i dnt really kno wat hapned...my bfrd had been living wit me for bout 3wks-he wrks out of twn during the wk, he came home abt 2 wks ago but nstead of comn hm 2 our place he went to his moms.I wdve thought he wdve wanted to c me 1st-he alwaz had-sum'n was dif. this time. to the point ...He had been sick (thk it scared him)4 2 wks he was distant & then he told me that he luv'd me, missed me, & he's feelings hadnt changed n ne way towards me but he jst wanted to b alone & not date anybody rite now. for several days he wdnt give me a reason y...jst i dnt kno, then he told me that he didnt like living in the twn that i live n so he didnt wanna move in wit me but he wants 2 b wit me. I dnt want to have a long distance relationship that was the reason 4 him moving dwn here so we c'd start fresh. I cnt move there b/c of my kids. i kno he doesnt kno nebdy here & has no car but if he luvs me then y is he so confused? y does he keep calling me-& giving me false hope? i dnt kno how 2 make it rite
2007-04-12 10:13:49 · 13 answers · asked by deltagal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not false hope dear. Every relationship goes through this. It is a huge adjustment to live with someone. He really needs his space. Give it to him. It will make him miss you and love you that much more. Trust me, I've been there. If you love him, you have to do this. Not all guys are dogs, it is just harder for them to communicate their feelings. Us girls think with our emotions, but goes do not. He will come around. Don't worry. Spend some time with your girls and show him you are confident with yourself!
2007-04-12 10:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by taj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My baby is nine months and she wants to get into everything. I know exactly how you feel. You spend every second they are awake running behind them to stop them getting into stuff. Then when they go to sleep you just have enough time to tidy up their mess and maybe grab something to eat before they wake up again. I have a baby walker with toys on the tray for my daughter and she loves it as it makes her that little bit more independant. Give her things like a calculator and an old mobile phone or a toy mobile phone and then she thinks she has things that she isn't allowed and therefore she is more interested in them.
2016-05-18 03:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by sheryl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the lines of communication and move on. He sounds like he does not know what he wants. If this guy is older than 18 then he should be able to make up his own mind.
Does not sound like this guy has his own place, live with mom? LOOSER.....
2007-04-12 10:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Asian Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point there's nothing you can do but be there for him and support him with his decision. It sounds to me like he's confused and needs some time to figure things out. Maybe he feels like things have evolved too quickly and isn't sure what to do about it. He just needs some time and if it's meant to be it'll be.
2007-04-12 10:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend could be going through something very difficult, and that he isnt telling it to you because he might think you would be very upset. not that im saying hes dating someone else, but he might have contracted a strange sickness, and probably doesn't want you to get it and become sick. he probably is doing this not to hurt you, but he loves you very much and just wants to not worry you.
2007-04-12 16:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him his space...
I wen through that with my ex...
I needed time to really gather my thoughts...nothing helps more than time away and with your family! =)
I know how it feels not to be able to control everything in your relationship especially when you really love and care for someone...but sometimes you just have to accept things for what they are...
Everything happens for a reason.
2007-04-12 10:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just might be that he really likes the sex but that is about all he is interested in. So he does not want to see you all the time, just when it is convenient.
2007-04-12 10:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, just give it time! It's obvious that he loves you it's just he is hiddening something from you that he doesn't want you to know yet. Give him time, if you'll both love each other then your love for each other will never die. Time and conversion.
2007-04-12 10:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has someone else, and does not know how to tell you about it. Time to move on!
2007-04-12 10:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if guys hang around girls to often they practically become one. you cannot hold him hostage from the world, tv, or his friends. you must relize he loves you but needs time to himself. or else he might start wearing makeup. lol
2007-04-12 10:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by gymnasticsluvr96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋