The problem is that my father sexually abused me while I was growing up. Although the issue has finally been addressed, ie counseling, etc, obviously it is not something that is ever forgotten. While it would be nice to have an ideal relationship with my dad, this is not the case, but I know my mom would love to have him and/ or her walk me down the aisle. My husband recently immigrated here, so we were required by the law to marry within 90 days of his arrival. Thus, the fact that we are already married, added to my feminist-leaning ideals as well as the actions of my dad lead me to think that it would be more appropriate to walk down the aisle alone or with my husband. What do you all think? I appreciate your input.
2007-03-14
15:43:18
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yolanda
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