To summarise...
I got dumped.
Not happy about it at all
I was replaced within a week (though allegedly by accident)
I don't have the luxury of avoiding or asking for space due to my job and some other stuff.
Aaah!
Being civilised on the outside is easy, the stuff on the inside isn't.
2007-04-12 06:05:09 · 21 answers · asked by Captain K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...u should look to the future with a positive mind..its all about loving yourself and forgetting about him/her...you'll get over the person a lot quicker if you consintrate on yourself and whats best for you in your life..get out there and start dating.... and what ever you do dont phone,txt,write or even look at this person until your sure your over them..it sounds to me that you had a lucky escape..GOOD LUCK...
2007-04-12 06:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by auto head 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i agree with John L.
i am reading all the comments posted..only wish it was that easy to move on or forget some1 just like that...i agree wid u on the last statement..its easy on the outside...inside there is a tornado of memories...how do u put it to rest?
see if this helps try to avoid anything n everything that is related to ur ex...pics, music, etc. keep urself busy as much as possible, go out with friends a lot, going to the gym surely helps....look at urself in the mirror n say 'i deserve better' n smile x
2007-04-19 23:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Micheal, so all i can add to what he's said is the hardest part for closure is letting go of the emotions....you will come to terms with things when your ready. In the mean time be strong emotionally and mentally. Time heals all!
2007-04-20 05:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Caro*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard - been there like many people - if you want to cry do it or shout, scream but obviously not in front of people theyll put you in a mental home. let it all out and eventually as time goes on you wont hurt anymore - keep yourself busy have you got any nice friends to cheer you up. dont sit around moping i know you want to but it makes it worse believe - remember its their loss!! good luck
2007-04-19 19:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Swan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the rebound, worst case is u get a guy u have some fun with then break it off, at least you wont feel like you havent moved on. Or you can suffer in silence or just sleep with him every now and again, ex sex is the best apparently (according to my friend, i havent been there)
2007-04-12 06:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
this may seem alittle harsh but it helps...
crying over your ex is reasonable but isnt worth the energy. especially because theres nothing you can do about it, i know its hard to get over someone, but right now your goin through the first stage of a break up... right now u WANT HIM MORE THAN ANYTHING, mainly because he was so perfect, but after about a week and a half, your feelings for him will start to fade. youll start relizing that you dont need him anymore. and chances are if you get back with him, he'll only break up with you again.
a quote that i made up and helps me out in these situations is "theres no need to stress about the things you cant change or control because itll only drive you insane."
kk enough of that, my suggestion is to do things that will keep your mind off of him, go out to the mall or jus hang out with your friends. avoid having time to yourself for a while, if you start thinking about your boyfriend, do things that will keep your mind off of him and if your boyfriend comes up to you, remember that he was the one that broke your heart, and that theres nothing you can do about it.
2007-04-20 06:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by Killed_Nemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kno how u feel my b/f dumped me 4 days ago and hez always around bcuz we hang out around the same place with the same people yeah oh and 1 of my bffs has a crush on him she always has his name on her hand
2007-04-20 04:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try'in not much chat
show off as if u r happy
find sm1 else and try'in tease ur ex
I bet u will start feeling better in an week
2007-04-20 01:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by zack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get on with your life, plenty of fish in the sea.......plenty of people to meet and see. Just let him see you having a good time, communicating with and getting on very well with everybody else.....get him interested in you again......and knock him back !
Haha ! If somebody wants to play games with me...I play hard.....and always win !
Then you'll feel good , whatever happens !
2007-04-12 06:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by ??? Double Standards ??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe when he or she heard some happen and want to be there for u and some time just want to see u like my ex boyfriend he go to my school now and i am senior and he want to go back with me so when my granddaddy past away last years he there so ever since then he alawy been there form me some boys said that they alway been their for u
2007-04-12 06:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by sade g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋