2007-09-24 01:44:13 · 24 answers · asked by Missy 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You choose to be happy or unhappy. People don't make us anything.
2007-09-24 01:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
You answered your own question hun.
It is only unhappy people that feel the need to make others unhappy in order to make themselves feel better. A happy person has no desire to hurt another.
When my children come home crying because of a school bully i tell them that if this child was happy he/she would not be trying to make them unhappy too.
When i was a child i had a mother who constantly beat the crap out of me, even to the point of putting my hands in the fire and putting knives to my throat. When i went out i was beaten up by a boy who lived near us. When i went to school i vented my unhappiness and frustration on other children. Not something i am proud of, but there you go. I understand that only miserable people have a desire to make others miserable too.
2007-09-24 07:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They feel like if they are not happy, then nobody deserves to be happy. I feel this way sometimes. I just try to let everyone know that I am unhappy and that I want them to leave me alone until I'm in a better mood.
2007-09-24 01:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
People who are unhappy often resent those who are happy. In a strange way it mnakes them feel better to see others as miserable as they - they don't fell alone with their sadness.
2007-09-27 04:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about control, a miserable person feels as though they have no control over their own happiness so they take control over someone else's. When they make other people unhappy they feel in control and that makes them happy.
2007-09-24 01:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by dabdiedre 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just like in domestic violence, they want control over ppl who are normal and happy to make them unhappy! why the f uc k do that to someone!?! saddos. bast a r d s!!!
2007-09-24 07:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hang out with unhappy people coz everything that's gonna come out of his/her mouth is going to be negative. Will tell them to call me when they're in better moods.
2007-09-24 04:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The same reason who are happy think they have the right to make other people happy
2007-09-24 01:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so there wont be many smiling faces around them to make them feel more miserable.
they're being very selfish, of course.
but there r ppl who like to cheer others up even if they r down themselves. so this world is still quite balance i think.
2007-09-24 04:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by miss understand 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
unhappy themselves, it makes them mad to see others happy & enjoying life so they wanna spoil things for you, the ugly green eyed monster roams around every so often!.
2007-09-24 07:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by on-point 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with jeancommunicates. Don't let others control your mood/emotions. You are the only one that can control yourself. I won't act like it doesn't bother me though when grumpy people try to bring me down though. I hate it when people who are having a bad day take it out on me.
2007-09-24 03:35:58 · answer #11 · answered by Not quite perfect 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋