This question, I feel, relates to reality. I read a question about a women saying she was thinking about having sex on a 2nd date, and almost every answer I read was saying how you should wait until you get to know the person or until you have feelings or emotions.
1) What I want to know 1st, is who really still does that?
2) If the sex if bad and you wait till you feel something, then how does that really work for you?
3) How many people really marry a person who they wait to sleep with this day and age?
4) Sex is suppose to be in intimate act & for some it is, but do you really think that every time u have sex it's going to be some secrete spiritual experience?
5) How many men really think that every woman who gives it up easy is a hoe?
If you talk to some of them u would know. Some men really have good game & some women could have had a dry spell & now see an opportunity. That does not make her a hoe.
6) Why are women acting like they don't want it like men?
2007-04-12 05:32:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All I am saying is in this day and age we are aware of how things are suppose to be, but we are also aware that they are not. If everyone were going to get tested before having sex then all STD’s would stop. If you feel in love with everyone you had sex with before you had sex with them you would probably end up a disappointed person who gets there heart broken all the time, because you would need to love everyone you sleep with, and if that works so much then why do we have divorces. So again I am asking why do people put so much on the rules of sex when in the end all those rules don’t guarantee a positive, happy,” RIGHT” outcome. I am not condoning it, but I do feel it’s the reality.
2007-04-12 05:32:39 · update #1
Honestly, I can't understand you - you ran around the tree too many times.
Switch to decaf.
It sounds like you are saying some women like to have sex on the first or second date. And that's true. And by doing that they are not necessarily whores. And by waiting too long to have sex and finding out it's bad sex you've wasted all that precious dating time.
Is that about right?
2007-04-12 05:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree to many people have casual sex like it is nothing. I waited to have sex until after I married and so did most of my friends. I think that loos girls are sleazy!! and yes some guys do like that not all. Sex is not all that is important in a relationship. yes is definitely is a plus but it is something that should be shared in a marriage arrangement & not before then. But thats just what I think call me old fashion i dont care. Oh and in case you are wondering my age I'm 19
2007-04-12 13:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) well i am one of those people. i waited to get to know the person before jumping into bed with him. we dated 9 months before going all the way.
2)i don't get this question sorry. you can always improve your "experience".
3) well i didn't wait till i got married, but he is the only person i have ever been with in that way.
4) well there are times for intimate moments and then there are just times you want it.
5) i don't know...doesn't mean she is easy.
6) who said that? my husband and i have an equally high drive for each other :)
2007-04-12 15:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only way I know how to answer this question is "reality is never what we want it to be". You're right, relations between a man and woman aren't always a sacred thing, BUT what makes it sacred without it being "sacred" is that they love each other, even if it's a quickie. Does this help?
2007-04-12 12:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow girl, your question leaves me confused. I'm going to take an Advil and a nap.
2007-04-12 13:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by seashell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋