2007-04-12 04:46:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
50/50
if you have loved and lost then you have experiance great love in your life and in your point of view lived life to the fullest but however the loss is going to hurt alot and may bring you down from life.
if you have never loved at all then you havent really had something to hold on to. you never had the experiance of caring for someone other than youself. however you will not lose anything and you will live life loving one and only one person. yourslef.
2007-04-12 04:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by mursall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever says loved and lost is full of s*** in my opinion. It hurts like a mofo! My analogy: do you think it's easier to survive never having had money, or to be loaded and then go broke? If you've always had to work to scrape by, it's just the way it is. If you never had to worry about it because it was always there, and then POOF! GONE!, now you know what you're missing and you worry about not only getting by but also remembering how great it was before.
EXACT same with love. Love is the most wonderful blessing but it can result in the most dreadful curse when it ends.
2007-04-12 04:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I question it so much, but I really feel it is better to have loved and lost then have never loved at all. It's because the feelings you have when you're in love make it all worth it, and losing love and gaining love is all a part of life and it would a part of life that person never got to experienced if they never experienced love at all.
2007-04-12 04:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by crazylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very much in love and have a very expensive engagement ring arriving tomorrow which i have had specially made a few week's ago! The only problem is my girlfriend ended the relationship on Monday and i feel as though my heart has been ripped out! i am very gutted but i will get over it and with God's blessing i will love again! It is worth it 100%
2007-04-12 08:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by David F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. As long as you don't let the losing bitter you against loving again.
2007-04-12 04:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Homily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going with "to have had love and lost", at least you get to feel all the emotions great and not so great that come with a relationship. It's been a long time since I haven't been in a relationship and I'm adjusting to being single again, but I appreciate the years I had in my relationship and marriage even though it's over now.
2007-04-12 04:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by labken1817 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have loved and lost ,but it's better to have loved,
2007-04-12 04:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by aslan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and Lost. That way you'll be stronger in the next round, even though a next time isn't guaranteed. Everyone plays the fool sometimes. Relax, life is a lesson to be learned.
2007-04-12 04:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely to have loved and lost because without out heartbreak, we can never learn love. Losing love makes you stronger and teaches you to appreciate it even more in the future.
2007-04-12 04:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to have loved and lost. Without love life would be dull so keep loving and loose a few eventually you will Love and keep forever
2007-04-12 04:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋