Etiquette - September 2007

Why do some of you get offended if you were to be called black (when a person is describing someone, I.E. the news) and yet we (white people) would be considered crazy if we said "Call us European Americans" rather than white? This is not a mean spirited question, just a question.

2007-09-24 06:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by Alter E 3

Like when they flash their boobs and stuff

2007-09-24 06:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just moved into a small neighborhood of duplex apartments. A single mom with two children befriended me as we have children the same age. I introduced her to my boyfriend one day while he was visiting. Now, she calls him on his cell phone all the time. He does not answer nor does he return her calls. My boyfriend and I have discussed the situation. He is not interested in pursuing any kind of relationship with her. I believe him. She is severely obese, and I have watched them interact. He doesn't do anything that a female would consider encouragement. Yet, I must live next to this person at least for 11 more months. How do I handle the situation? Should I ignore it, or confront it?

2007-09-24 05:53:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

saw one today with no flowers kinda sad just interested in what you think ?

2007-09-24 05:50:41 · 52 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

A girl I know, she is a student about 20, tells me that she has landed a part time job at a club, chucking out drunks! I don't think she is kidding. Is this a proper job for a lady of refinement? I can't imagine any of Jane Austen's characters doing it!

2007-09-24 05:29:01 · 19 answers · asked by Country Girl 3

mine does it and complain too. he said i shouldnt ask him to do it. he drives and i dont. his working time is flexible coz he's in the insurance business. whereas i am confined at my workplace. my point of view is that since he can drive to just about anywhere to meet a client, he should be able to help me run an errand. for e.g. buy a box of pies. he said i should help him run errands too but i dont. pls help end his whiny complaints. lol

2007-09-24 05:19:05 · 10 answers · asked by miss understand 4

I moved in a month ago, bought some new furniture, and now the bed is broken.

When I asked my landlord to come fix it, he acted like I was crazy, why?

2007-09-24 04:54:26 · 35 answers · asked by Reserved 6

Would you say some kind of apology, or act as if nothing happened, . . . or something else?

2007-09-24 04:17:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

you want to "make whoopie" and the kids are home?

2007-09-24 04:14:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

lik wat time could u call without being rude . and wat time u should not call

2007-09-24 03:40:21 · 26 answers · asked by lindsaza 2

I have heard varying opinions on this one. I have always been told that it's uncouth to tip someone who provides a service if they are the owner of the salon/spa/restaurant/whatever.

2007-09-24 03:37:13 · 11 answers · asked by radiant_innerlight 3

2007-09-24 03:08:25 · 13 answers · asked by Reserved 6

I work in a nursing home, and the family of two of our residents who passed away set up a scholarship for the employees who are attending college. I got one of the scholarships and I am not certain if I should send a "Thank You" or not.

2007-09-24 02:27:01 · 18 answers · asked by Winnie08_98 2

A middle aged man I know goes to visit his grandfather in the convalescent home .. he noticed a sign on his door that says "Family does laundry" ... he asked what that meant, and grandfather told him that his daughter does his laundry.

He thinks that the grandfather should receive a discount for his stay at the home since he is not using that service.

So, now, he's been sneaking in his clothes and putting them to be washed by the convalescent home, and once they are ready, he sneaks them out, nice and clean.

What is wrong with this man? He has his own washer and dryer at home.

2007-09-24 02:17:33 · 5 answers · asked by Reserved 6

I'll say she's called Rai (she's not, but im not using real names on here.)
so, Rai only came in a few days ago, but..
she copies my work,
then shouts in mmy face "DID IT FASTER THAN YOU! Ha!"
She swears alot,
Nicks sweets out of my bag that i don't even give her permission to have,
mocks my accent,
and even calls me ugly.
E.g, today, we were talking about body language. And my teacher said, "Try smiling, even if you pass someone in the street. Smile and it makes you seem more welcoming."
Then Rai, said,
"I did that once and an old lady smiled at me back."
i said,
"Nobody ever smiles at me back."
Rai smirked and said, "It's cause you're ugly."
The teacher looked at her and coiuld tell i was getting upsett so she changed the subject. I felt my eyes pricking bec i have really low self-confidence and i was nearly crying. i had to clench my fists otherwise i'd cry.
then Rai, said, "What's up with you?" really rudely.
Help?

2007-09-24 01:52:25 · 16 answers · asked by Sanskia 3

2007-09-24 01:44:13 · 24 answers · asked by Missy 4

I was invited for lunch by a friend of mine and the moment we sat down, she opened her handbag to get her cellphone out and placed it on the table. An hour later, we still haven't ordered anything to eat or drink, and we haven't spoken at all. Why? She was busy sending text messages and answering her phone calls. If it would have been for business I would understand it, but it was all private.

Was it wrong, when I told her she has bad manners and she never needs to invite me for lunch ever again?

2007-09-24 01:39:00 · 20 answers · asked by Carpe Diem 3

A female coworker asked me to go to dinner with her and a group of friends from work, I told her that I might be able to go but wasn't sure because I had other plans. When I told her I couldn't go, her facial expressions indicated that she was very disappointed that I wasn't able to go. Then ignored me for the rest of the day. How should i take this, I told her that I already had plans and there was only a chance that I could go. Should I apologize. I am a dude by the way

2007-09-24 01:01:18 · 11 answers · asked by mama a 1

I'm 17 and at college studying to be a personal trainer, and in the afternoons we all go to the gym to work out. There's this guy (about 24/25 years old) who's a local there, who i'm guessing fancies me, but he's so rude and disrespectfull towards me about it. When ever I walk past him, he'll say loadly to me, something like "Yes, nice ****!" or "Nice t*ts!". He always stares at me when I work out too and makes seductive looks at me, and it's makes me uncomfortable and not want to work out. I've always pretended he was invisable to me and not given him the satisfation of a responce, but it's really annoying me. Is this 'acceptable' or am I over reacting?

2007-09-23 23:20:03 · 19 answers · asked by xXxStacixXx 1

It seem really pointless, why close an hour or two early on sunday? and the mail doesn't even go on sunday. whats the deal?

2007-09-23 21:29:10 · 10 answers · asked by Coma White 5

We're afraid he will bump his head on doorways, etc.

2007-09-23 18:12:35 · 5 answers · asked by JD 4

Should it be folded a certain way or put in a particular place? My husband thinks the money should not be folded, but instead be spread out. I think that looks weird.

2007-09-23 16:49:48 · 11 answers · asked by just julie 6

My brother's wife called me today and wants to throw me a baby shower and my cousin's wife is helping too. Am I supposed to give anything to participate in my babyshower like gifts for the games or the cake or food or for the people giving me the shower? I am clueless

2007-09-23 15:34:20 · 21 answers · asked by Lovemygirls 1

instead of just bringing their silverware from home. Matter of fact, why don't they just eat at home?

2007-09-23 15:24:44 · 5 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3

I really was saddened to hear on th news that a girl I used to hang out with at work died in a wreck. I didn't know her family and her funeral happened to fall on the day of my son's birthday, so I did want to spend it with him, yet I wanted to say goodbye. So, I stopped in about 20 minutes, saw her *sobs*, signed her guestbook, had a big cry. I couldn't stay for the whole funeral, but I am glad I got to say goodbye.

2007-09-23 14:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

can you say as to NOT SOUND RUDE in your answer???....question #2. regarding something...the person BRINGS UP THIS....and says.."did you sue?'...(now you are appalled!).....what to say without TELLING them?....can you just say..."that is such a rude question."...OR NOT???

2007-09-23 14:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by sweet 4

Hello,
I recently invited a good friend of mine to dinner, and she suggested bringing a friend of hers; I have never met her friend personally, but we are both aware that she has been diagnosed with HIV. I'm neither prejudiced nor like to discriminate, but I really wouldn't be comfortable having her in my house, as the virus may come into contact with silverware, utensils, glasses, etc. What is a diplomatic way of letting my friend know this? Should I simply tell her I have to reschedule dinner for a later date? Or should I tell her I don't want her friend infected with HIV over to my house? Thanks!

2007-09-23 11:25:58 · 43 answers · asked by riverstyx0128 1

i was issued an invitation to a dance. the invitation said rsvp by the 22nd and it is now the 23rd. it would be mailed on the 24th and probably not arrive until the 25th or 26th.

do organizations like this usually accept late rsvps or at least put people on waiting lists?

should i bother responding or just give up?

p.s. you have to pay to get in, so it's not like they wouldn't want me.

any advice would be helpful. thanks=]

2007-09-23 11:15:47 · 8 answers · asked by ... 2

2007-09-23 10:23:53 · 17 answers · asked by Holiday Magic 7

2007-09-23 09:06:13 · 27 answers · asked by waggy 6