prove that you are in love with someone. I totally disagree with the wholr thing i just wan to see or just read every one else opinion on this situatio. Also why do you agree or disagree.
2007-04-12 07:41:50 · 23 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eventually yes. However there are platonic relationships. Do what you feel is right.
2007-04-12 07:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by shafer 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well... interesting question indeed. You have not specified which type of relationship and with whom and your Age. But here is my opinion. This applies to any relationship. Define your relationship and why you need that relationship. Since you are mentioning kissing and sex... this is a pre-marital relationship, either a girlfriend or boyfriend. If thats the case and if you are under 21, you should not even be asking this question. Focus on your career and health. If you are an adult, then you have some need that they are fulfilling thru this relationship. Relationships are usually two way streets. Since you totally disagree about kissing and having sex as being the focal part of the relationship then you better be upfront about your values and the meaning of the relationship to you. And let them decide if they can live with it. And be ready for their decision and respect it. Everyone has different definitions for relationships.
I love that new sports car, but my dealer wants me to give him money for it. I dont want to part with my hard earned savings... but then again what do I like more? Money in my bank or driving that car? You decide.
Either way you are going to be successfull in life, just because you came out and asked for help/opinion. Good luck on any decision you make, cause it will be the right one.
2007-04-12 15:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Yash S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly man I don't believe that kissing or sex are essential part of a relationship I mean sure every guy wants a booty call but depends upon how far it will lead and kissing is important to some people but honestly I can disagree and will show you why in my source.... alright as for the sex part sex can do many things but in the end it can hurt you more then anything a person gets so used to sex that they end up hurting there partner just by being stupid I agree that sex can be essential but I disagree because I have been in pain because others I know decided to cheat while I was just being Mr. Nice Guy and doing what I could to keep em happy
2007-04-20 03:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by olson101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing touching are very important. Just holding hands is a great way to start. Kissing next. But the sex, now hold on. Do you have to have sex to PROVE you are in love with someone??? Come on. If you don't want to, if you aren't ready, and they love you, they should be understanding and patient until the time is right for both of you. Otherwise, it's really all about what's in it for him and you don't want to be giving me any, if you know what I mean. You will know when it's right. For you that may not be til marriage. But hold out someone special, not someone you HAVE to have sex with.
Hang in there gal. There are a few, very few, but a few nice guys still out there.
2007-04-20 14:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think kissing is an important part of a relationship because it's something that brings you and your partner closer, and it makes you feel the other person, when you kiss the person your in love with you just can't describe the feeling. About sex, I also do not think you should have to go to that level to express your love for someone. If your partner is going to force you to have sex then you shouldn't be with him. But most couples do have sex because in that atmosphere who can resist? =]
2007-04-12 14:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree & Disagree: to me personally kissing is IMPORTANT i just love it;
sex its a big part but not all of it,
you can love someone and not have sex with them, there thousands of ways to show someone you love them without having to have sex you or whoever just need to know the best way to do so
2007-04-20 14:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by HEIDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its possible not express those emotions in a relationship but the odds of you finding a guy who feels the same way is about 1 in 3 billion (by the way there are only roughly about 3 billion guys in the world). Besides if you truly loved someone wouldn't you want to satisfy there needs.
2007-04-12 14:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree because kissing isn't a really important part of relationship but it is important....
as 4 sex it isn't a important part cause some people wait until they're married before having sex..some people think that sex is going out of fashion or it's going to run away so they have it but sex isn't going to run away it was there in Adam's and eve's time it was there in Ur grandparents time it was there in Ur parents time and it's still going to be there in Ur time so Wait abstinence makes sense..
as long as the person says they love me they don't have to prove I'll take their word 4 it and some of those people who don't believe in abstinence it could relieve they stress of thinking
about
sexually transmitted diseases {ST D'S}
HIV
aids
cervical cancer
pregnancy
prostate cancer and other diseases
cause all of these occur by having unprotected sex and being careless
2007-04-12 15:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by `Avenging~ghetto~bird` 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew your age, I could answer this better. Anyway, kissing is usually involved in a relationship, but not necessarily sex. You don't have to do anything physical to prove your love, especially not sex. Only do what you feel comfortable doing, and nothing more.
2007-04-19 22:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinon you don't think so. my bf is 8 yrs older than me (I'm 17) and we don't have sex often maybe once a month, but he knows I love him. It just depends on the person involved. Kissing I'll say is more important it takes you to an intimate place, will for me.
2007-04-20 13:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by kirbyluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither kissing or sex are very important. If they dont like it (partner) and u dont want to either you shouldnt. Its just what u feel comfortable doing.. dont worry about what anyone else might think just make sure it is what u want..... as long as you are safe its ok
2007-04-20 14:05:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋