2007-04-12 04:57:05 · 17 answers · asked by joeelliot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you dont really have to tell her, if you try and get her motivated to work out with you or make healthy snacks and dinners or lunches together, maybe it will sort itself out....
I have a big butt myself and know that i have to watch what i eat, bring up a conversation about weight or places you gain weight, she might want to approach you about something. But he careful it might be a hot button issue for her in terms of self- esteem!
2007-04-12 05:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by ELgrande 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have someone else tell her lol. if you are close to her, you should start out by saying how much you love her and that you don't want to hurt her feelings. Just say that you've heard other people talking about how big her butt is. You have to be sensitive and if you know the person well enough, you'll know sort of how to approach it. If your friend asks you, if you think you think her butt is big, answer honestly, just try not to be rude and apologize if you have to. nobody likes to hear how bad they look.
2007-04-12 12:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by maynard989 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to tell someone their a** is too big. What are you doing checking out her butt anyways?? That is a sensitive subject especially to girl. Think about it, it may hurt her ego.
2007-04-12 12:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell her in a private area so she dosen't get embarassed and maybe say you're a little self concsious about your weight and offer to go to the gym with her. Good Luck!
2007-04-12 12:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by xox Baby B xox 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to do this without hurting her feelings. Be nice and accept her as is.
2007-04-12 12:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by flieder77 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just Say... Look your butt, its way too big, and it upsets me. Then start crying. Good Luck.,
2007-04-12 12:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
make her walk through somewhere that is a somewhat tight space... say between 2 tables andon the tables put a glass or something... when her butt hits the glass and knocks it down and breaks it... she will come to the realization that she has too much junk in the trunk and your won't have to say anything
2007-04-12 12:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Here's a better thought.....keep your mouth shut. You don't need to be tellin' her that her butt is gettin' big. Why do you care anyway?
2007-04-12 12:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Malarie~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well.....heres one for you.......look at your own A** and stop looking at hers! Why do you need to tell your friend that. It isn't like she cant see and feel it for herself!
2007-04-12 12:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would you have to even tell her that ? i am sure she already know , leave that alone because that will hurt her feelings
2007-04-12 12:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by dawn p 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋