Does it make you want to find another man that is not so fast?
2007-04-12 09:49:10 · 16 answers · asked by Rick D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it's frustrating. But it wouldn't make me look for another man unless the quick ejaculator was also a selfish lover. There are lots of ways for me to reach orgasm if you know what I mean. If he's as interested in my pleasure as I am in his, I won't be looking elsewhere.
2007-04-12 10:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mother Amethyst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, it is understandable when it happens too fast every once in a while, but all the time would be a problem. Practicing self-control would help. It is still a workable situation.
2007-04-12 09:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by nisey0069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't want to find another man that is not so fast. What I do want is for him to make sure that I am satisfied, too. That's what hands, fingers, mouths and tongues are for.
2007-04-12 09:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
We wouldn't care about it, if you finished the job! There is more than one way to get the job finished, ya know!
What if we stopped in the middle of a bj and said ok we're done now? Think it would be frustrating?
2007-04-12 09:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by wish I were 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it frustrating - yes. Does it make you go out & find someone else - only if you weren't commited to the relationship in the first place. Guys who know they have this particular issue should make sure they get their partner there before intercourse - if you don't make sure you help her finish before you roll over & go to sleep. The 'I got mine - get yourself yours or wait till next time' mindset is what really makes you stop & reconsider your guys commitment to you.
2007-04-12 09:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by ang_phx 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he is going to fast your not doing things wright your in control, you have the (box) make him slow down and take care of you first take your time and make it last for him. if that doesn't work for him then say good bye and find someone like me that has patients.
2007-04-12 09:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by dl544 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fast is good... I've got better things to do with my day than f*ck for 2 hours.
2007-04-12 09:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i HATE it....and dude "can't help" it....REALLY pisses me off. Unfortunately, I can't just up and find a new man, I married the King of Quick Draw!
but i got plenty of toys...which hurts his feelings because he gets upset that he can't satisfy me. i say: whatever with your guilt trip! he tries to make me feel bad that he's quick draw. i say: if you really loved me like you say you do, then you would at least try...but I don't even get that.
2007-04-12 09:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u get a little frustated if your expecting a nite of passion and it turns into a couple of mins but i dont think that would make a woman go get another guy....... at least no right away!
2007-04-12 09:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by nydiva28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it isnt going to send me into the arms of another man. and i dont care when he does, my husband is wonderful in bed and even if he goes once he will be ready to go again (and for alot longer ) right away.
2007-04-12 09:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by neonatheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋