I have this new friend Dan, that I met in college. He's very nice, caring, and he's got a bit of a wild/crazy side to him too. We are not dating, never even considered it, we are just friends. I live off of campus and he lives on campus and when we party, sometimes I spend the night w/ him so that I don't have to drive home. Nothing happens when I spend the night. We even sleep in entirely different beds. I have this other friend who I also met in college and have known longer. I'm not dating him either, but, for some reason, he is very much bothered by the fact that I spend the night w/ Dan. He claims that he doesn't care, but he always makes sarcastic comments like "tell dan i said hi" or "ask dan if he will let you come over", etc. I tell him that nothing @ all goes on between us, that he is just concerned about me and doesn't want me to drive home. To this statement, my second friend replies "yeah ok whatever" what does he think is going on and why does he act the way he does??
2007-04-12 10:14:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your second friend cares much about you too. However, he doesn't trust Dan. It's also possible that he wants to be your boyfriend (second friend, not Dan).
Your second friend probably doesn't think that anything is going on, other than that you're picking favorites. He's acting the way he does, because he worries that something might happen between Dan and you.
2007-04-12 10:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very jealous. He can't conceive of two people of the opposite sex sleeping in the same place and not having sex.
2007-04-12 17:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋