This is hard,me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year and we have been like the best of friends until just the last month he has become so jealous and he is really getting on my nerves. I have told him that this will not be tolerated and he needs to act right for GODS sake we live together. How long should I give him to straighten up??
2007-04-12 05:22:22 · 6 answers · asked by Twinkie! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd give it awhile.. maybe a month or two.. see if he can go that long without acting all jealous..
after that i'd leave..
2007-04-12 05:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything.
You have no right to demand he change, and you are foolish to think he can anyway. He should leave you just for your arrogance and controlling behavior. He is what he is and if you don't like it you need to find someone else. You wouldn't be very happy if he did the same thing to you, demanding that you change or hit the road. You would be here crying about how unfair he is and that he needs to accept you the way you are.
Maybe he has a reason to be jealous, you probably did something wrong. After all it's you that said this is something new. Wonder what bad thing you did...
2007-04-12 05:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How long until the lease runs out?
Seriously, if you've been together over a year, I'd give him 4-6 months. But if he becomes abusive - leave immediately and don't look back.
Good luck! :)
2007-04-12 05:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give him long, perhaps a few weeks or a month. He needs to get over the jealousy. Suggestion would be to have a long conversation about this, but it seems you may already have. He may want to consider some counseling.
2007-04-12 05:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG WE HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!!! WELL IM THINKING OF TALKING TO HIM TELLING HIM JUST TO TRY FOR 2 WEEKS OF NOT BEEN JEALOUS AND THAT IF HE DOESNT HES PULLIN ME AWAY AND THAT IF WE GET MARRIED AFTER A WHILE THE LOVE IS GOING TO END CUZ OF HIS JELOUSY!! GOOD LUCK !!!
ONE OTHER ADVICE !!!
DONT PERMITT HIM TO HIT YOU !!!! LEAVE HIM IF HE DOES!!!
2007-04-12 14:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by DnnyslittleAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2007-04-12 05:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋