Last week my daugther took home the date and the permision slip to go to a field trip along with the date of her kinder graduation, picture date adn the order of cap & gown ... So I called her dad to let him know ahead and make plans so he can attend adn also because that weekend our daugther wanted to spend the weekend with him ...anyways the next day he called me during my lunch time at work which I don't know How he find out?? And he told me that he wanted to talk to me, I told him that what ever he needs to talk it can be by phone or when he pick up our daugther , but he insist on taking me to lunch somewhere else but I said NO, I ask him why and he says that he miss me, but I don't get it I got married again & so does he I have 2 kids w/ my hubby and he has 1 girl it has beign almost 7 yrs since our divorce why does he come up with this ?? Should I tell my hubby he trust me & I trust him too there are no lies in our relaitonship but I don't want to make this a big deal! what2do?
2007-04-12 07:00:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This happened with my wife and her ex. Tell him the incident and your response. Also tell him that you have handled it. He will be wary of the guy for a while but the fact that you've shot him down will be enough to let it go away.
2007-04-12 07:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband. You don't want to start having secrets if you have always been open with him. Besides you could both have a good laugh.. I don't think you should make a big deal from this. Your ex is probably going through some sort of crisis and thought re-connecting with you would help. Who knows, but I wouldn't let it bother me.
2007-04-12 07:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him. How would he feel if he found out you were keeping a secret. If you're upfront and honest he will respect you for it. If you try to hide it he may think you had actually considered the idea.
2007-04-12 07:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by skylark455st2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, just to make him aware of he situation. He is your husband and you want to be open and honest and that way he knows you are not interested in the ex and not trying to hide anything.
2007-04-12 07:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by answers28 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your ex wife first, then talk to your husband. It seems your ex is a little confused.
2007-04-12 07:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him it would be better it comes out of ur mouth and not someone elses .. sorry i would tell ..
2007-04-12 07:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2007-04-12 07:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋