-04-12 06:17:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

13 yrs together (10 married), 4 kids, and an alcoholic hubby who drinks 6+ beers every nite and 10+ on the weekends (each day), passes out by 10pm every nite. He comes home from work and ignores us to "unwind" by drinking and playing video games until he is in couch commando mode. He only parents when my yelling gets on his nerves, then he starts yelling. He has a full social life of bowling, going to races, lodge, while I must stay home. If I leave I must ask first, state when , where, and how long...take kids w/ me. If a friend wants to go out w/ my they ask his permission first and then play 20 questions about our whereabouts. I have no life. I am numb to him. I don't want this life for me and my kids, and its been like this way to long. I am dying inside. . I love him, but am not in love, and can't try to work it out anymore. He thinks we are fine. He has tried to sober up, but it never lasts longer than 3-5 days. I am worried about what will happen to him if I go.

2007-04-12 06:14:43 · 14 answers · asked by Shannon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

From a philosophical sense, I know everyone fantacizes and maturbates. But, if you're in a serious relationship, doesn't maturbation tread very close to cheating? In my case, I know she does (and I do, too. I'm no saint), and it's fine in the sense that it's just fantasy, but because we are so open with each other, shouldn't we be content to wait until we can do those things with each other? I don't know if this is just a pride thing for me or if I am making a valid point. That is specifically what I am wondering. What do you think?

2007-04-12 06:14:33 · 30 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

she calls me names like king kong !!!

2007-04-12 06:12:59 · 23 answers · asked by Leann W 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

over a year ago he held me till i slept, he was so sweet. I was still upset about cathcing my x of a few years cheating(they r mutual friends) He told me a couple months later that i was'killing him'. 9 month later i called him to tell him how i still think about him,he said it was mutual and he had no idea i felt that way but he started seeing someone.But he thinks im the cutest girl alive,although he is with someone else. It has been a little over a month since and no sign from him,so i am letting it go,i dont want to get in the middle of his new relationship and be 'the other girl'. Although i still think about him,will it ever fade? does he ever think of me?

2007-04-12 06:12:28 · 3 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 06:09:22 · 14 answers · asked by Lidge 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been living together for a year and have been dating for two and a half or so, been friends for 5ish years. I'm starting to think about marriage and we've talked about it. We're both essentially anti-religious, and he says that since he doesn't go for the church thing, he sees no point to marriage other than financial benefits or if children are involved. I am fine with waiting for a while, but want it to happen eventually. Short from having kids (which is NOT my plan), is there anything I can do to nudge him along?

Has anyone had this experience, if so, how did you handle it/what ended up happening? In anticipation of some of your answers, yes, I can wait, but I don't see why we can't be engaged for a while.

2007-04-12 06:09:18 · 14 answers · asked by RJ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I need 2 kno b/4 i do!

2007-04-12 06:07:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf of 3 months just broke up with me about a month ago...he just told me he felt like we were better friends...he called about a week after we broke up after i called him and left a voicemail....we were very close friends before we dated...and now we dont even talk...i hate being able to not just go up and talk with him when i want....my best friend talks to him sometimes...and she asked him if he was just never going to talk to me again...and he said no i just dont know when, but i will eventually... what does this mean??? i know from being a girl that they are always emotionally attached to their ex4 a while...and usually want to talk soon....but guys r different....why does it take them forever to feel comfortable around their ex? how long do u think it will take him to talk to me?? should i call or email just saying hi and see how he is...or should i wait until he talks to me???? thank you 4 all your help

2007-04-12 06:06:36 · 15 answers · asked by Lo 1 in Singles & Dating

see we already have done things together but he wants to hangout more and no me a lil bit mroe before we date.. one night one the computer he told this guy to stop flirting with me stop talking to me and if we hangout not to touch me.... and he told this guy that we are going to date... see we act like were dating but were not official yet... im getting sick of like waiting for when we can hang out hes in florida right now and when he gets bak were going to the movies.. so hopefully after the movies we can officiallly date

2007-04-12 06:06:17 · 25 answers · asked by softball_gurll13 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are remembering our deceased grandmothers with bouquets of their favorite flowers at our wedding ceremony. Any ideas for remembering grandfathers? My one grandfather loved to drink brandy...but I obviously shouldn't put a bottle of brandy up at the front of the church...any ideas are much appreciated. Thanks!!

2007-04-12 06:06:06 · 15 answers · asked by MJ MCK 4 in Weddings

2007-04-12 06:05:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

over a year ago he held me till i slept because i was still bitter about cathcing my x cheating(they r mutual friends)he was so sweet that night,although he was nervous about breaking the'guy code'.I saw him a couple months after and he told me i was'killing him'.I called him 9 months later and told him I still think about him,he said it was mutual and he had no idea but he started seeing someone,so i let it go.Then i ran into him a couple weeks later and we were like magnets the whole day,and at night(when we had been drinking all day,it was a holiday party,)so we were both pretty drunk and we ended up kissing uncontrollably until i remmebered he has a girlfriend and told him we had to stop,he understood.Since he is friends w/my x and other friends of mine,i heard through them that he does not remember us kissing,and that has got to be a lie,is he saving his a$$, or did he really not remember?

2007-04-12 06:05:22 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

To summarise...

I got dumped.
Not happy about it at all
I was replaced within a week (though allegedly by accident)
I don't have the luxury of avoiding or asking for space due to my job and some other stuff.

Aaah!

Being civilised on the outside is easy, the stuff on the inside isn't.

2007-04-12 06:05:09 · 21 answers · asked by Captain K 2 in Singles & Dating

is it that they came from broken homes or its just the love of money or just that they can not get enogh sex

2007-04-12 06:00:05 · 27 answers · asked by overhills 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont want him to think hes boring me, but I need him to be a little bit more outgoing!

2007-04-12 05:59:12 · 28 answers · asked by coldkiss 2 in Marriage & Divorce