After the whole Paris thing, I thought it would be a good idea- you know boost my modeling career! So anyways, I guess it didn't work but I still made tons of money off of it. Should I tell him or just hope he never comes across it?
2007-04-12 03:50:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Can I be in the next one with you?? I need some extra cash!!
2007-04-12 04:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know what kind of relationship you have with your fiancé? I even think you are a little late telling him. You better told him when he was still your boyfriend. I should say tell him quick and explain why you did it.. and why you took so long to tell him. Maybe he understands. When you wait till you are married you are much too late.. and when you don't tell him, he will find out some kind of way. But the most important thing of all, there must be no secrets in a good relationship. When the relationship is good, it has to feel like a nice old coat, perfect fits.. A relationship based on lies or secrets can't be good.
2007-04-12 10:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most important things in a relationship are honesty,
openness,and being willing to see the other persons side of things and give 50/50.Everything else falls into place. :)
So put your self in his place. If you don't feel you can be honest with him about this; what kind of marriage can you really have.This will be hanging over your head. If he finds out,how do you expect him to trust you? Honesty is always the best policy.If he truly loves you he'll listen to you and try to understand. I believe you should have told him before you were engaged.
2007-04-12 11:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I believe some secrets you take to the grave. But, because you made this tape that many people have, I would tell him.
You don't want him to find out from somewhere else.
If he loves you, he won't judge you on your past mistakes.
Please tell him, before saying I DO!!
2007-04-12 10:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you really should tell him... Chances are if you don't he WILL come across it, and he could be really hurt that you didn't tell him... If you DO tell him, I think he would be greatful that you are honest with him, and it will actually make him trust you more... Hope this helps!
2007-04-12 10:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Hayden F. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is the man you love and are going to marry then you should tell him. If you could hide something like that then you shouldn't be marrying him.
2007-04-12 13:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by yesenav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok just stop...If anyone is noticing this person keeps asking insane stupid questions.
Some people actually like to help people out and some people really do need advice.
Quit clogging the space with your stupid stuff...
2007-04-12 11:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by colie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if you can not be honest and open now how can you stand there and look him in the eye. and there is the case that if he does find out he would never trust you aging.
2007-04-12 11:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by joanna l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him. Just imagine how he's going to feel if he finds out about it and you never told him.
2007-04-12 11:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he told you about the sex tape he mad yet? cuz if not then I wouldnt think you'd be obligated to tell him. and of course it didnt work sweetie. only PRETTY girls make it in the modling industry. oohh...sorry...I thought you knew that.
2007-04-12 12:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be the first at his work to see it. What kind of blackmail could you put up with?
2007-04-12 11:02:23 · answer #11 · answered by wizebloke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋