I met this guy a few years ago,we knew instantly that we were attracted to eachother but we were both w/someone.So a couple years went by and we ended up running into eachother and at this time were both single.I was still upset about catching my x cheating(they r mutual friends)he was sweet and listened and he ended up holding me till i slept that night.even though we both wanted more nothing had happened.I ran into him again a couple months after and he told me i was'killing him'.9 months went by and i called him to tell him how much i stilll like him and think about him,he said it was mutual and he had no idea but he started seeing someone.So i let it go.Then i ran into him a couple weeks after and we ended up kissing,until i remembered he had a girlfriend and did not want to end up being'the other girl',he understood.Now its been a couple months since and nothing from him.Why are men like this?If he has a girlfriend why was he kissing me?Why are men so easy to cheat on their spouse
2007-04-12 05:18:28 · 8 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cause they're less emotional than us, they just want to enjoy themselves and don't care about a girl's feelings towards them, I don't know why they're like this , I just know that it's their nature!
2007-04-12 05:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Hermione 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know there are a lot of guys out there who will cheat on their wife or girlfriend on their own accord, and these are the type of guys who put it on themself. But I have to ask you a question myself-- you wonder why men will cheat on their girlfriend or wife, but why is if that there are women out there who are well aware of the man's relationship, yet still willing to be in that "affair"? I don't think you can entirely put the blame on guys, unless, the girl is unaware of his current relationship, the girl is equally at fault.
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Yes, men cheat, but so do women. Don't hate on men, hate on the cheaters-- that's men and women alike.
2007-04-12 12:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not just men that are so quick to cheat. women are just the same no offense, you also have to think that he had interest in you before he was seeing some one else but at that time you needed a friend more than a lover. so he gave that too you and waited as you waited so he may not have understood just what you wanted persay and he may not of wanted to be in the shadow of your ex.
2007-04-12 12:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by 4mika 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah im pretty much going thru something really similar...i dunno...they dont think, you use the word "spouse" is he now married? if hes not id give it time and maybe something will work out if ur interested...but dont sit around and wait for him...God knows men dont...
2007-04-12 12:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by corona87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i knew, it just seems like they don't care you know? if they "really" care about someone you would think that they wouldn't cheat on someone. i would let it go with him, find yourself a good guy that's going to be there fro you and not cheat
2007-04-12 12:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by walk with me in hell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, that guy in particular was a dog. Okay? Or maybe he just was interested in someone else. Just forget about him.
2007-04-12 12:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz they think with the head in their pants and not on their shoulders. thats why. stupid boys and their stupid boy penises.
2007-04-12 12:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ohkay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because their penis take over their brains
2007-04-12 12:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by chanlen2005 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋