Seriously, my doctor gave me anti depressions it been so bad dealing with her. My mother is insane… she keeps throwing screaming fits about her dress not being good enough and other bull. She doesn’t want me to get married. She is a lunch lady and lives very modestly but screamed at me for making her buy a dress at David’s bridal because she didn’t want to wear off the rack…. Wanted champagne and saw a dress in haper bazer she rather has by Calvin Klein. OK, my mother buys all her clothing from Kmart right now… It’s been soo bad I just been avoiding her. I am 30 years old, this is my second home I owned and I have lived in PA since I was 24, my mom lives in NJ. I am getting my master right now and working full time. My mother just called one of my bridesmaids and told her she rather I marry someone else…. Was returning her dress to the store… that my fiancé controls me and makes me live in PA…. and I am wasting my BFA by pursing a master for a teaching degree???? She also told my bridesmaid that my fiancé drove around without car insurance…..which is a lie because the real story is he got dropped for car insurance and when he went to pay his bill he found out they illegally dropped him a month ago. He of coarse got car insurance that day! It’s so strange because she always acted like she like my fiancé but not hates him?? She even comment she would have rather I married this Rob “who was nice to hear” but verbal abusive to me??!!! And she hated Rob when I dated him… She is being off the wall and so insane….. She isn’t giving us a dime but told me I bought my dress in a **** hole and why didn’t I go somewhere better?? She keeps comparing herself to her cousin which I don’t get and pointed out several times to her…. Lynn paid for her whole daughter’s wedding so therefore she gets control. Now she is driving my bridesmaids’ nuts with the shower because it’s almost like she wants to ruin it.
Ok here is the question- what do you do?? Do you try to talk it out with an insane woman who can’t get through a conversation with without her screaming about some random thing? Or should just ignore her for now and pray the god that it goes away??? I am afraid she is going to start at Easter in front of family………..
2007-03-14
09:26:29
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