My wife.... The only person I love in this world... our marrige is love marrige. We are a happy cuple. but one thing, she is very jelous and sometime we even stop talking. The reason is. my frends, students, cousens, ofcourse all those who are females, when they contact me she starts to mis behave. I have stopped conectng with most of them, but still she doesn't beleave me. All you ladies out there, young or old, please tell me is jelosy a part of every women.
2007-12-31 04:49:23 · 28 answers · asked by romzanbd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd be worried if she didnt' get jealous, cuz to me that would be like she didn't care - it's part of our make-up as human beings to be jealous, or afraid to lose someone we love. Good for you to stop connecting if it bothers your wife - her feelings need to be important to you ... more important than any friend or colleague of yours. Once she sees that she is #1 to you and that she matters to you, she'll be back on track. She isn't crazy, except about you. Be glad you have someone like that in your life that loves you.
2007-12-31 05:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by nice gal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife does the same thing, she talks about her BIL all the time but when i talk about my cousin she starts jumping through the roof, it's not jealousy it's call control freak who needs some professional help like from psychiatric
2008-01-02 09:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls feel like that because of their environment and surroundings where they grown and bought up. The only solution is that she needs a positive attitude. She has to believe you completely. You can take her to a counselor who guides her correctly.
2008-01-01 07:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all women are jealous to a degree. It depends on how our spouse treats/treated us. If some women have been cheated on then most likely she will be insecure. Insecurity causes jealously. If a man is doing right by his woman then she has no reason to be insecure or jealous.
2007-12-31 16:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by KSR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is part of every woman...sorry! You wouldn't by any chance be a spelling teacher....would you?
2007-12-31 14:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
atleast its a part of me!
luv is like that.....u want all of the person for urself....but ur wife needs help....tell her u will be ever so faithful to her.....treat her to some luxury hotel stay, spend a passionate night together and make her feel speciaal.....trust me she will have to stop coz the way i was jealous made my boyfriend dump me....u dont wanna do that to her i tell u!
2007-12-31 13:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Niquita LaVita 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She shouldn't be jealous of the cousins or family. But if you have mostly women friends and they were in touch with you on a daily basis, and constantly, I wouldn't be too happy about that either. I don't know how I would be if my husband had all women for friends and contacts. But he does have a few female friends and that's ok. There's a big difference between seeing these friends occasionally, and having daily, constant contact with them.....e-mailing, phoning or hanging out with them. That I wouldn't put up with!
2007-12-31 13:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS PART OF US AS HUMANS!! BUT THERE IS A POINT WHERE IT CAN GET TO OUT OF CONTROL! MAYBE YOU SHOULD TALK TO HER. SOUNDS LIKE YOU REALLY DO CARE FOR HER. IF NOT Y OU WOULDN'T BE ASKING! THERE ALSO SEEMS TO BE INSECURITY. HAVE YOU EVER GIVEN HER ANY REASON FOR THAT? ITS HORRIBLE WHEN YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THAT. THERE'S NO REASON TO STOP CONTACT. ESPECIALLY IF ITS FAMILY OR WORK RELATED.
2007-12-31 13:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by InToChIcK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not but i agree with sammys answer there. If you are giving her no reason to be jealous then i would say just reassurance.
Jealousy stems out of some forms of insecurity.
But something to think about is how are you treating your buddies as opposed to her
I mean if you are Always talking to them and then when it's just you and her then you really have nothing much to say then i could see where she would get upset in that she could feel like second place so to speak
Are you including her in things? Sometimes if you are even unconcoisly excluding her and not including her in things then she could be upset cause she feels left out or like she's being left behind or she may not be sure where she fits into your life anymore
I know My Bf and I had the same problem for a while but we got through it. But it took us talking and working through it together
I know the thing that upset me was that he seemed to be chatty kathy to everyone else so to speak and when it was just me and him he had little or nothing to say to me
And sometimes he tell others things that he hadn't even told me
Or Sometimes It was that I'd Tell him Something he wouldn't believe me But Someone else would tell him the Exact Same Thing Word For Word and he would be like Oh Yea And He'd Take it from them
It really hurt me and sometimes i wouldn't talk to him for a bit afterwords
But we got through it and i know that you can too
But Jealousy isn't a part of every woman no
It's what the other party does to put that feeling there
Jealously is not an emotion limited to women Men can get it too
But it's Like i said there it's what the other party does that puts it there
2007-12-31 13:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by rebel_angel031 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its born with birth of man and woman. when their expectations are satisfied they will become a subject for others to be jealousy.
if ur wife is too much jealousy means many of her expectations have not been met out. try to find those and keep satisfying it one by one.
2007-12-31 13:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by Human Being 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋