face to face but insisting on the Parantal coordinator to be present. He is a liar and very biased in his decions favoring her. He has twisted facts and goes behind my back with recommendations to the court without consulting with me that favor her, has lied in front of me in her presence renigging on statments he made prior. He has nothing to do with me and the new guy. I am filing complaints against the PC. I want to meet him to talk about issues concerning my son, they want to move 2 hours away, my son has big issues with this guy that I am certain he has not been told by my ex. I want to know who this man is and how he is as a person, caring person? will he support my son and I or restrict visitation as my ex has done so often, especially 2 hours away if this move occurs, what are his paternal and child caring abilities, does he care for my son's feelings regarding the move or his presence - my son can't stand him, does he have sincere feelings towards my son and my relationship?
2007-04-12 03:59:20 · 7 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What are his moral and religious belifs, I was raised very religious, how is he with parenting skills, who will take care of my son during their absence. I do not trust my ex at all becasue of her lies and affair with t his same guy hiding him from me, she abducted him 6 years agao to a foreign country and I got him back through the courts...she has denied me access to him...I am a loving and caring father...I live 5 minutes away...seeing him alot...now this will interupt everything...they dont HAVE to move away...he can commute...why not? Will he try to change my son;s upbrigning for 8 years....all these questions I have to pose to him. Any ideas from Guys and Girls alike?...I want to know who this man is...even though too often people tell me it is none of my business...my son is...and this guy will be influencing him...that is all...as a caring father and Dad.
2007-04-12 04:03:04 · update #1
I am worried that the PC will sabotage the meeting...make false claims about me with the court...will control the outcome and interject his own opinions as he has done so often...I would like a meeting of the minds between him and I...not an adversarial environment that the PC creates...I would insist on him and I...a on-to-one meeting for a positive outcome instead of getting ambushed by the PC as he has done in the past...she insists on having the PC there or no meeting...maybe its a game to back me into a corner and then attack me..having witness or contruing more lies...any suggestions here??????
2007-04-12 04:07:24 · update #2
Do you think he will be truthful with you at this meeting? Lairs can put on such a good act and be very convincing.
2007-04-12 04:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no good reason for them to move, then don't let it happen. From what you say, you are an active part of your son's life. Why would his mother want to take that away from him?
Whatever they want to move for can wait 8 years. Time goes so fast when kids are growing up.
It is in your son's best interest if you put aside any animosity you have towards your ex & her future husband -and- start helping him to figure out a way to live amicably with both of them. He's going to have to spend large parts of his life with them, won't it be better for him if they all get along & if he is respectful enough to them so that he can take any good lessons from them that they may have to offer?
2007-04-12 04:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you gat a court appointed "child advocate", which is really a lawyer for your son, and only tour son, not you or your ex. He/she will talk to your son and ask him how he feels about things, the court does what is in the best interest of the child, have your child have a child advocate.
2007-04-12 04:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by shorte716 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be concerned about your child, and ask questions to the soon to be step dad. But if your child hates this man, this needs to be brought up to his mother.
2007-04-12 04:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give the same answer i gave the last time you ask this ?
2007-04-12 04:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it through the court. dont do anything outside the courts.
get custody!
2007-04-12 04:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋