My 2 yr old only knows the word 'no', so i know that he understands what it means, but he refuses to obey by it. he will test your limits and b/c i have been living with my parents for tha past two months, it has been very fustrating. he thinks it's a game sometimes and others...well i don't know. i try spanking (not hard enough to hurt), repeating words like "no", "stop", "don't do that". i am always nice at first (unless it is extreme), then i make my voice more stern and parental. i'm not really his best friend, that may sound bad but i read that it is a mistake to be your child's best friend. i think the problem is with his grandparents...let me explain: for 7 wks, luka was here in KY with my husband's parents (at the time he wanted a divorce and i was a week from delivering our second child) and they let him get away with alot of things. i came back and was the bad mommy. i tried to ask them to respect my rules, but it was no use. what should i do???
2006-09-22
17:50:30
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