2007-04-12 05:09:38 · 21 answers · asked by cadbury_rm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As such there is no rule to judge a person but if you follow certain criteria’s you can be save from being cheated by some one. 1) A very sweet spoken person should never be taken for granted; such a person may turn out to be cheat. 2) A person who is seems to be harsh is usually honest. 3) A person who tells you on your face you drawbacks is usually frank & honest person. 4) A person who is sycophant is usually dishonest person.5) A person praising you even for your drawbacks is never an honest person. 6) A person found cheating once should not be trusted, it maybe his/her habit & should be avoided.7) A person who help you maybe honest but his intentions should always be observe closely, he/she maybe interested in taking advantage of your weakness. 8) A person unable to help you out because of some personal problem with himself/herself maybe honest person.9) A person may look rude by his behavior may turn out to be honest by his nature like a strict teacher who is hated most turn out to be the best teacher you ever had in your educational time as your welfare was paramount consideration for such a teacher.10) A person who keeps on insisting his/her honesty is usually a cheat, as is well known fact an honest person needs no witness but a dishonest person will be collecting lots of witness to prove his/her point. These are few of the considerations which you can keep in mind while checking a cheat person form an honest person.
2007-04-12 18:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You being confident doesnt really allow or disallow the other person to cheat. For this, you should be smart definitely and not allow yourself to be cheated. You should always view others views with a negative attitude and cross check that person's real intentions. More so, have faith in God, and seek HIS blessings to give you the strength
2007-04-12 12:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by anil m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand the question right, I feel very confident that my husband wouldnt cheat on me. I think it is because he knows that we will be no longer WHEN I find out and I know that if he cheated on me I wouldn't be the end of my life cause if he is going to cheat he isnt worth my time. I don't give 2nd and 3rd chances. Once a cheat always a cheat and I will not let him cheat on me.
2007-04-12 12:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating isn't caused by a partner's lack of self confidence or lack of "smartness". It's caused by the person being a cheat.
2007-04-12 12:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you can't be cheated on, you're being foolish.
You can be confident in the love of your mate and fairly certain they wouldn't cheat, but no one can be absolutely sure.
Also, it has less to do with how terrific you are and more to do with how they feel about themselves, that determines why someone cheats.
Be a loving and attentive mate, stroke their egos as much as they need, and show them they're scorching hot and they're way less likely to wander.
The only thing we can be really sure of is death and taxes.
2007-04-12 12:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you really need to be concerned with is how you would react if you found out you were being cheated on. If your reaction is, Hey, that sucked and I am hurt but I will move on now and live my life, then you can be secure knowing that person's actions do not control you. If, however, your reaction is a complete breakdown, withdrawal and panic, well you need to search and determine who exactly is in control of your happiness.
2007-04-12 12:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no control over the other person and even the smartest most confident people get cheated on.
2007-04-12 12:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by Robin C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know? Before you start getting into relationship,observe your partner VERY CAREFULLY ;-l during yalls first week of the relationship or for couple of months. If your partner is a cheater or someone experienced the deception of some sort from your partner, ditch them.
Tell them flat on that you are not stupid and naive but very cautious and wise in getting into relationships.
lols
2007-04-12 12:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the biggest fool in this world is 'who thinks that others are fools'
no need to get smart...
just be honest from ur side....
and u will find honesty in others...
in this world most peoply will try to cheat others....
but for being on safe side u dont need smartness ... u need common sense,,,
read this..learn management rules... and be smart.
' a little bird was flying in the sky.. in a winter season... after sometime she freezed and fall down... a COW came and shits on that bird who was frozen in the ice.
little later bird started feeling warm and happy as she was safe from cold now... bcoz of cow's ****.. she started singing....
be hearing birds voice a CAR came and take the bird out of **** and ate it...
what u learnt?
1 point) a person who shits on u doesnt mean that he was doing bad for u.
2) a person who takes u out from the **** doesnt mean that he is helping u
3) when u r in **** ..keep ur mouth shut..
2007-04-12 13:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by ALWAYSKHUSH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its all in the choice of person you have choosen to go out with as your compainion or significant other. You can tell by the personality whose a cheater and whose not. I have made a bad decission once or twice but learning to read the body language I can now tell whose a cheater and whose not you can do that too if you know what you are looking for, and read signs of whose what. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-04-12 12:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Nanner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋