My girlfriend has recently stopped allowing me to perform oral on her. We used to perform at least 5X per week and never had any complaints from her. As a matter of fact, I know I am very good because I always get compliments from my GF's and they often ask "where did you learn to do that"
I know she used to be in it and enjoyed it because she would always ask. Now, I might be lucky if she lets me do it 2X a month.
I ask her why she won't let me anymore, and she says she just "does not feel like it"?????
I can't get an answer out of her and it is really starting to bother me because it is my favorite act and my "go to move".
What could be wrong???????
2007-04-12 10:37:54 · 18 answers · asked by mike e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first of all oral is very enjoyable but women sometimes need more....love and affection. I am a very big fan of oral but when you get closer in a relationship there is a need to go deeper than that. like more romantic stuff, soft kisses on the belly, or soft kisses while your telling her how much she means to you. Guys you have to think with your brain to not just your penis. Women need love, not just sex.
2007-04-12 11:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by byrd 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's 1 of only 3 possiblities.
1. She has an STD (But if you're still having sex and can see it, then that's probably not the case)
2. She's cheating on you (sorry)
3. None of the above. Women connect sexuality with emotions, and it might be a sign that there is something lacking in your relationship. Don't be so focused on the sexual part, and spend more time with her; listen to her; respect her. Don't be so eager all the time. Take a few weeks off from ANYTHING sexual, and the answers will come with time.
2007-04-12 17:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by APOLLO 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she wants to break up and needs to wean off the addiction to sex.
And everybody, no matter how good they are, eventually with meet someone they're JUST not compatible with.
Maybe she caught something.
Maybe you made a comment on how she tastes and she took it totally the wrong way.
Maybe she's got a yeast infection.
2007-04-12 17:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've never been into that - just does not do anything for me (and many have insisted I just had not had the right guy do it - until the noticed I was bored when THEY tried it!). Perhaps she really never was all that into it and just allowed you to do it since you enjoy it so much.
2007-04-12 17:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by lunasage 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she found out that you've done oral with all your former girlfriends, and she doesn't care for the idea of that level of intimacy with you because of that. So, find another "go-to" move. Respect her preferences. She respects yours, doesn't she?
2007-04-12 17:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by TitoBob 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I dont know what the hell is wrong with her but my number is 678 384.....jus kidding. Maybe she has an STD that she doesnt want u 2 no about. Thats the first thin that comes to my head.
2007-04-12 17:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
maybe shes having "that time of the month"
give and take, give her roses (but be careful with the size of chocolates 2big=she thinks u want 2 make her fat 2small= she thinks u think that shes fat and is trying not to mke her fatter, lol) she needs to feel appreciated and loved, try not asking her for oral as much and then she will not feel "pressured" 2 do it
good luck with stuff
2007-04-12 17:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kat88 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable anymore. Lay off of that for a while and just try and make her happy. She'll be comfortable with it again.
2007-04-12 17:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by shoeshopper ♥ 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Feels guilty you may be tasteing her other boy freind.
2007-04-12 17:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you recently let your whiskers grow?
They may be irritating her.
Aside from that, I bet she is getting it somewhere else.
2007-04-12 17:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by Chris C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋