Family & Relationships - 12 April 2007

2007-04-12 08:00:35 · 14 answers · asked by kase 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I been married for almost a year. We knew each other for 2 years before he perposed to me. So you can say we know each other very well. But now i'm pregnant and we a physced. But the thing is I don't know if he is willing to put up with me for those 9 months. I never been pregnant so I have no clue on how I am going to be. Will he still love me? And help me through this?

2007-04-12 07:56:29 · 12 answers · asked by Hillary J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a graphic designer that wants to start my own business and was wondering how much your printer/designer charged you.

Also, how much/little would you be willing to spend?

2007-04-12 07:49:52 · 11 answers · asked by germaine_87313 7 in Weddings

I want deep purple flowers and alot of greenery in the bouquets...what color of bridesmaids dresses will match but wont be too bright>?

2007-04-12 07:49:49 · 17 answers · asked by pinkie443 2 in Weddings

prove that you are in love with someone. I totally disagree with the wholr thing i just wan to see or just read every one else opinion on this situatio. Also why do you agree or disagree.

2007-04-12 07:41:50 · 23 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Singles & Dating

Whenever my husband goes to the store or to run errands and I ask him for the totals he always tells me wrongs amounts. I find out the next day when I check the bank account the correct amounts as well as that he actually used the debit card to pay for everything instead of paying for some things with cash. This bothers me because I pay the bills and try to keep the account in good standing and him spending more than he tells me messes things up. He lies about how much he spends and he lies about how much he actually deposits. Plus he withdrawals money for no reason. And ok...so he wants money in his pocket...that's fine. But not when I just told him we barely have anything in the account and on top of going to the store he takes out extra money. I just don't understand why he keeps lying to me...is he hiding something? He leaves for basic soon and we'll be apart for a long time after only being married a few months...this really upsets me and bothers me. Can I trust him?

2007-04-12 07:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by lilcherryblossomangel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-12 07:38:50 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Ex and I have joint custody of our 5 yr old Daughter. We divorced when She was A year old. Since then He has had Little to No Involvement. he is now living with his fiancee,Who Happens to be an ex friend of mine. She cheated with my fiancee on me and then began dating my exhusband. Any ways
They Are getting mArried in July. they want my daughter to be the Flower girl. i have no problem with that. but they didn't ask my Permission And didn't even Call to tell me they wanted to do this. i found out from my Ex Mother in law. Should I let her Go ,Since he only wants her when people are going to be seeing him and Judging him????

2007-04-12 07:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by dez79837 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy I work with had been showing a lot of interest in me a couple of months ago, and it continued for that amount of time. There were serious stares, lingering glances, trying to run into me, dropping hints, etc. Still, it was clear that nothing could happen because of company policies. I showed interest back, just not as clearly, but he knew I was interested as well. Then , as soon as he reviewed my work and gave it a lot of compliments (the first time he was exposed to it, and he really liked it), he changed. He doesn’t try to talk to me anymore when he walks by, he avoids looking into any room I’m in, he gets nervous when we do talk (whereas before, he was very outgoing and energetic when we talked). He has been SO proper to me, and before he was so “carefree”. A couple of days ago, though, in a conversation I made a really good point in convincing a third person, and he was looking at me with a big smile on his face (and in his eyes!), he seemed to really admire the way I showed my knowledge. But, overall, my behavior hasn’t changed at all. I wasn’t showing any more interest than usual, I was treating him like I always did – so, it’s not like I acted clingy and scared him off, or gave him the cold shoulder. And, I know for a fact that he is NOT seeing or wanting anyone, so no change there either.

A friend of mine said that, once he started to admire me, he stopped seeing me as just another “pretty” face, and that he’s keeping his distance because he’s afraid of what could happen between us. He really WAS very interested before, and yes, it would be a dangerous relationship – but is my friend right?! Or do men simply lose interest just like that??

2007-04-12 07:36:54 · 8 answers · asked by Melissa N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter has a learning disability. She has a boyfriend, drives a car and works 30 to 38 hours a week with the public. I have paid dutifully for years, even though my daughter does not care to have a relationship with me. I feel as though it is time for her to stand on her own. Many kids are venturing out in the working world, making minimum wage. I feel as though she should pay her dues, just like the rest of us! It may cause her to pick herself up and go back to school. If not, she is making the choice as to the kind of life she will lead. I am trying to find presidence as to NYS cases on child support!

2007-04-12 07:35:54 · 22 answers · asked by grandular 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now, if your a prude, uptight, sexually repressed person, then please move forward, stop reading and go away, this will offend you and your tiny closed minded head will explode

You've been warned

How do you go about having a threesome my husband and I have always wanted to try, but don't know where to start, I want to try with a woman, have always been curious, suggestions?

2007-04-12 07:35:29 · 2 answers · asked by Marsha R 1 in Singles & Dating

i keep letting my ex in my life and he keeps upsetting me over and over. i suffer with high blood pressure and its not good. we broke up like 20 times. over a 3 yr. period and i decided to just be friends. so he kept doing the same things what caused us to break up. it really annoys me very much. its like im living the past daily. he has lied and broke promises and did many things behind my back. he is even trying to get under my skin as friends. he is very manipulative and tries to convince me that he is going to do better even as a friend. then he'll turn right around and say he isnt doing anything to me. i finally see that i will have to burn a bridge with him completely if i want to have peace in my life. but the anger that i have towards myself is grand. im upset at myself for letting this guy treat me like this for yrs and i regret having wasted my time extremely. ive cried and been upset for yrs and now its in my system and its causing me to have bad flashbacks. what do i do?

2007-04-12 07:28:27 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

My FIL has never treated me properly. He's criticized everything I've ever done. Example: My husband & I went on a 4 day trip so we asked my FIL to watch our ferrets, & when we came home he told us that we aren't ready for kids because we left our ferrets alone without caring. I told him that ferrets are completely different than kids, & he snapped. He told MY FATHER that he was so mad that I had disrespected him like that, that he could've slapped me!! This & other events like it, happened over 2 years ago and he's still complaining to everyone BUT ME about it. I've confronted him about the things that he's mad at me for, & every conversation turns into him screaming and claiming that he is right and i'm young and inexperienced. Winning is not an option with this guy. So here is my dilemma: My husband and I are going to his father's town to visit some old friends, do I visit my FIL and act like nothing is wrong just to keep the "peace", bring up my beef and start a war or avoid him?

2007-04-12 07:23:38 · 35 answers · asked by Jen K 1 in Family

What is considered ladylike when making out with a guy?

How do you know if you are being ladylike or not when making out with a guy?

2007-04-12 07:21:22 · 6 answers · asked by wildncrazysurvivor 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a 19 year old girl and i find myslef waking up everyday wondering whats wrong with me. why cant i find a decent guy and why doesnt anyone want me. what is so terrible about me. i think it is the way i look. i am no supermodel. i am 5'7 and i m like 220-225. i have brown hair and highlights and hazel eyes. why cant i be happy and find someone to love me for what i have instead of what i look like. i have feelings to and idk why i am always getting passed over for my friends. am i that horrible and not pretty. i grew up with people telling me that i am not pretty and no one will want me and i am starting to bealive that. idk understand why me? why do i have to feel this way and feel unattractive and unloved. will anyone ever want me?

2007-04-12 07:19:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 07:18:27 · 9 answers · asked by basem 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for about eight years and we have a two year old daughter together.While I was pregnant he cheated on me and pushed me away. He was in prison for the first year and a half of my daughters life and during that time i had an other boyfriend. while locked up he begged me to come back to him and give him a chance to be a family. I had moved to Austin and was doing good! when he came out I decided to give it a try and left my bf and moved back to Houston. Now he says he's not ready and he's sorry for having me move back. He says he needs space and he still wants to have fun. I am just hurt to where it's unbearable and I don't know if I should stay and prove to him that I love him or just walk out and leave that behind me. I do love him but he sometimes doesn't come home and a few times he's come home with hickeys on his chest. I know i told him I would give him space... What do I do?

2007-04-12 07:14:08 · 25 answers · asked by DADDYSGAL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok heres thething. Me and my husband have been separated for a while and I want a divorce from the lying bastard. However I am active duty military and I get paid about $1,100 more a month for my pay if I stay legally married. Plus I won't have to livein the barracks. What should I do?

2007-04-12 07:13:43 · 2 answers · asked by DeadlyFantasy33 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i nearly chocked on my food .. we are quiet close friends .. known each other for about 9 years..

its just out of the blue and i never see him in that "special way"
i was eating when he just came over and sat down and said ," do u know that i always wanted to marry you?" afterwards he laugh it off and started gobbling his food..

it kinda set me thinking is he for real or joking around . we are both in mid/late twenties and neither of us are in any relationship.

people what are your thoughts??? im going to freak out anything soon...

2007-04-12 07:13:16 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have known people who tell me they had found their soulmate, them relationship goes to pot, they met a new someone, then all the sudden that is their soulmate?

How many soulmates can one person have?

2007-04-12 07:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about 4 years ago. she is a female. never new them to be close. i met her a couple times. she rubbed me the wrong way, and was very rude to another girlfriend of mine. also met her husband who seemed like a nice guy..well fast foward 4 years (present) and he gets a email about "hey how the heck is life treating you and blah blah blah" they exchange emails back and forth enough to know she is getting out of he navy and is getting or is divorced... now she wants to meet him for dinner... he asked if i wanted to.. i said is she bringing a date he said no.. i said that would be a bit uncomterable.. im no going.. so he is going to go anyway to some seak house.. and it bothers me. am i being paranoid.. how would you feel about this... my husband has showed me all there email interaction, he is always like that.. and he seems to have nothing to hide, and i have been married to him 7 yrs and have never had a reason for mistrust.. i think its her i dont trust... i dont know,,,let me know

2007-04-12 07:13:03 · 48 answers · asked by Z 4 in Marriage & Divorce

you just fell in love or feel a connection without planning it? If you are unhappy in your life but don't want to leave due to kids or maybe you just aren't ready... is it really that bad to have an affair with someone that makes you happy? Can it be justified?

2007-04-12 07:12:47 · 35 answers · asked by scrtlvss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My stepdaughter is 6 and when she comes on weekends she loves to play with her dolls. But her dolls are always in trouble. She tells her dolls " you look me in the eyes and show respect when I am speaking" or speaks hatefully "you are so bad that you can't do anything now you lay there and don't say another word". She never says anything nice to the child and never hugs and kisses like my children do. I don't know if because she's 6 and mine are 1 and 2 that it makes a difference or something more is going on. Every time we pick her up or drop her off her mom hugs and kisses her so I don't know what to think. Am I the only one concerned or should I just brush it off. I think her mom is warping her mind?

2007-04-12 07:10:59 · 24 answers · asked by MommyofTwo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He has not made a decision to move yet, and I understand that he has the right to if he so decide. The father of my oldest son is taking me to court to force our son to make a decision. I lost my job, but it was sent over seas. I have been approved for TAA benefits to go back to school. I and my current husband worked for the same company, now we live on unemployment. I want to go to school to improve my skills and find a job that has less of a chance of this happening again. So, how can I pay child support or how much will I have to pay if my son moves. Help!!!

2007-04-12 07:10:22 · 8 answers · asked by teddy bear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-12 07:09:54 · 9 answers · asked by burlingtony 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

All I ask is that my meal is on the table when I come home from work and the house is kept clean and tidy. She says she is my wife not my maid and if I want that I should hire a maid but **** that. I pay all the bills its the least she can do.

We both work but I work harder than her and her job is only part time so she has plenty of time to do these things. I even have to do my own laundry and iron them myself.

How can I get her to do as she is told. If any guys answer..How did you train your wife to do these things ?

2007-04-12 07:02:55 · 116 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last week my daugther took home the date and the permision slip to go to a field trip along with the date of her kinder graduation, picture date adn the order of cap & gown ... So I called her dad to let him know ahead and make plans so he can attend adn also because that weekend our daugther wanted to spend the weekend with him ...anyways the next day he called me during my lunch time at work which I don't know How he find out?? And he told me that he wanted to talk to me, I told him that what ever he needs to talk it can be by phone or when he pick up our daugther , but he insist on taking me to lunch somewhere else but I said NO, I ask him why and he says that he miss me, but I don't get it I got married again & so does he I have 2 kids w/ my hubby and he has 1 girl it has beign almost 7 yrs since our divorce why does he come up with this ?? Should I tell my hubby he trust me & I trust him too there are no lies in our relaitonship but I don't want to make this a big deal! what2do?

2007-04-12 07:00:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-12 06:59:17 · 11 answers · asked by Florida-Fan1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 06:57:29 · 32 answers · asked by Lola L 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, me in my infinate wisdom decided it would be a great idea to fall in love with one of my guy friends. I've felt this way about him for two years, however, he's dating one of my newer friends(known her three months) . I want to hate her, but I can't. Help!

2007-04-12 06:55:33 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Singles & Dating