According to your theory, the only logical solution would be for men only to marry men and women only to marry women. Um . . . something's wrong with that picture!
2007-12-31 03:49:10
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answered by Happy-2 5
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Marriage is a settlement, love is unconditional. there's a great distinction. And gay marriages break down only as rapidly marriages do. the single element you may desire to do is start to be your self and not what others desire you to be. you assert you have been married to a female, and that it replaced right into a sham and now you have chanced on a happier life as a very gay guy. What befell till now replaced right into a denial of your genuine thoughts. you probably did not convert to gay, because of the fact you're born gay and not switched over into one. end conforming to what human beings desire and be what you incredibly are. you're surprised at how human beings react while you're genuine to your self. no one likes people who're fake or overlaying up their genuine id. some human beings can see precise with the aid of it. stay the life you experience gentle with and to hell with people who do not settle for it or disagree. Why are you so stressful approximately what human beings may well be thinking? you basically have one life and it somewhat is a short one so stay life as ideal you may and as chuffed as you may. it is your life and your happiness that concerns especially else.
2016-11-27 00:23:27
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answered by ? 4
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i think its because people look at marriage like "dating" we'll get married to see if we can last. People just jump right into each relationship blindly and do not take the time to really get to know their partner.... It is possible to be in a happy, healthy relationship...it just takes kissing lots of frogs before hand...
You cant tell me that you didnt know your spouse was addicted to drugs, woman, gambling before you got married....It is definatly why alot of marriages fail..becuase the spouse finally just gets so "fed up" they decide to leave...which is the right thing to do but a little too late...probably 2 kids and a marriage to decide to finally leave when it could have been done before the kids and marriage came.
2007-12-31 04:33:16
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answered by kakeydec 4
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I've been married for nine years, and we're had lots of problems. Still, as different as we are from each other, we're still more a like than we are different. We still adore each other, despite, or perhaps because of our differences. The key to a long term relationship is to be friends first. The sex waxes and wanes in any marriage, but if you marry your friend, you'll always have some one to talk with and do things with that you geniunely find interesting. In stressful times, that can keep pulling you together when other things are pulling you apart. The differences between my husband and I, ideally, compliment one another and encourage each of us to grow. We drive each other crazy sometimes, but as long as you fight fair, an argument is just conflict resolution.
I feel badly for people who feel they are trapped in their marriage. It should be the safe place they retreat to, rather than where they have to go.
2007-12-31 03:58:31
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answered by lisawithcats 3
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The truth is poverty and social status causes Divorce. Everyone faces problem in life. It's just in developed country, there are everything available, so individual can live without a partner happily. In a poor country, in absense of one spouse causes great problem for the other spouse, so they do not break up. For e.g. in a developing country, one spouse concentrates in housework because housework takes up a lot of time and if one spouse is missing who is responsible for it, other spouses has to do a lot of work.
Social Status - Well, divorce also depends of religion followers and family background. If both of the person's family is from a good social/family background where no divorce took place ever and from has a happy parents, then you are bound not have a divorce. Those who follow religion are also bound not to divorce as they believe marriage is for spending the lifetime with the other person.
Everyone is different, you just got to choose from it and hope that everything will go fine. Also, make sure physical attraction goes on forever.
2007-12-31 03:56:09
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answered by luluchicko 3
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I think, most people have no commitement to begin with, you get into something and a challenge comes up. in todays society people give up, there to lazy or don't want to even try because Its hard. The rate of divorces is so high becuase it's common to just give up then to work it out.
"Soulmates are fictional, almost any good man and any good women can marry if both are willing to pay the price".
2007-12-31 03:53:27
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answered by kimber g 4
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the ones evying single life, have usually made a bad choice in partner, got marrie d cos of kids .. if people take time to meet someone they want to spend the rest of their life with, there shouldnt be problems ..
men and women are different, but one can not exist without the other, thats a fact ...
love is eternal ....
lust is shortly surpassed .. usually leavng devastion behind it ...
2007-12-31 03:49:56
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answered by ξήĢŁĭŞĦ ŗǾşξ ©® ღஐღ 7
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I am 27 and very happy in my marriage. Of course marriage has it's ups and downs because two people will not always agree on everything, but with communication and understanding a true, loving marriage can last.
Marriages end for so many different reasons, including getting married for the wrong reasons, and getting married too young. You have to know and understand yourself very well before you can marry and expect someone else to know and understand you with love. Plus, you have to always be sure you both talk to eachother, about everything. If you can't get your feelings and thoughts across to your spouse, you're doomed from the beginning.
2007-12-31 03:48:50
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answered by Anonymous
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So many things can cause people to divorce, and it isn't the same thing for everybody.
2007-12-31 03:48:36
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answered by Lovebug123 5
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I think human nature proves that we want what we don't have. The single people are dying for someone to come home to daily, and the ones that do have a sign. other or spouse would die to go home alone, and be able to reap the benefits of being single and alone.
2007-12-31 03:47:25
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answered by sunflowergal 4
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