Marriage & Divorce - 31 December 2007

2007-12-31 05:18:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i have been married for 4 months and I can't get over my husband that he checks other girls out, I now guys do that and what not but I can't get over that fact that i'm in his arms while he is looking at another girl. I talk to him about it and he says hes working on it, but i still catch him, guys are really obvious. but how do i get over that, has anyone else gone through this?

2007-12-31 05:15:53 · 13 answers · asked by kimber g 4

I told him I trusted him, but I really don't trust him when he is drunk... He is now mad at me because he thinks I just don't trust him at all... what should I do? just let him go and be all cool with it, or make a big deal about it?

2007-12-31 05:04:55 · 21 answers · asked by fasawax 1

As per my previous posts, I am a dentist/practice owner and I went out with my colleagues a couple weeks ago for drinks. My wife asked me why I was out so late when I got home and I hit her across the face harder than intended and she fell onto the couch. Left only a small red mark for a few minutes and I felt terrible immediately afterward. She left for her sisters and came back last week but things have been very different.

I thought they were improving, but I went out yesterday again with my partners (it is a weekly outing..that I skipped last week bc of what happened the previous time) and her sister was there when I returned. When I asked why, she said she didn't want to take any chances.

When will things get back to normal? I am not truly abusive. It was a one time deal and I am sorry for it. I'm not some uneducated woman batterer.

2007-12-31 05:04:19 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

but i have that feeling of missing something i wnna to find my self,i want to fall in love and feel that i am a pretty woman and free not ordinary mam and wife.iam stucked here.??!

2007-12-31 05:02:33 · 6 answers · asked by Nona l 1

I mean even if his the nicest sweetest guy ever..when he gets mad he call her really bad names like " dumb F***"...

2007-12-31 04:59:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's new years eve- and once again- since we have kids we can't go out... so in stead of staying home alone with the girls we are going to my moms- but it will only be my mom and my sister and her 2 kids.. (our kids ages are 10 months, 2 yrs, 4yrs and 7yrs).. i have the 10 month old and the 7 year old. What can we do to make things fun? I'm kind of glum- i feel like because my oldest is old enough to stay up and knows about new years- i cant leave her for the night- even though our 10 month old will be asleep by 8:30-- so i'm feeling kind of 'left out' and down for some reason- because i feel like i really want to have some adult time - but can't? What are some things we can do to make tonight fun? for ALL of us?

2007-12-31 04:53:16 · 17 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5

My wife.... The only person I love in this world... our marrige is love marrige. We are a happy cuple. but one thing, she is very jelous and sometime we even stop talking. The reason is. my frends, students, cousens, ofcourse all those who are females, when they contact me she starts to mis behave. I have stopped conectng with most of them, but still she doesn't beleave me. All you ladies out there, young or old, please tell me is jelosy a part of every women.

2007-12-31 04:49:23 · 28 answers · asked by romzanbd 1

2007-12-31 04:45:51 · 4 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3

If your husband went partying with his buddies all night long. It's not the first time he's done it. He has these occasional all night long parties where they get wasted into pieces. I hate when he does that and I've told him that before. Don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those jealous wives who doesn't let her husband see his friends, but I think he pushed my limit. He can go out with his buddies one in a while for a few hours and hang out, but I think it's wrong for him to go out for the whole night get drunk and sleep at someone else's house. I don't think he realizes that he's a married man and he has a wife at home. I don't go out partying all night long and I don't want to do that. What kind of relationship would this be if I went out partying by myself and he goes out partying without me. We're not roommates for god's sake. I'm really mad at him and I told him how I feel. What would you do?

2007-12-31 04:44:34 · 17 answers · asked by x_x_x 3

trust me i am very well aware of some men who do as little if any around the house as possible, so I ask again ladies why do some men wait for us to have to ask them to do certain things?

2007-12-31 04:42:54 · 24 answers · asked by mutt 6

I've stayed cordial but have really kept her at a distance. But she keeps calling me to do things. She asks about him first off when I talk to her and when we've made plans she'll ask if he's coming (I think, "Why would he? You and I made plans."). I'm trying to avoid making a huge thing out of this and I don't want to hurt her. I'd be friends with her except for this. Anyone have any experience with this sort of thing?

2007-12-31 04:39:05 · 42 answers · asked by sweets 6

Why do you nit-pick?
I woke up this morning around 4:15am to get ready for work. I needed to warm up the truck before I left. I know my husband has asked me not to leave the truck running for more than 10 mins, so understanding this request, I timed it. But as the truck is running, my husband felt the need to wake up to ask me how long the truck was running and I replied not very long... well he instantly rebutted and stated that he was lying awake counting the minutes and it was longer than 10 mins. And of course while making my breakfast for work, I am watching the clock on the stove and replied, that I was timing it. (felt like saying wtf a-hole, why the hell do you have to ride my *** at 4am over this little piece of BS).

2007-12-31 04:39:04 · 17 answers · asked by C'est la vie 1

its almost NEW YEARS!!

2007-12-31 04:35:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so my dad left me when i were young and im not planning to get married yet! But were curious. who would be the best man? does it always have to be the dad or can it be anyone related?

2007-12-31 04:33:51 · 28 answers · asked by ILoveYouLewis [: 1

I am a 38 yr old divorced male, I met my girlfriend 7 months ago online, she is 27 and never married. We became freinds online and I learned that she was moving to my city. our feelings became very strong for each other and when she moved here it took a life of its on. We are madly in love with each other and for the both of us this is the best relationship we have ever had. I have never met a woman who I can be so comfortable with. We have been through some bad relationships and it is very refreshing for the both of us to have a relationship this great! The dilemma is she does not like it here and wants to try somewhere else when her lease is out. Also I have 2 kids which she feels uncomfortable with. She accepts that I have kids but is not sure if that is a road she wants to travel. We both love each other and want to be with each other! we have talked about ending it before it gets to a point where it will hurt to much when she leaves. The question, should I end it now or later?

2007-12-31 04:33:23 · 9 answers · asked by dbigwil 1

my wife said she would go out to dinner with me tonight right after work then shes going out for new years without me. for our first year anniversary this summer she went to the beach with her single friend. i am now divorcing her, am i wrong?

2007-12-31 04:28:01 · 26 answers · asked by amayseng 3

2007-12-31 04:24:33 · 50 answers · asked by alex h 1

My wife had a baby back in Sept of this year and we have been married since July. The problem is that I am absolutley at nerves end with this woman and her bit*ching about everything. Last night she surprised me during the night with a sexual favor. But then afterwards she starts bitching about various things.

It seems that I dont eat the right foods, I dont talk enough, I am more talkative with friends and family on the phone then her. I dont clean enough, I dont do this or that or I havent done this or that, etc.

I recently was diagnosed with high bp and I have no doubt the extra stress from her has contributed. My reading was 190/115. My hands tremble, I feel like I am going to explode because of anxiety.

I just dont understand why she cant understand that after a hard days work I would like to just relax some, play with my girl and just unwind. I dont care to talk about every little detail of my day.

2007-12-31 04:18:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we have a 2 year old. We're both 31 years old. Lately he has been so (for lack of a better word) boring. We have the same old routine, which usually involves him laying on his back and getting "taken care of" by myself and then directly after that, it leads to sex. There's no foreplay for myself ever.
I've asked him if he wants to do different things (watch movies together, get toys, etc) but he says nothing. Last night I didn't want to please him in that way to start off sex and he got turned off and fell asleep. This morning I find out that he was watching a porn in our bedroom while I was downstairs with our son. Everyone reading this knows what he was doing.
I'm just so frustrated with him. I hate how our sex life has become so predictible. I just wish he was more dominating towards me.
I stayed in shape after the baby however, he has gained some weight so maybe that might be a factor.
I don't know what to do..

2007-12-31 04:17:11 · 37 answers · asked by qtpie 2

2007-12-31 04:15:41 · 21 answers · asked by REDBULL 1

my husband was working and enjoyed his job for about 1-2 weeks and now he hates it so he went back to sitting on the computer all day and all night. hardly talking to me or do anything with me cause he is looking for jobs. yesterday he spent all day on the computer and maybe applied for 1 job all day.
Anyway
i want to make my self happy but i am so use to sitting at home playing videogames, or working thats it
i dont know any hobbies i would like i have not found anything yet
how can i be happy again

2007-12-31 04:08:07 · 21 answers · asked by jamieloves31 1

2007-12-31 04:04:48 · 17 answers · asked by kat 1

okay, so i'm 8 months preggos, and i dont feel like doing anything for new years eve. i'm tired. my body is HUGE, and i just am not into this year. soo...me and my boyfriend were going to go to his brother's place, which is about 1 hour away, for new years eve, but i bailed--my boyfriend is still going.

should i be upset that we're not spending new years eve together? i dont feel upset, but i think i should be...unsure. i mean, shouldn't we spend NYE together? confused.

2007-12-31 04:00:28 · 27 answers · asked by happypants 3

2007-12-31 03:51:45 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I celebrated our 1st anniversary yesterday. Due to problems - it looks as though we might get custody of his newborn granddaughter when she is born in March. I am 46 yrs old, and a grandmother of 2 - I don't think I can raise another child! How do I handle this?

2007-12-31 03:49:41 · 22 answers · asked by Mary S 2

2007-12-31 03:47:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm wondering why so many women believe that if they don't get engaged by a certain time, their partner does not truly love them. Why is it that, if your partner says that he's not ready for marriage, you believe that he doesn't love you or is holding out for something better.

I have always thought of marriage as something to be done when both partners are wholly and entirely ready. Considering the current divorce rates, I find it admirable when a man can be honest about being scared, rather than rush into engagement to satisfy the woman's desire for commitment.

Am I the only one who thinks this way?

2007-12-31 03:46:38 · 13 answers · asked by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6

When my husband and I were splitting up earlier this year, I began seeing someone else. I broke it off with the guy I was seeing and confessed to my husband. I changed my phone number recently because the ex affair was texting me. The man is writing us emails and bothering us now. His last email stated "Hope you guys had a good holiday because 2008 is gonna be one hell of a year for lots and lots of people". I am starting to get worried. I am not sure if he is trying to hurt me and destroy my family since I am trying to work on my marriage. I was considering a protection order. Do you think I have grounds to get one right now? ...since all we have been getting is a few disturbing emails? We did go to the same college together... he showed up last quarter to talk and I did not know about it. Until he told me he was waiting for me outside... and I just had left for school. I hope this all makes sense. My hubby and I are getting frustrated with the ex affair. Advice please! Thanks!

2007-12-31 03:46:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe in love but I see so many separations and divorces that it really gets to me. Is this because the nature (like interests) of a man and a woman are so different that it is difficult to stick to each other for life? Would like to hear opinions from anyone on this. I've heard so many women come to me and say 'you're lucky, you stayed single..I married the wrong man!'. Or, a guy recently said to me 'you are so lucky with your freedom. My wife and I have so little in common except for the children, so when her parents die, she will be very lonely'. On the other hand, I have some friends saying they are happy in their marriages. It is just that about half of those who are married seem to be 'unsettled' and envying the single life.

2007-12-31 03:43:50 · 15 answers · asked by online now 1