My one year doesn't seem very attatched to me. I want through terrible axniety during my pregnancy and PP depression. While I was physically present , emotionally I was a mess. Now, I'm in therapy and my hormones are evening out. My daughter doesn't want me to hug or kiss her. She doesn't seek out my attention. She's happy to play by herself all the time. I've realized that I was not there for her in some very important ways (I didn't feel attached to her while I was depressed) in the beginning and I feel that this is why she's this way. I stayed home with her, took her for walks every day, gave her daily massages, nursed her for eight months, read to her, and worries over every little thing. I think she knew, though, that deep down things weren't right. She smiles but doesn't laugh very often. I try to hold her and she hates it. It breaks my heart and confidence as a mother. Does anyone else have a toddler with a similar personality or is this my fault?
Also, she is not autistic
2006-09-23
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