Family & Relationships - 12 April 2007

This is hard,me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year and we have been like the best of friends until just the last month he has become so jealous and he is really getting on my nerves. I have told him that this will not be tolerated and he needs to act right for GODS sake we live together. How long should I give him to straighten up??

2007-04-12 05:22:22 · 6 answers · asked by Twinkie! 2 in Singles & Dating

should i brake up with her?

2007-04-12 05:21:27 · 4 answers · asked by nbb rocks and what 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a 5 year old child who lives with her mom. The mother is 22 and in my eyes is a bad mother!She has left her home ALONE 2x for a short period of time, her home is absolutley discusting,she never has her(always @ a sitter) and just doesnt have her head on right. Anyway, we have our own home,have two steady jobs, take care of her when shes here, and he pays his child support on time. What do you think the odds of us getting full custody are?? Should we call social services-is it annonomys?HELP!!

2007-04-12 05:21:03 · 19 answers · asked by mandak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-12 05:20:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a few years ago,we knew instantly that we were attracted to eachother but we were both w/someone.So a couple years went by and we ended up running into eachother and at this time were both single.I was still upset about catching my x cheating(they r mutual friends)he was sweet and listened and he ended up holding me till i slept that night.even though we both wanted more nothing had happened.I ran into him again a couple months after and he told me i was'killing him'.9 months went by and i called him to tell him how much i stilll like him and think about him,he said it was mutual and he had no idea but he started seeing someone.So i let it go.Then i ran into him a couple weeks after and we ended up kissing,until i remembered he had a girlfriend and did not want to end up being'the other girl',he understood.Now its been a couple months since and nothing from him.Why are men like this?If he has a girlfriend why was he kissing me?Why are men so easy to cheat on their spouse

2007-04-12 05:18:28 · 8 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i have been with my bf for about 6 months now... he has this girl "friend" that he claims is one of his best friends. The thing is, they had sex a few times in the past. Im not ok with it and it will end up destroying our relationship if he doesnt stop talking to her. Am i wrong?

2007-04-12 05:18:02 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, i'm dating this really great guy "Bob" we'll call him, and i love him very much, i've given him 11 months fo my life, (No sex). but the last 5 or 6 phone calls i've gotten from him, he has 'forgotten' to say i love you! be4 he hanfs up. He left a mess on my cell the otha morning and didn't say call me baack or love you honey or anything i'm hurt by this. Now on the otha hand there is this really great guy that i think i am "in love with." his x-girlfriend jus recently broke up wit him then texted me wishing, um this guy will be called "Will", and i luck. at first i was freaked because will and i love each otha very much and i would never come between him and his girfriend and he would never come between bob and i. Bob and I have been drifting away from each other for about a month now and if i do break up wit him i still want us to be really great friends and i don't want to hurt him. But I also wanna explore wat would happen wit Will and I. Any advice will be very apperciated

2007-04-12 05:16:51 · 10 answers · asked by Feel 4 u 1 in Singles & Dating

Its my last 8th grade dance! She wouldn't let me go because I didn't bring my sweater home! Isn't that crazy! But for the 8th grade dance, everybody's going. The girls wear a pretty dress and the boys wear a tux. what should i do to get my mom to let me go to the dance? Please and Thank you! ♥

2007-04-12 05:16:33 · 17 answers · asked by ♥fab♥ 2 in Family

My boyfriend is 10 years older than me...

2007-04-12 05:16:18 · 14 answers · asked by jen123 4 in Singles & Dating

It's not justice ,is it?
What's the usage of this stupid work?

2007-04-12 05:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by Hermione 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im just wondering, my ex who is now married says he loves me ... but i don't believe that, i dont really care, it's just that im wondering if he is married how can he love me? he told me he always wonders what would've been if we would've stayed together. Im married too but i just ignored his comment. i dont feel the same way because i love my husband, i do wonder what if but with an ex i don't talk to anymore. But it's not like im gonna do anything about it anyway

2007-04-12 05:15:49 · 8 answers · asked by sourgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

who feel the need to breast feed in public.

They say its a natural part of life, well, so is taking a crap, but I dont do it in public.

2007-04-12 05:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husbnad had been doing some awful things behind my back that I found out about including an "emotional" affair which he always preached to me about, I really think he may have been cheating and I just want to know if he has a guilty concsions about it and seems like he wants to tell me, he keeps asking if I love him and he keeps telling me he wants to start with a clean slate, I am willing to start with a clean slate if I could know the truth. How can I get him to be truthful to me when all he has been doing is lieing to me for the past 2 years. Before that he was almost the perfect husband to me. How can I know if he is lieing? Would he want to keep changing the subject? Would he keep asking me if I really do love him?

2007-04-12 05:12:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The only sensitive guys at my highschool who write or play guitar drink or do drugs. While guys who like to write or play music and such are a big turn on- drugs and alcohol aren't. Is there any guy out there who isn't like this? Yeah, I'm into having a good time, but I can do it without drugs and alcohol. I think you can have just as much fun-legally- with a bunch of energy drinks. Sometimes guys laugh at me because I don't drink and I'm still a virgin. Why aren't guys respectful? Whats so wrong with me wanting to be healthy? And I'm not just going to give up my virginity to just anybody.
Basically, I don't get why so many guys think that girls will think the are "cool" if they do drugs and drink alcohol. Any guys out there willing to object?

2007-04-12 05:10:52 · 9 answers · asked by ... 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 05:09:38 · 21 answers · asked by cadbury_rm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have th work this Saturday from 5 till closing time, which is around 10:15. I told my boyfriend that I would be off on Friday, but he isn't sure if he can come and see me. We live a hour apart. I would go see him but my parents don't want me to drive that far to see him. He says he can catch a ride to my city but I have to be at church at 8 in the morning. Would it be wrong if I told him that I won't be able to hang out with him because I have to go to church?

2007-04-12 05:09:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to the story and he doesn't want to say? Everytime I try and question him he keeps telling me he doesn't want to talk about it and just wants to start with a clean slate. I just want to know why it happened so it doesn't happen again but I am beginning to be suspiscious that there is more he is hiding am I being ridiculous?

2007-04-12 05:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For a doctor and his wife (who is not a doctor) I am wondering how to address the envelopes. I know that the outer envelope is addressed to Dr. and Mrs. John Smith. I am wondering if the inside should be Dr. and Mrs. Smith or The Smiths. Everyone else is Mr. and Mrs. Doe on the inside, but I could change those to The Does or The Doe Family.. please help!

2007-04-12 05:08:30 · 8 answers · asked by hrebekkah 1 in Weddings

if your ex still flirts with you, compliments you and teases you?

2007-04-12 05:07:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I had posted that my boyfriend's father had died. Well, they have decided on a date for the funeral. I wanted to know if I would get the sit with him and his family, or would his ex-wife get priority over me? Or would it be up to my boyfriend who sits with him?

2007-04-12 05:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a really banal wife that I have been legally obligated to for the past 13 years next month. It's been a mostly average marital ride. Not really bad, not that interesting either.

Some of the women I meet during my missions work tend to make things a lot more interesting. Of course, due to my marriage and obligations to God I tend to keep things rather simple and to a minimum.

However, I have spent the last six months with a really wonderful Korean girl. I converted her last November, and she looks to me as her personal leader towards Christ. I am natually willing to take on this role, one I have been groomed for my whole life.

However, she is starting to question my ability to commit to her. I have told her frequently to just look at my marriage. If 13 years doesn't show her that I am a person of integrity, I don't know what will.

I would just introduce her to the wife for a character reference, but the little woman doesn't know about my extra "homework assignments" if you catch my drift.

I guess I'll just keep praying!

God Bless

2007-04-12 05:05:48 · 18 answers · asked by Kermit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've had experiences with three girls and so far the main reason why they ran out was because of my erratic mood swings and my constant sadness. It seems as if depression is the ultimate pet peeve of any woman despite any physical appearance or money. I've have been dealing with this supposed illness for 7 years and it hasn't gotten any better despite medication. Will I be lonely forever? Is depression a universal turn-off?

2007-04-12 05:05:38 · 13 answers · asked by hey y 1 in Singles & Dating

We had a family dinner together and I had lost track of my boyfrind. So I looked for him everywhere. I had asked for him by his name and some guy said he was just on the jumbo screen doing it with a gurl. I had seen him walking out the club drunk and with the gurl. So I had walked up to him and asked him what was going on. He didn't say anything but the gurl asked who I was and I said his gurlfiend and she said that he didn't have one because that's what he told her. I had the keys to his truck in my hand and showed them to her. Then I woke up.

2007-04-12 05:04:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been quickly becoming friends with this boy. Last weekend me, him, and a friend of mine went to the movies. It was fun, and he emailed me l8r and told me he had a great time. I told him we should do it again and he said we should definitely hang out again. So the other day he emailed me and was all, "I have 3 days off of work. Wanna hang out 1 of those days?" I said yes and he asked me what day would be good. A day or so passed and I didn't hear anything from him. I called a few times an no answer, and I messaged him and still no word. Then yesterday he emailed me and was like, "Sorry, I've been really busy. Do you mind if we plan a time to hang out next week instead? I hope your not mad at me. :)" I was pretty dissapointed, but my mom said it was no big deal and that he probably really is busy. Does anyone think he's blowing me off? What if he says the same thing next week? We're not dating or anything, but were becoming quick friends. Any ideas on what's going on? Thanks so much

2007-04-12 05:03:45 · 4 answers · asked by Amber 5 in Singles & Dating

Anyone else bothered by the berhavior of "families" at restaurants?

Kids running around, parnets yelling, moms breast feeding, kids screaming and throwing crap.

2007-04-12 05:01:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-12 05:00:05 · 12 answers · asked by Calchas 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-12 04:57:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-12 04:57:05 · 17 answers · asked by joeelliot 3 in Friends

My friends mom died from diabetes, she was not fat or anything but she died. And its been three years and we havent talked and I wanna start talking to her again. She was only 10 when it happen. How should I approch this?

2007-04-12 04:54:21 · 9 answers · asked by Gymnast101 2 in Family

I feel that at times I am too soft and there are people who try to take advantage of me in terms of mentally. Would it be wise to toughen up, mentally fight back, or what is the best way?

2007-04-12 04:48:29 · 10 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Friends