the oldest guy ive dated was 25, we had the best relationship ever, one nighht one of my guy friends got me drunk at his party. with me being bi i cheated on him with a girl. when he found out he cheated on me with my best friend who was 22 he broke my heart and i forgave him but he thought i would cheat on him again so we broke up. now he wont even talk to me. so im single with the guys but my girlfriend and i have been together scince......
2007-04-12 10:01:34 · 17 answers · asked by sweetblood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like how you dodge responsibility--someone "got you drunk." Why would his cheating on you make your cheating on him ok? You both did something wrong, and you were the first. Oh, he broke your heart? What do you think you did to him?
2007-04-12 10:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first I need to say no one can "get you drunk" they can't force you to drink alcohol, that is something you choose to do on your own.
Both of you were wrong, you for cheating on him regardless of it being a guy or girl and him for cheating on you with your best friend, the truth is you both are probably better off apart rather than together.
Get a fresh start with someone new, make sure that they are aware you are bi and date both sexes, and look at this experience as a lesson in what not to do when in a relationship...
Good luck...=)
2007-04-12 17:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by kittin67 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because he did it because of what you did. No matter what a person does, what the other person does is punishment. PUnishment is always because of/for wrong doing. But in your case, you both did something wrong. You, nevertheless, did it/acted first. But the idea of girl cheating on a man with a girl, is disgusting. By rights, you both should fogive, and it seems as if he hasn't forgiven you. But regardless of reasons, wrong actions are always wrong actions. But I doubt you would've done what you did, if your former relationship was the best one ever. It just don't figure.
2007-04-12 17:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way in the matters of the heart where trust is broken. him cheating, you cheating, at this point the trust has been betrayed both ways. even if you two get to friendly terms and (maybe) start thinking about your possibilities together, i suggest remaining just friends. just remember that you are still young and you have so many more experiences to have. this was just a bump in the road along the way. you are bruised but you will heal
2007-04-12 17:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by mnkystp28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. You both screwed up and him cheating in revenge is just petty and childish.
Take this as a learning experience.
2007-04-12 17:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think cheating is wrong, whatever sex you cheat with. I'd be mad if my boyfriend cheated on me with a guy. It's about being faithful. If you're in a relationship you should be.
2007-04-12 17:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
G lets think you are still with someone else. Yeah that shows alot of commitment. Plus not everyone believes in second chances.
2007-04-12 17:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk or not you both cheated. Get over it.
2007-04-12 17:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by marisanj 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you dont belong together if you both cheated
2007-04-12 17:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its not okay that you cheated on him, or that he cheated on you.
2007-04-12 17:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Heather♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋