my husband was working and enjoyed his job for about 1-2 weeks and now he hates it so he went back to sitting on the computer all day and all night. hardly talking to me or do anything with me cause he is looking for jobs. yesterday he spent all day on the computer and maybe applied for 1 job all day.
Anyway
i want to make my self happy but i am so use to sitting at home playing videogames, or working thats it
i dont know any hobbies i would like i have not found anything yet
how can i be happy again
2007-12-31 04:08:07 · 21 answers · asked by jamieloves31 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
alot of people say call a friend well tell you the truth i dont have any friends. my husband was the only friend i have had for over 8 years
i dont know what to do that makes me happy even when i was a kids growing up i did not do nothing i still sat at home with my parents
2007-12-31 04:45:31 · update #1
to be honest. I scrapbook. it is so fun and easy. My cousin had a new baby, and i made a scrapbook of him for christmas. it kept my mind going and made me happy.
2007-12-31 04:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is not something you find, it's something you can have Right now. If you are searching for happiness you will never find it because you will just find another reason not to be happy. Happiness is a state of mind- You decide if you want to be happy, not your circumstances, not how much money you have, not anything but you. We are blessed with the Freedom of thought- the way you think, your attitude, your happiness, is something you choose. Example- Different people will handle the same situation in different ways not because of the situation, but because of how they decide to react to it. Everything you do is a choice you have made, including not being happy.
So how to be happy, it just seems all too easy- Just make happy thoughts? Well sort of. It is difficult to just decide one day to be happy and turn your whole outlook around. It is a process, you have to start thinking positivily for one thing.
Go to your local library and find books about the topic- dont like reading then get the cd's or tapes. Deepak is a good author, but there are better one's that focus on happiness and how to achieve it by understanding your mind and how we think. Do not be embrassed to check out books like this either- So many people do and you are not alone in how you feel.
Lastly Stop focusing on what you don't have, what you can't do, and start focusing on what you DO have and what you CAN do. Be blessed that you have a home I assume, you have food, and at least Someone (your husband) there, regardless how the situation may be now. Some people are alone, homeless, starving. You are Blessed, go vouleenteer your time to help someone, a food bank, a shelter, an animal shelter if you like animals. Not only will you feel good about helping someone, you will probably Meet people who can later become friends with you.
Good luck in life and remeber YOU HAVE THE POWER TO BE HAPPY, that is the something we are ALL blessed with-The Freedom of thought.
2008-01-01 12:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by crystal b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is a choice. Not a gift from others.
2007-12-31 05:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person that can truly make you happy is yourself.As long as you sit around and watch him you will become absorbed with his moods and it will depress you. So I suggest maybe getting a part-time job or something.Getting out meeting different people always takes your mind off things.Most people live at their jobs because when their working and focusing on something they don't have time to think about to many things that may make them unhappy,and most people find joy in what they do.So try that and it might even encourage your husband to get out in front of the computer as well. Good luck
2007-12-31 04:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your husband and see if he will spend time each evening with you. You might be able to get him to play a couple of rounds of a video game. You might see if he is willing to use you as a sounding board for the jobs he is looking at or help him with his search in some other way.
My favorite thing to do when my wife is busy for long hours is to go to the store or the library and get a couple of books and read them.
Good luck
2007-12-31 04:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bob M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex with me and I guarantee it
2007-12-31 04:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get out of the house for one thing just go for a walk spend some time with a friend have someone to talk to about what is going on in your life. your husband needs to man up and go to work its nice if you like your job but its a job and he needs to work untill he finds a job that suites him better then you both need to get out and stay off of the computers and games go for a drive to any place just get out walk or bike something that you both like and more than any thing you need to tell him how your feeling it not good for any one to be sad for to long hope this helps you both
2007-12-31 04:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray, pray, pray. Follow your heart and do what makes you happy, it's your life. Don't live the rest of your life miserable and unhappy, although put your kids (if you have any) first, then make your decision. Get involved in the community, go walking, start scrapbooking, etc.... I can think of tons of things to do. www.abettercommunity.com gives you ways of how to get involved in your community. You have to make yourself happy before you can make anybody else happy.
2007-12-31 04:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by saranicole83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jamie;Some times you have to look back at your life and see where you were and what you were doing that made you happy then.Try them things again you might find it again.Your friend Dark Angel.
2007-12-31 04:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by dark angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband this and if you cant get threw to him and he doesnt taklk to him still maybe to marrige consuling or get him a job and quick if it stays the same maybe you need to find a new love or some great friends to cheer you up but good luck
2007-12-31 04:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋