mine does it and complain too. he said i shouldnt ask him to do it. he drives and i dont. his working time is flexible coz he's in the insurance business. whereas i am confined at my workplace. my point of view is that since he can drive to just about anywhere to meet a client, he should be able to help me run an errand. for e.g. buy a box of pies. he said i should help him run errands too but i dont. pls help end his whiny complaints. lol
2007-09-24 05:19:05 · 10 answers · asked by miss understand 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
My husband does many things for me and our family. He never complains. He's a great husband & father and we're lucky to have him. 2D
2007-09-24 05:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by 2D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not my husband but my boyfriend and he never complains. I am so grateful that he is so understanding and really good to me. When I worked during the summer, he always got home earlier than I do so he cooked dinner for us. While I am away he cleaned the house and the bathroom too. He never complains, and in fact I am actually the bad one cause I don't do as much as he did and I get moody sometimes when the house is a bit untidy. We both co-operate in cleaning the house and also keeping it clean. I know, I am very lucky. ;-) When ever he does housework for me, I show him how much I appreciate it by returning his favor, like cook his favorite food, give him a body massage, have a relaxing bath etc... Have you tried doing the same?
2007-09-24 06:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by za^za 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not gonna like this:
But you need to serve your husband. If you do, he will treat you like a queen and be pleased to serve you in return.
Bake him his favourite dessert when he's not expecting it. Warm his towel for him in the dryer while he's having a shower. Don't complain when he leaves his dirty socks on the floor. Often ask him if there's anything you can get for him or do for him. Dote on him.
It's not easy, but it's your job as his wife to serve and honour him. And in return he won't be able to help but show you all sorts of love and respect....and he won't complain when you ask him to do stuff.
2007-09-24 05:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by kellyoribine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, all the time. He never complains, but that doesnt mean that he sometimes gets upset. A good husband will do anything for you and not cry and whine because he has to do it. Tell him to get over it.
2007-09-24 05:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by pinky6655 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you appreciate or take for granted your husband when he runs errends?
do you treat him like your hero, your prince in shining armor- DO YOU TREAT HIM LIKE A MAN and make him feel good about himself?
If you did he would want to help you.
2007-09-24 05:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by MeaCulpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, mine runs errands for me but i drive so doesnt really matter. but he doesnt complain because i help him out with errand too.
2007-09-24 06:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Husband grumbles - but does it. However, I return the favor as well. I think if you gave a little (when you can) he might stop whining!!
But - you have a point - if it's on his way, what's the problem?
2007-09-24 05:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle Zalbo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a team effort. Don't pay any attention to his whinning. You cook and take care of the house don't you without his asking. there is nothing wrong with him helping out. Don't let him become lazy!!!!!!
2007-09-24 05:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes
2007-09-24 14:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by georgia_peach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-09-24 05:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Theresa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋