my boyfriend and I used to have sex every day when we first started dating (2 yrs ago). After several months into the relationship though, sometimes he would get bored with our sex and say that I wan't "dirty" enough like I used to be or something (totally false, because my rhoutine was completely the same!). He would need porn to turn him on. After a while of not having sex we were at it again like rabbits. Then after a more months passed, he only wanted sex about once or twice a week. We're both 21 and I don't think that's normal for two young, good looking people. Sure we're busy with our studies, but how is it that my sex drive is so high (wanting sex every other day), whereas his dwindles down after awhile (wanting it once or twice a week only)? Now when I'll be frisky with him and grab his butt or something, he'll look disgusted and tell me to stop! This irritates me because he does it to me all the time! Today, I woke up and found tissues in the toilet (from him masturbating)!!
2007-04-12 08:33:32 · 3 answers · asked by aMeNa_aCid* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his sex drive is lower than ur and there is nuthing wrong with that
in ur comment u sed that u havent changed ur routine maybe he is getting bored of that and wats to try different styles like from being or doggy style.
do things like somthing u woodnt do like if he is just lying on the couch or sitting there just jump on top of him and start having sex just out of the blew. or if he is just sitting there rip off his pants and give him head
good luck
2007-04-13 16:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 05:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His sex drive is lower than yours. There is nothing wrong with that. Sex just once a year is even fine if that's all the person wants.
If he is masturbating instead of having sex with you, maybe it is because it is quicker and he doesn't have to worry about pleasing another person.
Why not masturbate yourself when you want sex? There is nothing wrong with that.
2007-04-12 11:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋