Why cant i stop thinking about her?
My girlfriend broke up with me almost 3 months ago. Recently she accused me of some things i didnt do and now we are no longer speaking. For some reason i cant stop thinking about her.. i know this isnt healthy but i dotn know what to do. Everything reminds me of her.. I hear i song on the radio i think of her.. i watch baseball i think of her.. SHe never really provided me closure and I probably wont get that opportunity (at least for a while). What can I do? I can barly eat, I barly sleep, she is the first and last thing i think about in the day. THIS ISNT HEALTHY and quite frankly I dont want my life going into a downward spiral because of it. what can i do?
the police were involved at one point (she went psycho on me) so i cant just call her and talk to her. if anything i have to write a letter if i want cosure.. but i cant send it for a few months due to the magnitude of the accusations. I should just say screw her but for some reason i cant
2007-04-12 05:41:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When it comes to matters of the heart, there is no real escape. Only time and purposeful distractions will help get you through this. It is not out of the ordinary to think about someone who has been an important part of your life and I can't say that there will ever be a time that you won't. However, you have to begin by keeping busy and forcing yourself to think about other things. We cannot force a thought from our mind once its there but we can block it with other things. This is how you will begin to get over that hump. As far as closure, well It might be better to sit and analyze the pros and cons of your relationship for yourself. Seeking it from the other person is just prolonging you moving on. If it will help for you to write your thoughts down on paper then I think that is very healthy, however, I wouldn't mail it to her. It seems as though the two of you have enough to deal with right now and your life getting back to normal needs to start right now.
2007-04-12 06:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Felisha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts. thats all there is to say really... Me and my Fiance just broke it off. we have a 2 year old and were together for 5 years. I still think about him but you have to see that everything happens for a reason. you need to sit down and write down 10 good things about her and 10 bad things about her... then compare them... you will soon relize if she is worth your time... you will always have a feeling for her. Its like my mom says when you let someone have a part of your heart they will always have that place. try to keep bussy with friends and family or something that is important to you.. you will see that in time you will love again and she will be 10 times if not more better then this last one. But remember you will never find someone when you are still looking for the last girl. I hope i have helped you.... best of luck
2007-04-12 05:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wel im a person speaeking from experience ive been through this situation once nd it hurt me real bad because he broke up with me and didnt give me any closure and still hasnt i felt the same exact way as you... but, as time went on i tried to forget and i have a little bit but he still comes in ma mind a couple times a day nd we had cops involved in our relationship to but we got over it and now we are ok friends and if he ever asked me to be his girlfriend again i noe this sounds bad but i would.... so jus give it som tym nd try really hard to put ur self out thier and meet other pepole dont keep ur emotions bottled up and wenever u need to cry jus cry itz good for the soul
2007-04-12 06:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by dominirecan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once upon a time there became this guy who became so fantastic to me, he ought to as well were an angel who fell immediately from the sky - an angel with a 5 inch tall mohawk and an excellent smile despatched to make me giggle, practice me to relax, and enable me comprehend that i'm loved....i became only waiting to be with him for a couple of minutes, then he joined the military and that i never even were given to assert see you later :( i imagine about him each day and want that he's nice yet i comprehend he probably is nice, because after all he's an angel...
2016-11-23 14:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by incardona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for the sake of your health you must say screw her. As much as it hurts to move on it will hurt alot more if u screw any chance of happyness you get in life because of her. If you can score one girlfriend im sure you wont have trouble scoring another. In short have a tall glass of toughen the f@rk up :)
2007-04-12 05:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋