I am interested in a man from another country and we talk of marriage. I want to bring him here and know if we are married it will be easier. Any information will be helpful.
2007-03-14 03:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by elizabeth b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Oh Sweet Jesus... you two have never met and you're willing to marry him??? Honey, you two need to meet first and spend some time together before you marry him. If your relationship has only been on the Internet, he could be lying through his teeth about anything and everything. When I was single, I talked to a lot of people on the Internet, and then when we decided to meet in person, most of the time it was a disaster. I met my husband on the internet, but we met in person three days after our first contact, and dated for 3 years before we were married.
Think long and hard about marrying someone you haven't even met in person... please.
2007-03-14 04:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am not a married person, i don't fall in love with someone on internet, but i have seen many people married over the internet mostly be the person from another country married to a person from another country. i know alot about married.. however you are married over the internet or not, or you met that person inthe other country. if you married each other i know its gonna be easier and will get the visa easier as well, but if you don't want ot get married with him yet, you can take him for holiday in your country, and then after that it will be much easier, you and your partner will know alots information between each other.
and then he will be with you in your country forever if he will be with you.
2007-03-14 04:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by 2Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about self esteem issues! Focus you don't marry to facilitate immigration. One marries for a whole bunch of reasons but that would not be a good one. Also, you're not "in love" if you have not met in person had a conversation face to face. You will hear from many that say that they met on line and married. You will not meet many that say that after twenty years. Don't you think you're worth getting to know? Or do you think if they get to know you they won't want to stay around. Slow down smell the roses that he hands you in person. Protect yourself. If you don't think you are worth that then please get some therapy. Getting married to a stranger from a foreign country makes as much sense as getting married to a prisoner because it would aide his parole efforts. Get some self esteem!
2007-03-14 03:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow this is a good question because I know of 4 cases one is mine. But we will get to that later. The first case is of an older guy I know that fell in love with a 21 yr old girl from the Phillipennes. I kept telling him not to do it but he saved and went to visit her and her family for a week came back talked to her more on the internet and then brought her over here. They married she got her greencard and guess what SHE LEFT HIM! Second case I know of is my good friend Rob who fell in love with a Russian girl was sending her family money as they do not make much in Russia brought her here to meet her then planned on making the decision about marriage. He went to work and she left he never seen or heard from her again. However a friend of mine met a guy on here he came from England several times to visit with her she went there once and they got married in Vegas last summer and are still very much in love.He had applied for his Visa before asking her to marry him. I met my husband online {hated him at first he lived in Wisconsin I lived in Tx} talked to him online only for over a yr on the phone for 6 more months and finally met him almost 18 months after we first started chatting online. We are married, happy and have a baby together and if it wasnt for the internet I'd have never known he was out there.
2007-03-14 03:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We met online. But both live in same country, and have been going together over two years, know each other well.
Don't rush into it. If your love is meant to be forever, waiting a few years won't change it.
2007-03-17 00:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Maria S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things don't get easier when you're married, dear. Not at all.
Why not try meeting first?
2007-03-14 04:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by sweetxgrace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i did
i started talking to a guy in august 2006 and started dating in september 2006 and ended up getting married in october 2006
good luck
2007-03-14 05:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would meet in person first & see how you get along from there.You shouldn't marry someone over the net
2007-03-14 03:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by schristine23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you stupid or just lonely? He is using you for a green card which f__ks with my social security. He will tell your fat *** that you are beautiful and close his eyes while he bangs you. this will last for three years then he is a free man.
2007-03-14 03:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Richard Fitzwell 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
haha no....some people say that its hard to trust people on the internet....but im not sure.
2007-03-14 03:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋