Hey, i'm dating this really great guy "Bob" we'll call him, and i love him very much, i've given him 11 months fo my life, (No sex). but the last 5 or 6 phone calls i've gotten from him, he has 'forgotten' to say i love you! be4 he hanfs up. He left a mess on my cell the otha morning and didn't say call me baack or love you honey or anything i'm hurt by this. Now on the otha hand there is this really great guy that i think i am "in love with." his x-girlfriend jus recently broke up wit him then texted me wishing, um this guy will be called "Will", and i luck. at first i was freaked because will and i love each otha very much and i would never come between him and his girfriend and he would never come between bob and i. Bob and I have been drifting away from each other for about a month now and if i do break up wit him i still want us to be really great friends and i don't want to hurt him. But I also wanna explore wat would happen wit Will and I. Any advice will be very apperciated
2007-04-12 05:16:51 · 10 answers · asked by Feel 4 u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I've gone back and read your previous questions.
I'd say that you and Bob have been drifting apart for more than a month here. I'd say that it was about two months. (Back when you say that you and Bob couldn't even get together to make out.)
You and Bob have been breaking up slowly here. Bob doesn't say he loves you anymore is probably because he isn't in love with you anymore. It is even possible that he's cheating on you with someone else.
The time has come to toss in the towel on Bob. Don't feel guilty about it. You're pretty much broken up already. It's just that someone needs to say the words.
As for 'Will', if he's the best friend that you've loved like a brother from before, then I'd say go for it. Just make sure that Will knows that Bob might be a bit sensitive, and don't rub the relationship in Bob's face.
Also, I'd recommend that both you and Will take it slowly since both of you would have just gotten out of a relationship. The last thing you want to do is to drag baggage from one relationship to another. It'll only ruin your new relationship.
I wish you the best.
2007-04-12 07:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by stedh1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love , the most missed used word . Not many people really
know what love is and unfortunately you are one of them .
First reason is you wouldn't be thinking , saying any of what
you said if really loved any of them . Love is not something
you just take and throw it around . That is called LUST and it
has no future as you have said here in your on words. You
need to stop , think , this is your life . What are you doing ?
Get a hold on your emotions and open your eyes. Is this what
you really what to see you self as . You say that there has not
been any sex , that's Great , imagine how disappointed you
you be if you did , really wanting somebody else the whole time .Run , save yourself , plug into a christian based church and find out the meaning of love before you fall and become
a victim to yourself....
2007-04-12 05:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by S.O.T.C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the saying "one in the hand is worth 2 in the bush". Having a guy around to do whatever is better then 2 on the phone or the internet. :)
2007-04-12 05:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all learn how to write properly, you sound like a 3 yr old.
Second of all, how can you have such deep feelings for one person and get all butt hurt from not hearing "I love you" from him when you are actually thinking about cheating on him with your ex???!!
Make a moral decision and just go with it.
2007-04-12 05:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well do what you said you want to do. Hive "Will" a chance and see if things don't work out.
2007-04-12 05:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Nadz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I know why they say high school never ends.
2007-04-12 05:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by dadof7n2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't married to either of them, so, go with what your heart's telling you to!!
2007-04-12 05:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by thegirlsnextdoor2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drama queen
2007-04-12 05:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something productive with ur life
2007-04-12 05:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by dupsydups 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...in your mind you already have.
2007-04-12 05:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋