Family & Relationships - 12 April 2007

on 3/16 me and me ex had a misunderstanding and he grabbed on my clothes and my hair while trying to remove me from a cab, he broke my phone, yelled some obsenities, and then spit on me. I told him he would never get me back, i could forgive but not forget. ever since then he's always begging and "baby this, baby that". And part of me wants to believe him, but the other half is to scared to be a fool for giving him a second chance. So he says he will never let himself loose control again, but i don't believe him. Do you think it's possible he can change??

2007-04-12 10:43:05 · 26 answers · asked by majones83 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-12 10:38:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do they only think about sex? And how can i get their mind out the gutter?

2007-04-12 10:38:09 · 16 answers · asked by Chicago 4 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has recently stopped allowing me to perform oral on her. We used to perform at least 5X per week and never had any complaints from her. As a matter of fact, I know I am very good because I always get compliments from my GF's and they often ask "where did you learn to do that"

I know she used to be in it and enjoyed it because she would always ask. Now, I might be lucky if she lets me do it 2X a month.

I ask her why she won't let me anymore, and she says she just "does not feel like it"?????

I can't get an answer out of her and it is really starting to bother me because it is my favorite act and my "go to move".

What could be wrong???????

2007-04-12 10:37:54 · 18 answers · asked by mike e 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in the state of California, and my husband has two children and we have just been subpoenaed to court. On the paperwork it asks if people live with you and how much they make. I heard a while back that a senator (or some kind of politician) was going through a custody battle with his ex-wife and they were trying to take money from his new wife, so the law changed so that the spouses of the non-custodial parents do not have to report their income.

Does anyone know if this is true? And if so, what should we put in that box? PLEASE HELP!

2007-04-12 10:32:49 · 9 answers · asked by Hmm... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am divorced, ex- husband and I agreed on everything so it was a dissilusion.My ex- husband was awarded all right, title and interest in and to said real estate, free from any clains of the wife (me) I signed a quick claim deed. the divorce papers state that my exhusband shall have exclusive occupancy of the residence and he shall pay and hold wife harmless on the mortage payment to said morgage company, they gave him 2 years to put house loan into his name and take me off. unfortunatly he died before he did this. and now the morgage company is comeing after me. how can I be liable when it states in my divorce papers that he shall pay and hold wife(me) harmless on the morgage.

2007-04-12 10:32:15 · 13 answers · asked by J Lee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im having a birthday party in two weeks, i said to my mom i wanted it to have it at the beach, she said no. I cant have it at the beach, she said i should put my party at this museum.

i said mom, i dont want it at no museum and she got mad and started yelling at me and grabbed my wrist hard and pushed it to my face and said "why th ehell is your hair in your face again?"

Was that abuse? Because she got really angry and really pushed hard on my wrist

2007-04-12 10:26:23 · 19 answers · asked by Malina H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of two years just asked me to marry him. We are planning a big wedding. He has told me the sky is the limit. My mother, sisters and I are actively ironing out every detail.
The problem is his ex-wife found out he is getting married again. She has vowed to make trouble for us. She doesn't want him to marry me. She says I am too young for him. There is seventeen years between us. He is 45--I am 28.
She has vowed to attend the wedding and object to the nuptials. She even told me that she wants him back. The thing is he can't stand her.
How do I keep this b***** from ruining my big day. How do I keep her from attending the wedding. She has stated that not receiving an invitation isn't gonna keep her away.
What am I to do? My fiancee has tried telling her to stay out of our lives but she just doesn't take a hint. She just keeps interjecting her two cents.
He has suggested giving her false information about the wedding date and location. Is this a good idea? Will it work?

2007-04-12 10:22:28 · 30 answers · asked by Lexie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 14.
I weight 123,brown hair,dark brown eyes,curly hair (not too curly).I am size 1-2 in jeans.I wear Small shirt.

2007-04-12 10:20:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one of my best friend is a guy who i talk to like everyday and we are pretty tight.... but a couple of days ago i started likeing him a little... on top of all of that hes a year younger then me... i dont want to make us none friends anymore but i might want to think about askin him out what should i do???

2007-04-12 10:20:07 · 21 answers · asked by peacelove&:) 1 in Friends

ok so ive been dating this guy 4 almost a month, and he is pretty attached...much more than i am. he's already said i love you...but not in so many words. he'll try to carry my books-which i h8-, he'll say i look cute, he'll walk with me to class and either put his arm around me or try to hold my hand, and he'll kiss me b4 he walks away. he's a sweetheart, but i just dont feel how i did earlier. i almost feel bad, like this is all my fault, by one of my friends said that i cant help the way that i feel...im thinking about breaking up, but were also in the same english class. should i stay with him til the end of the school year? i dont know cuz i dont want to lead him on for another month, but i dont want it to be awkward in class either...what do i do?

2007-04-12 10:17:38 · 29 answers · asked by ♥_glitter 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy in my class and she is always so rude to me sometime sand he thinks he is so smarter than me (which he is soo not) Today, at lunch my friend told me that she heard him say to this ugly boy in my class that the he and my sister would be perfect couple because you both are ugly. Everybody complinmets us how pretty we are. (not trying to brag) But he is so mean to me. And when he said that about my sister that made me mad. Is that rude?

2007-04-12 10:16:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have this new friend Dan, that I met in college. He's very nice, caring, and he's got a bit of a wild/crazy side to him too. We are not dating, never even considered it, we are just friends. I live off of campus and he lives on campus and when we party, sometimes I spend the night w/ him so that I don't have to drive home. Nothing happens when I spend the night. We even sleep in entirely different beds. I have this other friend who I also met in college and have known longer. I'm not dating him either, but, for some reason, he is very much bothered by the fact that I spend the night w/ Dan. He claims that he doesn't care, but he always makes sarcastic comments like "tell dan i said hi" or "ask dan if he will let you come over", etc. I tell him that nothing @ all goes on between us, that he is just concerned about me and doesn't want me to drive home. To this statement, my second friend replies "yeah ok whatever" what does he think is going on and why does he act the way he does??

2007-04-12 10:14:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dnt really kno wat hapned...my bfrd had been living wit me for bout 3wks-he wrks out of twn during the wk, he came home abt 2 wks ago but nstead of comn hm 2 our place he went to his moms.I wdve thought he wdve wanted to c me 1st-he alwaz had-sum'n was dif. this time. to the point ...He had been sick (thk it scared him)4 2 wks he was distant & then he told me that he luv'd me, missed me, & he's feelings hadnt changed n ne way towards me but he jst wanted to b alone & not date anybody rite now. for several days he wdnt give me a reason y...jst i dnt kno, then he told me that he didnt like living in the twn that i live n so he didnt wanna move in wit me but he wants 2 b wit me. I dnt want to have a long distance relationship that was the reason 4 him moving dwn here so we c'd start fresh. I cnt move there b/c of my kids. i kno he doesnt kno nebdy here & has no car but if he luvs me then y is he so confused? y does he keep calling me-& giving me false hope? i dnt kno how 2 make it rite

2007-04-12 10:13:49 · 13 answers · asked by deltagal 1 in Singles & Dating

Im in love with this boy. He is 17 but he likes my 12 year old siter. We are friends he treats me right but i feel bad and upset that he likes her not me. I think hes to old for her aswell. I tried to forget him but its very hard. I know that she likes him a bit and that she don't go out with him coz of me. I made her upset today coz i ssaid she acts like a ***** when i know she doesn't. Im really close to my sister and i don;t wanna hurt her feelings and i don;t wanna get hurt aswell. What should I do?

2007-04-12 10:12:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is normal for a married couple? How often should they have sex? 2 times a week? 3 times a week? What is reasonable for a husband to expect in terms of intercourse with his wife?

2007-04-12 10:12:22 · 23 answers · asked by gIrLiE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 and my bf of 9 months and i just broke up. i broke up with him. but anyways i still have all the presents and stuff he gave me. what should i do with them? and he keeps telling everyone he doesnt care that we broke up. but i have a feeling he does. why wont he admit, even to me that he is mildly upset. i think it is because he is a guy and does not want to let down his pride! but, do you think there is another reason? please answer both questions. (ps. i aam NOT burning his presents!!!)

2007-04-12 10:12:08 · 37 answers · asked by gymnasticsluvr96 1 in Singles & Dating

I know loadza lads that for some strange reason seem to want to sleep with the world after they have been in a relationship.. Witch is fine but i cant figure out how they can move on so easy, or is that there way of moving forward!!!
I feel sorry for the poor girls who they end up sleeping with..

2007-04-12 10:12:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why would someone cheat on there beautiful wife with an ugly and overweight woman and the answer you get is just for fun any ideas

2007-04-12 10:10:06 · 27 answers · asked by hcj25 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, how did you ever get over such intense emotional pain and eventually learn to love again?



Tell Angel.

She wants to know!

2007-04-12 10:08:51 · 22 answers · asked by Devilish Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

I emailed one of my guy friends to spend the night with me after the beer bash party next friday at my place to have a little fun of our own....and ever since then he's been friendlier lol and talking to me more often.

What is that supposed to mean?

2007-04-12 10:06:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got hurt real bad. How long should I wait before trying again?

2007-04-12 10:04:41 · 6 answers · asked by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 in Singles & Dating

huh?

2007-04-12 10:04:30 · 18 answers · asked by pookie 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I really,really like this guy and we hang out ALOT and I always play around with him and joke but we still hold hands and kiss and stuff like that. But, he asked me today why I treat him like a friend and not like a boyfriend,what ishe talking about? I mean I never regect him when he makes moves you know what I mean like he'll put his hand and my knee and I never move it. how does he want me to act?what should I do?I thought guys were suppose to make the moves? PLEZZ HELP ME!

2007-04-12 10:04:05 · 2 answers · asked by island gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 29/fem & my g/f of 6 years broke up with me suddenly 11 weeks ago and we have had no contact whatsoever for the last 4 weeks. I am totally wrecked by this and I am trying to be strong and listen to everybody when they tell me "you'll get over this"
Last night I discovered that she has updated her profile on a well known website that lets old school friends see what you are up to now. She added to her profile that she has a gorgeous g/f and she is very happy. I was shocked I admit but I calmly phoned her and asked her and she denied everything. All she could say was "who told you that" then she got angry with me as usual.
All I want is to know the truth, fine, she may not want to hurt me anymore but I am at the lowest point right now and her lying about it is making me feel like she hates my guts and that I am nothing but dirt on the bottom of her shoe.

Am I wrong to ask for her to have the decency to be honest with me so that I can get closure on this once and for all??

2007-04-12 10:02:01 · 13 answers · asked by Hurt & Alone 1 in Singles & Dating

the oldest guy ive dated was 25, we had the best relationship ever, one nighht one of my guy friends got me drunk at his party. with me being bi i cheated on him with a girl. when he found out he cheated on me with my best friend who was 22 he broke my heart and i forgave him but he thought i would cheat on him again so we broke up. now he wont even talk to me. so im single with the guys but my girlfriend and i have been together scince......

2007-04-12 10:01:34 · 17 answers · asked by sweetblood 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother doesn't want to send birthday cards and cash to my older kids. She has been doing it for 18, and 22 years for my kids and my sisters kids. She puts $40 or $50 in the card. She says it has to end sometime, and how long should she do it. She is mad at my sisters kids. She doesnt approve of the way they are living, like with their boyfriends, without being married. So, she doesnt want to send them cards or money, so I told her she couldn't send my kids any either. The other 2 sets of grandparents still send cards, with money in them, and I think it will hurt my kids feelings, if they don't at least get a card from my mother. Two of the grandparents are only step grandparents, and they want to sent cards to my kids! My Mom seems selfish, and judgemental to me. My son and Daughter are good to her, and they are going to get hurt , just because my mom doesn't like or is mad at the other grandkids!

Am I overeacting? Am I right? Or is my mother right?

2007-04-12 09:58:36 · 30 answers · asked by Sunday 3 in Family

Is there life after hell?

2007-04-12 09:49:52 · 25 answers · asked by TIFFANY B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it make you want to find another man that is not so fast?

2007-04-12 09:49:10 · 16 answers · asked by Rick D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For example, as far as same-sex marriage goes, I'm all for it and I'm arguing it right now. I know that there are some things perks married couples can recieve that civil union couples can't have, but I don't know what they are! Any thoughts?

2007-04-12 09:47:10 · 4 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Marriage & Divorce