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Question

me and my ex have been broke up for 2 months. i've been having these thoughts of her getting back with my friend because they dated before we got together and he told me stuff they did and i compared are relationship, i'm a little jealous and i'm fighting it. i know why i keep feeling this way but i just want to know if this is normal and if anyone else has been through this and what did you do?

now my friend he's in another relationship and i don't think he has any intentions but i don't know and i thought it was not my place to ask because of my own insecurities.

Answer 1

I'd leave everything alone, it's time to deal with your insecurites and jealousy, you know? Otherwise if you don't whatever other relationships you get into may turn out to be the same way, you probably don't want that. =) Good luck!

Answer 2

If yall are broke up then theres not much you can do. Just live your life and find away to go on with out constantly thinking about what she is doing or who shes with. Good Luck

Answer 3

Yes its normal you have had your feelings hurt,take time to look after you,you will meet someone else when the time is right.

Answer 4

keep fighting it. your thinking sounds perfectly normal. try not to read too much into things and start dating again.

Answer 5

I would try to get past what she does and move on to make yourself happy. don't let your mind destroy you. you can get past this, it just takes time.

Answer 6

who cares about what your friend wants...what is important is what your gf wants and what she needs...if you know that you have nothing to worry about!***