My friend (of 15 years), is like a sister to me, which is why I asked her to be my matron of honor. She is giving me a hard time about the type of dress I want her to wear, which we haven't even started to try on yet. I prefer either the strapless, spaghetti strap, or halter style. She says that she is not comfortable, and I said that she could wear a shaw with the dress. She said that she wants nothing more than to stand by me in my wedding, but if I choose to not have her in my wedding over a dress, then she is fine with it. She is totally playing on my emotions and making me feel bad for something that I want. It is MY Wedding, and she is trying to control it, and I hate that she is making me feel this way! I want my girls to match...I do not like the style where every girl wears something different....that just isn't my style. How do I handle this and still save our friendship....if it should be saved? She is also giving me problems over hair, makeup, and shoes, too! Please help!
2007-03-14
04:14:44
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Mrs. Connors!
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