I figured from the last situation from him putting his hands on her, him cheating on her, and mentally abusing her. she would grow some sense and some dignity but I dont know whats wrong with her....after loosing her job and hitting rock bottom, she wants to see this guy again after he accused her of keying his hummer, calling her crazy and other numerous things. with some time apart from him, she meets a guy that is all around the perfect match for her and now she is screwing up by seeing her ex boyfriend that treats her like **** and then wheels her back in when he is in a good mood and is willing to be a good man for five mins. all because they want to have sex together. should she focus on finding a job and stick with the new guy that treats her right or work things out with her Jerk Ex Boyfriend that plays her?
2007-04-12 08:36:47 · 2 answers · asked by Nicohle Jordi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah------thats right----inquiring minds want to know.
2007-04-19 16:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's obvious that she needs to stick with the nice guy and focus on finding a job.
She needs counseling. It sounds like she likes losers. It could be that she is trying to work out issues with older males (from when she was young), or she just likes the excitement of fighting (a calm life may be too "boring"), or she just wants to blame someone else for her problems instead of taking responsibility.
I has a friend I used to "save" all the time. She would just get worse every time I saved her from her situation. I finally had to let her go and not see her any more. She didn't like that - she liked having someone save her all the time. But it wasn't doing either of us any good.
2007-04-12 18:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋